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Topic: Why are some Women labeled Gold diggers...What about some Me
MontanaBound's photo
Tue 07/15/08 11:06 AM
Well... I was in a relationship and he got scared and ran.... Later he said he ran because he felt that he could have dropped everything and just married me that day.... But he didn't want to lose everything again. Well I thought "What do you have"... You live with your Mom and Dad and drive their Truck. Mind you that when I met him he told me that he had a Truck, Horse Trailer and a Horse ect... Well the Bank took the Truck, He sold the Horse Trailer and gave the Horse away. Never did I see any of this. However, He has been to my Farm and also to my Rental Property,seen my Horses ect... Well he asked me to Marry him and I just couldn't. Now I'm the Bad Person. Why do some Men want to take from women? Single Mothers at that. Knowing that they have worked their butts off to earn what they have??? I am NOT a Man hater... I know that there are Great Men out there... I just haven't found mine Yet. Can you help me understand... WHY?

lilith401's photo
Tue 07/15/08 11:12 AM
There is really nothing to understand. It had nothing to do with you.

Really. Just move on. There is no sense trying to make sense of the irrational actions of irrational people. It is nonsensical, literally.

boneyjoe's photo
Tue 07/15/08 11:15 AM
it ant just men,,that try tp pull that crap,even on here there are women thats in there 20's wanting to start a relationship with an old fat like me,,,,,big red flag,,,,,,got to be a scam,,,,,,,,,so i feel like there some men on here doing th same thing

no photo
Tue 07/15/08 11:18 AM

Well... I was in a relationship and he got scared and ran.... Later he said he ran because he felt that he could have dropped everything and just married me that day.... But he didn't want to lose everything again. Well I thought "What do you have"... You live with your Mom and Dad and drive their Truck. Mind you that when I met him he told me that he had a Truck, Horse Trailer and a Horse ect... Well the Bank took the Truck, He sold the Horse Trailer and gave the Horse away. Never did I see any of this. However, He has been to my Farm and also to my Rental Property,seen my Horses ect... Well he asked me to Marry him and I just couldn't. Now I'm the Bad Person. Why do some Men want to take from women? Single Mothers at that. Knowing that they have worked their butts off to earn what they have??? I am NOT a Man hater... I know that there are Great Men out there... I just haven't found mine Yet. Can you help me understand... WHY?


Figurin his trick back fired on him ......lie to impress,check out whats to gain,smooze into marriage.
Ahhhh... but some of us are to smart for that! One bad apple dosen't spoil the whole bunch.... hang in there Montanna

MontanaBound's photo
Tue 07/15/08 11:30 AM
Yes, He thought he had a Stupid Woman... Not Me.

no photo
Tue 07/15/08 11:33 AM
gold digging men!!!noway noway noway noway

oldsage's photo
Tue 07/15/08 11:38 AM
That is what Prenup. contracts are for.
Always protect what you have & all your assets.
Sex does not matter & that is one of the problems with second, third, fourth, etc. relationships.
We older folks have to protect ourselves if things don't work out.

MontanaBound's photo
Tue 07/15/08 11:40 AM

That is what Prenup. contracts are for.
Always protect what you have & all your assets.
Sex does not matter & that is one of the problems with second, third, fourth, etc. relationships.
We older folks have to protect ourselves if things don't work out.

MontanaBound's photo
Tue 07/15/08 11:42 AM


That is what Prenup. contracts are for.
Always protect what you have & all your assets.
Sex does not matter & that is one of the problems with second, third, fourth, etc. relationships.
We older folks have to protect ourselves if things don't work out.




Must have Real Love to Marry.... Sex wasn't that Good at all...

