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Read before you post pleas, this is just a topic 
You know Neurofriction has a bit of a point on his threads. Just i wouldn't ever go to that extent. This is not a datting site because people don't date on here. Date actually means going out and doing somthing other then sitting on here talking about life. Id say half of you are actually are afraid to actually meet somone  what a concept. You mean i would actually have to take action and make an effert but that means i would actually enjoy a little bit of what life is. Holly Chit!
The truth is and this is not for the ones that are here to have fun and injoy your friends, but your opinions are welcome. If some of you really wanted to injoy life for what it has to offer, as finding somone. You wouldn't be wasting your time looking for the perfect one. And if you want o know about me. Ask away, i'm not afraid to take chances in life and i have. Some good and some have been a learing experience. It really don't matter what i said on this post. because people are people and they will always have a reson for one thing or another. So here you go. Enjoy 
Sorry Shadow but I have to disagree with some of what you have said....I really think most people would like to date....if you are a woman it is really hard because you've been ingrained with the idea that men have to contact you first....and that sucks because the ones that probably are out there contacting women may not be all that 'enticing' from a guys' perspective, women are picky...well so am I...so I understand why we get turned down....we want to be careful with who we spend our time.... on the other hand I agree with you, sometimes its worth taking a chance....there are many good men on this site & if more women gave us a chance i think they would be pleasantly surprised....and you are right, there is no perfect one....'as i'm inclined to say to anyone that cares to listen...'Lighten Up' and have some fun... 
Good point The thing you said about women have it in there head that men have to contact them, is half the battle. For me though, looking at how man have been on this site for over a year and can't find one date??? Have to say this. COME ON NOW You said it yourself, there are alot of good men on this site. Now this brings it back to what you said, being picky, and it's not all about being safe. I can agree to an extent, but there is a thing called life and some need to learn how to live a little. This does go both ways.
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Hey!!!
I have been on here a year and have'nt got a date. (Actually over a year) It can happen. 
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A little bit
Read before you post pleas, this is just a topic
You know Neurofriction has a bit of a point on his threads. Just i wouldn't ever go to that extent. This is not a datting site because people don't date on here. Date actually means going out and doing somthing other then sitting on here talking about life. Id say half of you are actually are afraid to actually meet somone what a concept. You mean i would actually have to take action and make an effert but that means i would actually enjoy a little bit of what life is. Holly Chit!
The truth is and this is not for the ones that are here to have fun and injoy your friends, but your opinions are welcome. If some of you really wanted to injoy life for what it has to offer, as finding somone. You wouldn't be wasting your time looking for the perfect one. And if you want o know about me. Ask away, i'm not afraid to take chances in life and i have. Some good and some have been a learing experience. It really don't matter what i said on this post. because people are people and they will always have a reson for one thing or another. So here you go. Enjoy
Sorry Shadow but I have to disagree with some of what you have said....I really think most people would like to date....if you are a woman it is really hard because you've been ingrained with the idea that men have to contact you first....and that sucks because the ones that probably are out there contacting women may not be all that 'enticing' from a guys' perspective, women are picky...well so am I...so I understand why we get turned down....we want to be careful with who we spend our time.... on the other hand I agree with you, sometimes its worth taking a chance....there are many good men on this site & if more women gave us a chance i think they would be pleasantly surprised....and you are right, there is no perfect one....'as i'm inclined to say to anyone that cares to listen...'Lighten Up' and have some fun...
Good point The thing you said about women have it in there head that men have to contact them, is half the battle. For me though, looking at how man have been on this site for over a year and can't find one date??? Have to say this. COME ON NOW You said it yourself, there are alot of good men on this site. Now this brings it back to what you said, being picky, and it's not all about being safe. I can agree to an extent, but there is a thing called life and some need to learn how to live a little. This does go both ways.
I guess i have to agree with you...it does go both ways....still many women complain they haven't had a date either.....I think we should all meet in one place & have group hugs & then lots of sex....what a wild weekend that would be.... 
