I can. As long as you give of your self what you can without reservation...

I relize that I am just one opinion! But I think I speak for a fare amount of men when I say this.
A woman should reach for the stars and be determine just as much as a man, to fullfill her dreams! I personally think that it is sexy to see a woman thats confident, successful, and any man thats got his ego in check would too!!!

The Private Chef,
Elliotness

i am definitely attracted to women with goals....success oriented in their lives....intelligence is particular turns me on....

Well said

hello and welcome

I'm a corporate businesswoman .. actually a producer/director.

Just my job title and the fact I'm high-profile intimidates most men.

My on/off BF, on the other hand, has never ever been put off by what I do. I think that's INCREDIBLY SEXY.

Yep I sure do

can say that agian

Ahhh this is a perfect example of the grass being greener. Men say this is what they want and then once they get it, they can't handle it, or they decide it is not what they wanted. Or they are emasculated by it.....or whatever.

I say this happens, in my experience, about 90% of the time. Not just to me, but to my BFF, to my sister, and to others.

hiya Lilith, not so sure about the analogy of the grass is always greener, but your post did bring one scenario to mind, the man that wants the 2 women when asked why, because it's his fantasy, when in reality he'd end up with 2 unsatisfied women

having difficulty in differentiating between reality and fantasy

just kidding men!!!

Some men take this type of thing with a pinch of salt, others feel intimidated by an assertive woman and would give having a relationship with a woman of this caliber a wide berth, then hang a label of B***h on her...........Yet, those very men would admire such a woman from a distance, a case of "not in my back yard?"

I look at it this way, would I like to have a woman that had no goals and aspirations?? No way, been there done that and didn't like it...I want a woman that has big goals and goes out to achieve them. There is nothing wrong with a strong, independent woman that seeks out what she wants in life. It is true that plenty of men would not like this in a woman....but I , for one, do not see why. Ladies, keep reaching for your goals and eventually there will be a man that accepts you for who you are and what you do.

Cinnamon rolls!

money is money , does'nt matter who makes the most or has a better job

true but its not just about the money

in away it does cause some guys feel low if their woman makes more then they do

Fran~ You are so cracking me up!

a woman could be successful and not make more money. she could just be happier with her life/job.

very true

success isn't always about money.

There is very little less appealing to me than a guy who has no passion in his daily life, no goals, aspirations, no love for his career or what he wants to do.....no strong convictions.

A person who says a job is just a job and they disilke it.... and do nothing to change it. That is so horribly unattractive to me and I always end up no longer seeing them. I know it is unfair to hold a person to my standards, but I want a person who always strives to be better, who loves what they do or is working towards doing what they dream of doing.....