MontanaBound's photo
Tue 07/15/08 12:56 PM

Well... I was in a relationship and he got scared and ran.... Later he said he ran because he felt that he could have dropped everything and just married me that day.... But he didn't want to lose everything again. Well I thought "What do you have"... You live with your Mom and Dad and drive their Truck. Mind you that when I met him he told me that he had a Truck, Horse Trailer and a Horse ect... Well the Bank took the Truck, He sold the Horse Trailer and gave the Horse away. Never did I see any of this. However, He has been to my Farm and also to my Rental Property,seen my Horses ect... Well he asked me to Marry him and I just couldn't. Now I'm the Bad Person. Why do some Men want to take from women? Single Mothers at that. Knowing that they have worked their butts off to earn what they have??? I am NOT a Man hater... I know that there are Great Men out there... I just haven't found mine Yet. Can you help me understand... WHY?

MontanaBound's photo
Tue 07/15/08 01:39 PM
Does anyone else care that there are also MEN Gold Diggers????

auburngirl's photo
Tue 07/15/08 01:44 PM
Of course. We have to be careful of many things today we didn't think about fresh out of college.

DestinysDream's photo
Tue 07/15/08 02:14 PM
There have always been men god diggers. Look at that 1,000 year old man who is married to Zsa Zsa but had an affair with Anna-Nicole Smith.

Just move on I say. If you think guys are gold diggers then date someone only on your own level financially. Sounds like there were other bad things this guy had too. I think love cuts way beyond material things. Like is so damn short to worry about that IMO. Hope you find that special guy. Never give up, never!

Remember: "You can't take it with you."

MontanaBound's photo
Tue 07/15/08 02:28 PM

There have always been men god diggers. Look at that 1,000 year old man who is married to Zsa Zsa but had an affair with Anna-Nicole Smith.

Just move on I say. If you think guys are gold diggers then date someone only on your own level financially. Sounds like there were other bad things this guy had too. I think love cuts way beyond material things. Like is so damn short to worry about that IMO. Hope you find that special guy. Never give up, never!

Remember: "You can't take it with you."

You are Right... But I can leave it with my Girls and My Grand Babies... I have worked my Butt off for what I have and I am not letting someone take it from me.

Loves2Please's photo
Tue 07/15/08 02:37 PM
See yall are talking about gold digging men,,true there out there,,but have yall ever think of the men out here that hate the men that do that ****,,see in my mind that makes me look bad,,im the kind of a guy that will give to my woman,,and do for her,,and love the way she needs to be,,and for the money part,,she needs only to pay for what we need around the house,,and things shge wants for her self,,and at times she could buy me something,,lol,,but in all,,it the mans true mind to take care of his house hold,,and his woman,,I hate the fact there is DEAD BEAT DADS out there or for the most part,,the DEAD BEAT AZZ HOLES that cant seem to TREAT A WOMAN WITH RESPECT,LOVE,TRUST,...Good Guys Finish Last...Sweet Woman Never Finish Looking For Mr.Right

MontanaBound's photo
Tue 07/15/08 02:49 PM

See yall are talking about gold digging men,,true there out there,,but have yall ever think of the men out here that hate the men that do that ****,,see in my mind that makes me look bad,,im the kind of a guy that will give to my woman,,and do for her,,and love the way she needs to be,,and for the money part,,she needs only to pay for what we need around the house,,and things shge wants for her self,,and at times she could buy me something,,lol,,but in all,,it the mans true mind to take care of his house hold,,and his woman,,I hate the fact there is DEAD BEAT DADS out there or for the most part,,the DEAD BEAT AZZ HOLES that cant seem to TREAT A WOMAN WITH RESPECT,LOVE,TRUST,...Good Guys Finish Last...Sweet Woman Never Finish Looking For Mr.Right
Thank You Darlin... That is what I am looking for a REAL MAN! I have 2 kids that I have raised by myself also 1 more that wasn't even mine but she became mine.

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Tue 07/15/08 03:49 PM
just listen to that guy guys r here that arent good some women arent good but ur better off with out him for sure

chuck366's photo
Tue 07/15/08 03:49 PM

There is really nothing to understand. It had nothing to do with you.

Really. Just move on. There is no sense trying to make sense of the irrational actions of irrational people. It is nonsensical, literally.


hey u!

MontanaBound's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:06 PM
Come on... Lets hear what you think???

MontanaBound's photo
Tue 07/15/08 05:07 PM
Please Let me hear what you think....

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