I saw someone say this line today, in the form?It gose ,I still love
him Just not the way I used too. I was told this in past relaionships.
PLease In lighten me?
Thank you ,
Mlookin4W

its kinda like with my exhusbind .even thow he tryed to kill me 2 times
there willalways be a place in my hart hor him and i will allwas love
him 1 because we spent 7 years together and 2 because he gave me 2 of
the most importint things in my life witch then became my reason to live
and leave befor it was to late

Most of the time, it means they still love you but they might not be as
IN love with you as they once were. They still have feelings for you but
they are not as deep as they use to be. Have you ever been with someone
and then broke up and thought, what the hell was I thinking? Its kind of
like that, its kind of like being with someone and you don't know why.
Hotmomma...is this man in prison? How in the hell can you still have
feelings for someone that tried to kill you not once but twice? I think
thats kind of crazy...that can't be love esp. on his part.

Hi sexy nurse!, how are you today?,let me be your doctor for this while,
you see life is like that, don't blame yrself for anything that has
happened, just pick up the courage to hold on and push forward strongly,
as regards yr still loving him,it's normal like you rightly said, you
stayed sometime together(7yrs),your love him would continue, well, think
he fells the same way too. . well just be careful anyway. cheers and
take care! hope to chat with you some day.

Good question! Some women are actually being quite honest when they say
this line! I have said it myself! You can still love someone because
they have been a special part of your life, but you just don't have the
feeling of love that you know the other person wants and deserves. I
guess it is sort of like loving someone with a lesser klove than they
deserve!
Hope this helps!
Deetles

unsure...yes he is in prision and i dont axcualy love him for him i love
him for the 2 butiful babys he gave me and now a singal mom with real
young girls i dont want them to think its ok to hate so i convinced
myself to say i love him for the angels he gave me

I guess they know what they are talking about, but, for me it means I do
not just love you as a friend anymore, it has grown into something much
stronger. I agree with the one that said, after he tried to kill you 2
times?, what is your problem? Got some need for pain? I would not have
stayed after the first time. I have never in my life done anything that
gave anyone the right to take my life, and pain, not me. You got to hit
someone go jump off a cliff and you take the pain. Hope you woke up now
and do not attempt that again.

i have never understood that, i know what it means literally but i have
never had it said to me with that meaning. if someone said that to you
would'nt you think that they wanted to end the relationship, i did when
it was said to me but she didn't want to end it(which probably would
have been better to do if i knew what was coming). some people are
extremely confused about their emotions and what to do about them but
i'm really tired of taking the blame for that. fuckin figure it out.

I injoyed all your addvice an input on my ?
Thank you all very much!

P.S. My last girl friend used this nine on me. After she had all ready
hoop into "Mr. Tatoo`s Art" bed.I`m greatful now, but was a dead man
walking for more then three months. My devorce from my x-wife of 14 yrs.
didn`t even make me feel so shitty and second gessing my self.

That really depends onthe situation. I too have had a violent
relationship and to this day he holds a place in my heart. The violence
wasn't right...that's for sure, but I know that there was something else
behind it other than just him. I know now (and found out then as well)
that he had relapsed into a terrible drug addiction and had gone back to
IV drug use. I can say for my own experience that the person that I
fell in love with and the person that hurt me were not the same man.

The heart is foolish...that is why we're given a mind as well. However,
sometimes your heart yells so loud you can't even hear what your mind is
saying...

It means that they still love you in the way that they care about you
and what happens to you, but they are not "IN" love with you anymore.
That special spark is no longer there. Hope this helps.

