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| Topic: Mind games or Straight Up?! | |
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I want to know if you like playing the game, or if you just wish they would say it from the beginning and skip the whole battle
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straight up. Just say it. No BS.
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I wish that people would be straight forward with me... you wither like me or you don't.. please don't play games with my head or heart either.. it just hurts worse...
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To me playin games is soooo draining plus its a waste of time and emotion. If you like someone go for it, if you dont then walk away...lets all be grown ups
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depends on what cards are dealt my way..if the guy tries and plays me..(and guys you know who u are..lol)..then i will play my mindgames. If on the other hand the guy is not the player type i will be straight forward with him..no games.
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hmmmmm....... But ppl usually play the game so they arent taken as "easy" which makes sense, since the girl who makes you work for it usually catches most guys interest and vice versa. No girl will go for a guy who just says right away, "Im interesting in dating you", and if they do.... well...... desperate?
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well depends..I wish some guys were upfront w/ their feelings..yea of course mainly the ones I am interested in..If I am not interested it does kinda scare me off a bit..lol
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Yeah.. maybe it would be alittle bit scary, but on the other hand.. it would be nice to knwo exactly how the other person is feeling instead of being lead on...
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is it being led on or is the person just trying to protect their own feelings aswell? We have to see the whole spectrum
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I find it ironic how each one of us says we don't like games and we'd wish people would be more straight up. Unfortunately the majority of us are'nt like that and we tend to play games like it or not, even if unintentional or in our subconscious, to try and figure the other person out. basically on stranger to stranger basis you're stuck with it.
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hmmmmm....... But ppl usually play the game so they arent taken as "easy" which makes sense, since the girl who makes you work for it usually catches most guys interest and vice versa. No girl will go for a guy who just says right away, "Im interesting in dating you", and if they do.... well...... desperate? Im sorry but I dont play games and I am not "easy". I jus get so tired of tryin to guess whats goin on all the time! Whats so wrong with sayin "Hey I like you" "wow I like you too!" ???? |
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I find it ironic how each one of us says we don't like games and we'd wish people would be more straight up. Unfortunately the majority of us are'nt like that and we tend to play games like it or not, even if unintentional or in our subconscious, to try and figure the other person out. basically on stranger to stranger basis you're stuck with it.
very very true.. you make a good point.. I guess each of us do paly games.. even if we don't like it... |
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is it being led on or is the person just trying to protect their own feelings aswell? We have to see the whole spectrum I think the other person is usually trying to protect their own feelings, so they are not leading on but covering up their emotions... however... it would be nice if they could be open... |
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relationships obvioulsy reach that point where you gotta be more open, but just laying it on the line right away isnt realistic if you know whats best for yourself
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straight up. Just say it. No BS. 
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straight up. Just say it. No BS.
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relationships obvioulsy reach that point where you gotta be more open, but just laying it on the line right away isnt realistic if you know whats best for yourself Why not lay it on the line right away? Saves a lot of time and energy. I either like somebody or I don't. JMHO 
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hmmmmm....... But ppl usually play the game so they arent taken as "easy" which makes sense, since the girl who makes you work for it usually catches most guys interest and vice versa. No girl will go for a guy who just says right away, "Im interesting in dating you", and if they do.... well...... desperate? What is wrong with telling someone straight up that you are interested in dating them? You will know the honest response, either way. It does NOT make a woman desperate if she finds honesty refreshing. It's only creepy if the person is claiming undying love immediately. If that's the case, I also would like to know they are a psycho nutbag right away!! |
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I want to know if you like playing the game, or if you just wish they would say it from the beginning and skip the whole battle Ladies: Just tell me, PLEASE 
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straight up,no games,no BS, honesty is a must no matter how brutal that honesty is in my opinion!
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