Why waste time playing games, when that time could be spent getting to know one another and developing ameaningful relationship. Honesty goes hand in hand with trust.

WTF is the "game" i hear this all the time and my crazy ex use to use the expression and am I out of the loop . . I know what playing games is or being a game player . . but what the heck is the GAME ??? and are only females aware of this because of the fact they play it ??

I want to find somebody to play chess with me.

I know it's been ages since I've posted anything on JSH...ahem sorry... I mean MINGLE2, but allow me to tell all you guys a little something about CHEMISTRY.

If you're saying that you want to skip the game and just be "straight up and say it from the beginning," you are essentially prioritizing compatibility. You just want to get to the point and see if the two of you are going to work out together, right? Sure, that may sound great, but you're sacrificing something important along the way.

Chemistry is essentially spawned from sexual tension. All women with experience in dating and sex are reading that statement right now and nodding their heads in agreement. Most men, however, will be utterly confused. "Isn't tension a bad thing? Isn't resolution always the end goal?" they will ask.

Would you really want to watch a movie that has JUST a happy ending without all the mess in the middle? Be my guest to pay ten bucks to go watch that movie, but I ain't joining ya.

Playing the game isn't a waste of time. It's an opportunity to build sexual tension, create chemistry, and really get to know the other person through a fun and challenging experience. There WILL be conflict, but that's where the necessary tension comes from. In fact, I oftentimes FAKE conflict with women (and they KNOW it's fake but they play along) to create a flirty vibe between me and her.

The tension makes the release all that much better. It's like building up an orgasm within a woman - you keep bringing her to the brink of orgasm but you tell her to relax her body so that she's unable to... after you do this several times, you tell her to cum and the result is an explosion of pleasure multiplied several times over. The push/pull dynamic between the tension and the release that follows is essentially what the game is, and that is what makes interactions between the sexes fun and fulfilling.

Calling the game "BS" is just nonsense.

straight up i hate games iam honsty i got nothing to hide names chuck nice to meet you.

No games, I'm not in High school

I've always been a little niave in these areas... What are these games people refer too? I mean, I've been used a few times, toyed with, been stomped on, had my heart ripped out a couple times, but I don't remember any games.

I cannot think of a single time in my life where I thought. She must have done it because someone dared her. Or maybe, she's just adding to the talley. Or even, I must have been part of a scavenger hunt. I'm sure a couple people went out with me just because I was "different" than the other guys they knew. But I wouldn't call that playing a game.

I've often seen "no games" written, but never understood what they were talking about. I've always kind of wore my heart on my sleeve and was honest with folks, and I know there are those that don't. What I want to know is what do these people do that makes everyone scared to meet someone new? I'll honestly say, I haven't gone out with all that many people in my life, so I just don't know what you are talking about.