That's right when I tell a guy that I love him and care about but not
truly still in love with him; it mean we are the best of friends just
not friends with benefits so to speaK:)

I think when someone falls into the drug situation, you truly are
dealing with a totally different person. You have one person that you
use to love...then you have the other person who is now on drugs who is
so out of touch with reality. Its a bad situation when the one you love
has a drug problem...esp. an IV drug problem, because now you are
talking about chances of getting Aids and Hep., I hope that you have
walked away...you listened to your head and not your heart---it might be
difficult, but it would be the smart choice!
I know that I have said that I love you but its just not the same,I
didn't want to hurt him, but I fell out of love with him but did want to
continue being friends. I think its easy to make someone fall in love
with you, the hard part is keeping that person IN love with you!!

i know a few men themselves that has said this to me as i did to them,
but i don't think that's it's an incentive of let's break up. i think
it's more...i want things to be the way they use to be. what happened to
the excitement and unkindleing love that we shared when the one of us
would walk into a room and be completely mezmerized, the same thing day
in and day out routine is what does it, u got to make that person fall
inlove with you all over again everyday that yall are together.

but if you say you want things to be the way they used to be and the
other person has not changed it should be up to you to suggest something
or to at least know what the hell has made you feel differently and if
you can't, why stay in a relationship that is headed nowhere because you
are'nt in love with them..why would i marry you if you are'nt in love
with me. break up and be friends

language is the soultion of every problem. and if ur just not feeling
it, no matter what the other person does or says to try and make things
work, well then it's not going to work. so yeah, u might as well say,
"see ya!"
u know i've tried that lets be friends but, they don't ever stick around
for that either, not unless ur givin it up to them; then they might hang
around for a little while but, isn't ever open to you like the friend
you once knew.

All of your responces on page two. Are hitting the nail on the head. I
to decided two vanish. After two trips to see her,"ha ha ha, LOL" ok,The
trough to get laid. And some how make her new B.F.feel a little on the
uneasy side.But to look back at that.I was the dumist of us all.
I continued to looking for that spark!!!!!!!
Thanks lots of help.

someone said before that the heart ruled with the fire of emotion and
the mind ruled with the coolness of logical thinking. i have seen so
many people get caught up in the emotion of the situation and would not
calm down and think about what they were doing and it really ended in a
bad way.
there isn't anything wrong with feeling your emotions but alot of people
don't know how to handle their emotions and rational thought gets thrown
out the window. no one should ever make a decision based on emotion,
that's what we have minds for. emotion is meant for us to use to feel
and our mind is meant for us to make decisions, not the other way
around. an act based off emotion is a reaction and there has been not
thought put into it and alot of people hurt theirselves and others when
they run off of pure emtion. when someone reacts to emotion rather than
thinking about why they feel that way and how it relates to the goods
and bad of the situation and it's possible outcome they tend to shut out
the facts of what's going on and it's almost like being selfish because
the outcome has to be centered around what they want.
because i feel my emotions but don't let them run my life i have made
far more good decisions than bad and i don't get stuck in relationships
that are not healthy. i wish that my last serious relationship did not
end the way it did but the fact is, it did and i can't change that
because it did not have anything to do with me so you move on.

Don't you honestly just feel better when you end the whole situation? I
think thats what it is all about. We want to say when its over. I know
for me, I really never have a hard time walking away because I am always
the one to say this is just not working out for me. I can always sense
when the relationship is about to end, so I always call it quits before
the guy does. Then they are the ones that have to try to figure out why
I called it quits and play with all that emotional garbage...honestly,
the signs are there when its about to end, its just that we choose not
to see them.

i try to do everything in my power to make a relationship work but if it
is not a concerted effort, it won't work. i saw where it was going but i
tried to resolve the issue but it became a problem because she really
did seem to hate me but when ever i said that it was unhealthy and i was
gonna leave she started crying and would beg me to stay. it really was
an unhealthy relationship for her but she could not see that. i would
have liked to come to a solution because i did love her but she did not
even know what was wrong except that she felt like she hated me for some
reason. i had to make the decision because she wasn't going to help and
it wasn't going to get any better. it made her change into a person that
i could not even call a friend anymore and she is bitter and really
hates me know because i left but i didn't have any other choice. i knew
i made the right decision and it didn't hurt one bit.