Topic: Oppsites attract | |
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are you the type of person who likes to date people like you or people
completely opposite of you. myself ive been attracted to both but would rather have someone a lil like me so i think that things might last longer |
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Sometimes it's better to find opposites, they complement each other.
Similars may very well become a monotonous friendship. Opposites with some common interest are best. Those interest that are different may be the complemental part of the relationship. So do not seek and yet shall find. |
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To much the same is not good. I think it would get boring . You need a
little bit to compete about every now an then. |
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Can't agree on this. I think in the long run LIKEs attract, both think
similar & have the same drive. Just have to be willing to compromise. Frst. wife an opposite = bad time = divorce. Second wife like me = 14 best yrs of my life. My best friends are like me. Birds of a feather flock together. Successful people meet w/successful people. Read self motivating books, they |
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Can't agree on this. I think in the long run LIKEs attract, both think
similar & have the same drive. Just have to be willing to compromise. Frst. wife an opposite = bad time = divorce. Second wife like me = 14 best yrs of my life. My best friends are like me. Birds of a feather flock together. Successful people meet w/successful people. Read self motivating books, they |
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hit wrong key SORRY
Motivational books all say, surround your self w/people you want to be like. Listen, learn, it will surprixe how much faster you succeed. Try it, really works. |
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The best relationship I ever had was with a girl who was more like me
than anyone I ever met -- same IQ, same beliefs on politics and religion and marriage and family and philosophy and authors and people in general, etc. And we NEVER ran out of things to talk about. It was truly amazing. I had never experienced anything even remotely like that, and I'm sure I never will again. |
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sage, ur repeating ur self...lol
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I think similarities are good since having same interests would lead to
fun activities together. Opposites, on the other hand, may lead to new experiences. |
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And if the opposites are TOO extreme, it makes it hard to communicate
sometimes. I think you need at least a little bit of common ground to set up some sort of foundation. |
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I think the Same background is good. Cause then you will probably have
the same beliefs in upbringing. I also think that different likes on some things brings something new to the relationship. an equal amount of both would be awesome. |
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Well I would hope so I don't think I could even put up with myself
I can't take myself seriously |
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I need someone that thinks similar to me.Think maybe the divorce rate is
so high because so many opposites are getting together? |
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I have dated all sorts.. like me, inbetween. and opposite.. they were
all fun dates.. |
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one more like me
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i have to say mac is like the other side of the same coin for me ive
never met anyone i have so much in common with and im head over heals for her . |
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I have a strong personality and need a man with a back bone or it gets
boring for me real fast. I cant be with a real passive man. |
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I ve dated both, as long as she has same morals and similar intrests I
would date an oppisite |
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I would prefer someone with my interests yes, but on the other hand
having someone completely opposite is just as fine, makes for a bit of a challenge if u know what i mean |
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Im with someone who is almost Identical to me and it is the best thing
that has ever happend to me. It is so easy to hold a conversation with her and she knows what the hell you are trying to say. They say opposites attract, well yeah they do. Until you have to explain what you are talking about and it starts to become a hassle. |
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