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i just told a friend who when I was single I used to have a friends with benefits situation until I got into a relationship with the man im with...............well last night i he called and i told him of how great my boyfriend is and that we are thinking of long term meaning marriage type of thing..........he goes and tells me that he loves me.............should i keep talking to him as a friend or kick him to the curb.................
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move on...the problem is...people only want what they cannot have...if you are really happy and want to marry this other man...do not contact the previous one....it will only lead you down a path of destruction...
good luck!!! |
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Why kick anyone to the curb... thats kinda heartless
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i just told a friend who when I was single I used to have a friends with benefits situation until I got into a relationship with the man im with...............well last night i he called and i told him of how great my boyfriend is and that we are thinking of long term meaning marriage type of thing..........he goes and tells me that he loves me.............should i keep talking to him as a friend or kick him to the curb................. 
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I agree with drjac, it takes a really strong relationship to endure that kind of thing once you have been intimate with someone. It may be his pride talking so go with the one who has your heart and make sure you give him all of it.
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I agree with Giggles .. just let your former FWB know you aren't interested that way and you wish him well.
I also agree with JAC .. it's like a dog with a bone yanno? Enjoy your love & be happy 
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i just told a friend who when I was single I used to have a friends with benefits situation until I got into a relationship with the man im with...............well last night i he called and i told him of how great my boyfriend is and that we are thinking of long term meaning marriage type of thing..........he goes and tells me that he loves me.............should i keep talking to him as a friend or kick him to the curb................. You can play with a loaded gun, or love, your choices. |
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Edited by
Riding_Dubz
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Tue 07/22/08 07:49 PM
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Play with fire and get burnt,
Good luck with whatever desion, you choose, 
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do whats in your heart ....yet use the common cents you have
 about the whole situation..sweety !! I think you know what to do !!
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great advise but this guy knows my family and he is always around.........he is a long time family friend...........
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great advise but this guy knows my family and he is always around.........he is a long time family friend........... then he should respect your relationship and want you to be happy. |
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Depends how froggy your feelin,
This is you court your ball, call it how you see it, what are you in the realtionships, to many what if's, you seem to be doing fine this far,
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Probably kick him to the curb because he had his chance.........Sometimes you don't realize what you have until it's gone!
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Yeah just wait til the new beau finds out about this "old family friend" and your past with him.
Cut him loose. |
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Depends how froggy your feelin, This is you court your ball, call it how you see it, what are you in the realtionships, to many what if's, you seem to be doing fine this far,
Thanks but like i said he is a family friend and not really mine more of my parents and brother so now it gets complicated cuz my new man is going to be meeting my parents soon and if that guy is there........then im going to have to explain a whole lot of sh!t that i dont feel that i should since it was nothing..............but like we know when people catch feeling for someone they start doing strange and fukd up things.............
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Friends with benefits is a dumbass idea in the first place, regardless one or both parties get attached and the relationship fails. Don't do it folks!
Either way I'd say keep him as a friend, if he truly "loves" you he will be happy that you are happy...that is how you weed out the "I love you" BS. |
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Friends with benefits is a dumbass idea in the first place, regardless one or both parties get attached and the relationship fails. Don't do it folks! Either way I'd say keep him as a friend, if he truly "loves" you he will be happy that you are happy...that is how you weed out the "I love you" BS. Are you saying that you havent done that before and me being a woman and not catching feelings i thought that hey it was a good possibility that he wouldnt.................women are suppose to be the emotional ones i thought......... |
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Friends with benefits is a dumbass idea in the first place, regardless one or both parties get attached and the relationship fails. Don't do it folks! Either way I'd say keep him as a friend, if he truly "loves" you he will be happy that you are happy...that is how you weed out the "I love you" BS. Are you saying that you havent done that before and me being a woman and not catching feelings i thought that hey it was a good possibility that he wouldnt.................women are suppose to be the emotional ones i thought......... Didn't say anything about you being a woman, anyone can catch feelings from sex...it is an emotional response to the physical action. Yes I have done it, and even then thought it was a dumbass idea. |
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Friends with benefits is a dumbass idea in the first place, regardless one or both parties get attached and the relationship fails. Don't do it folks! Either way I'd say keep him as a friend, if he truly "loves" you he will be happy that you are happy...that is how you weed out the "I love you" BS. Are you saying that you havent done that before and me being a woman and not catching feelings i thought that hey it was a good possibility that he wouldnt.................women are suppose to be the emotional ones i thought......... Didn't say anything about you being a woman, anyone can catch feelings from sex...it is an emotional response to the physical action. Yes I have done it, and even then thought it was a dumbass idea. Well i think it will work if all parties know their limits.............i dont think i complicated the relationship and we were done before i started with my new man so I think it just was something he had in the back of his head...........he actually had a girlfriend while I was dating my man and we were done awhile back...... |
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I agree with drjac, it takes a really strong relationship to endure that kind of thing once you have been intimate with someone. It may be his pride talking so go with the one who has your heart and make sure you give him all of it. I tend to agree with Kim on this...no need to kick him to the curb, a long talk is in order tho |
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