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A little bit
Read before you post pleas, this is just a topic
You know Neurofriction has a bit of a point on his threads. Just i wouldn't ever go to that extent. This is not a datting site because people don't date on here. Date actually means going out and doing somthing other then sitting on here talking about life. Id say half of you are actually are afraid to actually meet somone what a concept. You mean i would actually have to take action and make an effert but that means i would actually enjoy a little bit of what life is. Holly Chit!
The truth is and this is not for the ones that are here to have fun and injoy your friends, but your opinions are welcome. If some of you really wanted to injoy life for what it has to offer, as finding somone. You wouldn't be wasting your time looking for the perfect one. And if you want o know about me. Ask away, i'm not afraid to take chances in life and i have. Some good and some have been a learing experience. It really don't matter what i said on this post. because people are people and they will always have a reson for one thing or another. So here you go. Enjoy
Sorry Shadow but I have to disagree with some of what you have said....I really think most people would like to date....if you are a woman it is really hard because you've been ingrained with the idea that men have to contact you first....and that sucks because the ones that probably are out there contacting women may not be all that 'enticing' from a guys' perspective, women are picky...well so am I...so I understand why we get turned down....we want to be careful with who we spend our time.... on the other hand I agree with you, sometimes its worth taking a chance....there are many good men on this site & if more women gave us a chance i think they would be pleasantly surprised....and you are right, there is no perfect one....'as i'm inclined to say to anyone that cares to listen...'Lighten Up' and have some fun...
Good point The thing you said about women have it in there head that men have to contact them, is half the battle. For me though, looking at how man have been on this site for over a year and can't find one date??? Have to say this. COME ON NOW You said it yourself, there are alot of good men on this site. Now this brings it back to what you said, being picky, and it's not all about being safe. I can agree to an extent, but there is a thing called life and some need to learn how to live a little. This does go both ways.
I guess i have to agree with you...it does go both ways....still many women complain they haven't had a date either.....I think we should all meet in one place & have group hugs & then lots of sex....what a wild weekend that would be....
I don't know about the sex part though
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Hey!!!
I have been on here a year and have'nt got a date. (Actually over a year) It can happen.
Yeah, so why don't you ask somone out?
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Hey!!!
I have been on here a year and have'nt got a date. (Actually over a year) It can happen.
Yeah, so why don't you ask somone out?
Agreed.... I have been with a few.... from here. Not really difficult. Hell I even have one that jumps down my throat when she disagrees with my posts... jealous *****...anyway.... if you want a relationship, even a one night stand, it's sooo easy. I don't go for those any longer, but take up my slack.... 
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Well I pose this question to you Lee. What if you do take a chance? What if when you take that chance you are rejected? But you're so out of your mind in love with this person that it's difficult to see beyond the hope that just what if? Answer me what you do when you feel helpless and there isn't anything you can do about it. What do you do then?
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Sweetie... you must take that risk.
You broke my heart, but I still believe in love. Besides, if you're rejected..... I'd say you deserve better anyway. Much Love little sister... |
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shadow..
you know that i respect your opinion.. but i have to say that i dont entirely agree.. i was on this site for more than a year.. was one of those internet "daters" just called someone my bf so that i had someone.. even if they were virtual.... then i met someone who is semi close to me.. we talked and became friends... for 6 months!!! lol.. finaly we decided to meet.. he drove the 3 hours to come see me... we went out for drinks.. refused to be seperated the whole weekend.. he arangd to have a picknick with the kids... met my family... has been back twice since then to see me... we talk every day a zillion times a day... (he works out of state so we dont see each other as much as we want) but i was here to "date" but i was just picky about it... 
we are on 6 months together now.. (plus the 6 we chatted before that) |
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sorry.. point in my rant..
this site is what you make of it.. if you go around whining.. then noone will give you the time of day.. you go around being who you are..... and people will notice you.... unless you are a whiner. lol then your screwed! hahaha |
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Sweetie... you must take that risk. You broke my heart, but I still believe in love. Besides, if you're rejected..... I'd say you deserve better anyway. Much Love little sister... Thank you for your kind words! 
