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Topic: Losing interest
alicat4213 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9079	Tue 07/22/08 03:23 PM
For the guys.. what causes you to lose interest in the one you supposedly love?? It seems like every man that has supposedly LOVED me leaves me for reasons unknown to me because I honestly haven't changed... I just need input. Thanks

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 07/22/08 03:25 PM
Mishaped boobs

Wolf19 Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 6172	Tue 07/22/08 03:25 PM
lack of conversation?

alicat4213 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9079	Tue 07/22/08 03:26 PM
There were no problems with that.. We talk everyday without things getting dull and my boobs... havent had complaints

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Tue 07/22/08 03:27 PM
I just need input. Thanks Did you tell them that???

Neurofriction Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1840	Tue 07/22/08 03:27 PM
You would have to talk to me a little. need to see if your crazy or not..lol

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Tue 07/22/08 03:27 PM
For the guys.. what causes you to lose interest in the one you supposedly love?? It seems like every man that has supposedly LOVED me leaves me for reasons unknown to me because I honestly haven't changed... I just need input. Thanks not giveing us sex in first week ok first day

alicat4213 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9079	Tue 07/22/08 03:28 PM
Ive asked and got the old its not you its me crap

jfjfw Joined Wed 07/16/08 Posts: 71	Tue 07/22/08 03:28 PM
something like lack of maturity creating an inability to commit i think

merlin2525 Joined Sun 06/17/07 Posts: 2819	Tue 07/22/08 03:30 PM
I'm not gonna say all men or all women, But there are some men and also some women that are only in it for the chase. After they have caught and conquered, they grow bored. Even if they have something great. They just can't help themselves. They have to resume the chase.

alicat4213 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9079	Tue 07/22/08 03:30 PM
then thats sad because every guy ive dated is at least 5 years older than me

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Tue 07/22/08 03:30 PM
Ive asked and got the old its not you its me crap thats a cop out when they say that! women or men they just dont want to tell the truth afraid youll get angry

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Tue 07/22/08 03:30 PM
For the guys.. what causes you to lose interest in the one you supposedly love?? It seems like every man that has supposedly LOVED me leaves me for reasons unknown to me because I honestly haven't changed... I just need input. Thanks I got fu**ing tired of sharing. I would have given my life for her but she thought the grass was greener on the other side

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Tue 07/22/08 03:30 PM Edited by briancarr on Tue 07/22/08 03:33 PM
For the guys.. what causes you to lose interest in the one you supposedly love?? It seems like every man that has supposedly LOVED me leaves me for reasons unknown to me because I honestly haven't changed... I just need input. Thanks If you havent change, that might make things a little stale, depending on what you mean. Sometime Guys miss the Hunt. The stimulation of catching someone new. It doesnt mean they dont like you. Its hard to keep someone interested, if their mind is set on doing someone else. It has to be inside the person,to want to be with one person, and make them everything they need in a relationship. If you are a good, and caring person, dont change. The right person, just hasnt come along. Good Luck

alicat4213 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9079	Tue 07/22/08 03:32 PM
aww thanks

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Tue 07/22/08 03:33 PM
then thats sad because every guy ive dated is at least 5 years older than me 10 years older and im probaly still to opld

IloveChatt Joined Tue 11/06/07 Posts: 121	Tue 07/22/08 03:34 PM
everyone.. in their own way is crazy.. OCD.. They have ADD.. Do you see the commercials on tv? You just gotta find someone yin to you yang. Proven fact: men take up more of a percentage of the world than woman. FACT: Woman are more likely to A. be in a relationship. B. Get laid. Its in our favor honey.

alicat4213 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9079	Tue 07/22/08 03:34 PM
No I was engaged to a guy twice my age lol it just ended..

passionart Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 1396	Tue 07/22/08 03:41 PM
For the guys.. what causes you to lose interest in the one you supposedly love?? It seems like every man that has supposedly LOVED me leaves me for reasons unknown to me because I honestly haven't changed... I just need input. Thanks Maybe to change might be a good idea; change outlook and routine.

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Tue 07/22/08 03:44 PM
Did you make sure he had snacks at all times?