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Topic: Ok Serious Question for the Guys
auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sat 07/19/08 05:22 PM
If you really really like someone, and think your feelings run even deeper, or could....and you meet, how many of you focus on the woman you've been speaking with for months, or weeks, and fallin for vs. if she could stand to lose say 10 lbs or jiggles a little and needs to tone up? They say women actually think more about these things than men do. So I thought I'd ask.

Chazster Joined Tue 08/28/07 Posts: 6206	Sat 07/19/08 05:23 PM
This is confusing me? is there more than one woman? I am not sure what you are trying to say.

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Sat 07/19/08 05:23 PM
10 lbs is nothing.

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Sat 07/19/08 05:24 PM
10lbs is fine...if its 50lbs...I'd be alittle shocked and put off by it...you know those showing old pics of themselves

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Sat 07/19/08 05:24 PM
10lbs is fine...if its 50lbs...I'd be alittle shocked and put off by it...you know those showing old pics of themselves EXACTLY.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 07/19/08 05:25 PM
If you really really like someone, and think your feelings run even deeper, or could....and you meet, how many of you focus on the woman you've been speaking with for months, or weeks, and fallin for vs. if she could stand to lose say 10 lbs or jiggles a little and needs to tone up? They say women actually think more about these things than men do. So I thought I'd ask. hmmmmmm wonder what prompted THIS?

kkKen Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 11228	Sat 07/19/08 05:28 PM
I just look forward to meeting the person i've ben talking to 10lbs or not

ReconParty19 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 461	Sat 07/19/08 05:29 PM
There is the problem stop thinking about it and get in shape!

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sat 07/19/08 05:30 PM
((((connie)))) Do I need to ***** slap you AGAIN

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Sat 07/19/08 05:30 PM
I'm sure everyone is different, but my experience has shown that the women I tend to fall for are not the same women I am intitially physically attracted to. Personality, heart, sense of humor and connection are much higher on the list of importance. Physical fitness does factor in, it's just not #1.

dealer4519 Joined Wed 08/29/07 Posts: 61	Sat 07/19/08 05:31 PM
I just look forward to meeting the person i've ben talking to 10 lbs or not I feel that way, if they are what I want, I can fatten them with food or help them with swimming... I want the perfect soul mate and I can't find that going through pictures! But I am not a guy!

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Sat 07/19/08 05:32 PM
its this way...if you present yourself online, you should have recent pics...thin, fat, short, tall...doesn't matter...just be real, not show your high school pics or before you had kids...

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Sat 07/19/08 05:34 PM
lots of guys don't really care about a little bit of jiggly... in fact, they welcome it... they'd much rather have a jiggly woman than none at all... lol

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Sat 07/19/08 05:35 PM
lots of guys don't really care about a little bit of jiggly... in fact, they welcome it... they'd much rather have a jiggly woman than none at all... lol very true...I like jiggle alot

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 07/19/08 05:36 PM
Once when I flew to Boston to meet a guy .. he was 20#s overweight of his picture, had lost some hair yada yada. OMG. He actually asked me 15 min from the airport if I thought he looked like his pic. I said ....... uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh well, uhhhhhhhhhhh I really didn't know what to say. BUT .. after 3 days together he was such an amazing host and we had so much fun .. I coulda cared less. It was the best trip I'd had for a LDR meet

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5376	Sat 07/19/08 05:36 PM
I got toooooooooooooooo much jiggle!!! but i got alot less jiggle then i had a few years ago... and hopefully will have less jiggle in a few more years!!!!

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Sat 07/19/08 05:37 PM
Once when I flew to Boston to meet a guy .. he was 20#s overweight of his picture, had lost some hair yada yada. OMG. He actually asked me 15 min from the airport if I thought he looked like his pic. I said ....... uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh well, uhhhhhhhhhhh I really didn't know what to say. BUT .. after 3 days together he was such an amazing host and we had so much fun .. I coulda cared less. It was the best trip I'd had for a LDR meet Was this guy named Pat?

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sat 07/19/08 05:39 PM
((((connie)))) Do I need to ***** slap you AGAIN Don't worry Betty! I'm not 500lbs or anything but after sooo much frickin caretaking and sitting with cancer, (husband), Heart (dad) and altzheimers (mother) patients...I could be more toned. Weight has never been an issue for me, so far knock on wood!

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Sat 07/19/08 05:39 PM
lots of guys don't really care about a little bit of jiggly... in fact, they welcome it... they'd much rather have a jiggly woman than none at all... lol Jiggly is good. You nailed it.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sat 07/19/08 05:41 PM
Well I have to say, the whole "barbie" thing...I mean I look at runway models and think OMG go eat a HAMBURGER or something!