Okay... so my question is... why is it that guys hit on me all the time and say that I'm beautiful, hot, sexy ect. and yet it never actually get as far as a date?..... or better yet.... Why is it that guys will talk amongst themselves about me ( I can hear them bcuz apparently no one knows how to whisper anymore) but no one eve has the guts to ask me out?

whats up with that? advice?... points of views?

i feel ya. been there

I think that would be " Some " guys do that!!

Remember, some guys are intimidated by "beautiful, hot, sexy, etc." Have you ever thought of asking someone out yourself? Little scary, but just might get the response you are seeking.

think we should just shoot'em?

think we should just shoot'em?

Yup its tough..its hard enough for a guy to ask out a decent looking chick..and then a hottie comes along..and they freak out even more..I know we women hate rejection, but for a dude being turned down is a major hit to their Ego..
Well at that point you have to take the compliment and run w/ it..you make the next move..
It's ok for a woman to ask the guy out..no need to be old fashioned about it anymore, especally if you are clearly seeing that they are interested in you, but they are afraid to make the first move.
maby you give off a vibe that you are unattainable which guys do like that in a girl..but would have a hard time asking out.

I say...just decide which one you want to go out with the most, truck right over to them and say " Hey, You got the guts to ask me out or am I gonna have to ask you to take me out?" Works best when they are in the company of other guys.


If you get no responce with that...then just toss them on the floor and have your way with them

okay... try this.... ive only ever been asked out 4 times in my life.... ive had to do the asking every other time.... i get hit on every day at work... i have coworkers who come giggling to tell me about one group of guys or another who were saying something about me and yet no one ever seems to have the guts to actually say hi atleast to me..... it kinda really frustrating because i meet a lot of really great guys, but it seems like i never even have a chance.... so for me so far it has been like "every guy"......

Better send a note to Peccy...never mind she has a cabin and a rope.

federal law section 18 paragraph 4 prohibits ya "just shoot em"

ok u are 19 years old and umm you have been asked out 4 times and sounds like u do most of the asking out..how many boyfriends have you had?
u are only 19!!!
Sounds to me like you are a rare commodity at your work place you work w/ alot of guys?
The best looking chick gets all the compliments...(been there done that..lol).
But there is a time when u have to distinguish between a compliment..(which guys will dish out by the pound, especially if they feel it will get them somewhere..ha ha) or someone that is sincerly looking for a relationship or date..not all guys giving compliments are seeking a date..just my train of thought.

lol almost makes me wish I was a woman so some one would finally ask me out.. not.

Some guys are just right out scared of being turned down or alway because most all woman play head / mind games with guys and never are up front enough... there for making it very confusion for some if not most guys to even ask out woman they think might be hot etc.

I've only asked out one co worker in the pass and learned a hard lesson to that.. it doesn't work because I never got any where, that seemed to be the last time I ever asked any woman out at least at work,etc.

Maybe they assume you're taken because you're so pretty. Have you tried approaching them?

Your friends, seem kinda shady,

very well said cinderella!!

actually yeah... that seems to be what it comes to almost every time.... like this past year... hanging out a lot with a friend, with a large group mind you... he was always by my side.... but he would never ask me out or even talk to me outside of the group.... it drove me insane and i could never understand it... even his best friend told me that he liked me and he still didnt ask me out so i did it for him......... that seems to always be my story

Well if I was younger I would ask you out in a heart beat....what is the worst thing you could say NO.....