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sorry.. point in my rant.. this site is what you make of it.. if you go around whining.. then noone will give you the time of day.. you go around being who you are..... and people will notice you.... unless you are a whiner. lol then your screwed! hahaha You do make somewhat of a point here. However there are always going to be people on here that have a bad day and need support of their friends. And if you judge them based on that then you're just shallow. I'm not say you are shallow, I'm just simply implying that you cannot judge someone based on the fact that they are having a difficult time. What if you have one of them days that you feel helpless and need a friend to talk to? If you judge others on this, most likely when you need someone they will not be there. Careful what you choose to say. Keep up that attitude and see where it gets you in life. On the other hand, if someone does nothing but whine all of the time then that is somewhat annoying. This is why I see your point. But do not judge others based on their imperfections. No one is perfect. |
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while i agree with you.. i have one thing to comment....
we all judge based on imperfections as well as the perfections and the whole package.. and the whole package includes those imperfections... unless you meant on imperfections alone.. which makes more sence now that i think about it... thing is... the person in question here.. has posted the same thread repetedly... not bothering to read/head any of the advice that has been offered to him... and 7 out of 10 (yes i really did count.. i was bored) of his threads are "this site sucks" threads..... if this site sucks so much.. then dont use it.. if this were just a one or 2 day thing.. ok.. but this has been every thread since i noticed this person on here months ago.. and at least 70% of their posts... this site is what you make it.. and oh so much like real life.. you have to be patient... (not my strong suit).....
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this site is good for nights like tonight when i cannot sleep and all my friends are doing just that.... i like to get on and read profiles and join in the threads.. it is enjoyable.. as far as dating... i am happy being single for now.. i am finding out who i am as a person and having some fun on the way
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while i agree with you.. i have one thing to comment.... we all judge based on imperfections as well as the perfections and the whole package.. and the whole package includes those imperfections... unless you meant on imperfections alone.. which makes more sence now that i think about it... thing is... the person in question here.. has posted the same thread repetedly... not bothering to read/head any of the advice that has been offered to him... and 7 out of 10 (yes i really did count.. i was bored) of his threads are "this site sucks" threads..... if this site sucks so much.. then dont use it.. if this were just a one or 2 day thing.. ok.. but this has been every thread since i noticed this person on here months ago.. and at least 70% of their posts... this site is what you make it.. and oh so much like real life.. you have to be patient... (not my strong suit).....
I do agree that if you do not like this site, then why waste your time posting about it? Just deactivate and move on. I know who you are talking about. So in a sense I totally agree with you. I was making a generalization in my statement above.
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Well..I'm not going to " whine " because I did enough of that for one lifetime. The whole " feel sorry for yourself " bit gets tedious after a while....
What I will say is this.... I agree, in part, with the idea that women are ingrained with the thought that the man must be the one to make first contact. I say in part because there ARE some of the more open minded women who don't think that should always be the case. I also think that, being in a visually based society, some guys just don't have the right kind of ' look ' to get a woman's attention from a couple of pics in a profile. I mean, look at me ( and no ladies, this is not a " I hate myself " type of thing, just being realistic ), I am middle of the height scale, kinday pudgy ( ok ok...pudgy. No kinda about it...lol ), and very bald. There would have to be a special kind of woman to find that combination " sexy ". That's simply not what we ( men AND women ) are programmed to see. In no way am I saying that I don't think there is someone out there who WOULD find my look a little sexy. Is she on this site? Maybe...maybe not. But even if she is, then chances are that she is one of those who have the " man makes first contact " mentality. Not gonna give up though. 
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I do agree that if you do not like this site, then why waste your time posting about it? Just deactivate and move on. I know who you are talking about. So in a sense I totally agree with you. I was making a generalization in my statement above.
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Hey!!!
I have been on here a year and have'nt got a date. (Actually over a year) It can happen.
Yeah, so why don't you ask somone out?
I did. I have e-mailed too. 
Guess its just not in my cards right now. 
Thats ok cus I have fun here anyway!
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The man has a point! This place is like a MySpace for Adults. I have met someone in here already but I like the Forums so that keeps me in here. It took me three days. That isn't the majority though, the reason is; The bigger the Bubble the more comfortable the citizen. Does Welles '1984' ring a bell with anyone?
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