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Topic: i really just wondered
freddiejams Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 45	Sun 07/13/08 02:49 PM
I just wanted to say to all my fellow JSH peeps out there, that I really enjoy being on this site and I am glad for the great friends I have made and for the ones i have not yet met yet...OHHHHHHHHHHH and """""I LOVE YOU" was that too soon what took so long???

adirtygirl Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 4008	Sun 07/13/08 02:50 PM
I am busy trying to get my porn collection back from PECCY

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sun 07/13/08 02:52 PM
guys and gals.. when is it the right time to say i love you? has anybody else had a NEAR perfect stranger that lives completely across the country tell you they love you after instant messaging a handful of times and 2 SHORT phone conversations?? what do you do?? am i totally old fashioned, or does it take time to really get to know someone enough to say that you'll be together forever?? It does take time to SAY THAT! And if they say THAT to soon,,,,I tell them I never say that in-less I meet and come to know them better in person. THATS JUST ME.. But SOME have said THAT or hinted THAT to me and to be REAL.. It scares me as to if THEY really know THAT WORD and its REAL DEEP meaning... So I would ask why or how they find THAT possible w/o ever meeting me yet? And then I would say its COOL to feel you LOVE ME as a FRIEND,,thats fine, but as for loving me as your LOVER,,I wish you would researve THAT until a later time as WE should BOTH be certain before making THAT CONVICTION! but this is just MY oppinion!! GOOD LUCK!

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sun 07/13/08 02:56 PM
guys and gals.. when is it the right time to say i love you? has anybody else had a NEAR perfect stranger that lives completely across the country tell you they love you after instant messaging a handful of times and 2 SHORT phone conversations?? what do you do?? am i totally old fashioned, or does it take time to really get to know someone enough to say that you'll be together forever?? Yes I have .. (had it said to me) Yes it's BS .. THANK YOU!!!!!! YW

freddiejams Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 45	Sun 07/13/08 03:26 PM
guys and gals.. when is it the right time to say i love you? has anybody else had a NEAR perfect stranger that lives completely across the country tell you they love you after instant messaging a handful of times and 2 SHORT phone conversations?? what do you do?? am i totally old fashioned, or does it take time to really get to know someone enough to say that you'll be together forever?? It does take time to SAY THAT! And if they say THAT to soon,,,,I tell them I never say that in-less I meet and come to know them better in person. THATS JUST ME.. But SOME have said THAT or hinted THAT to me and to be REAL.. It scares me as to if THEY really know THAT WORD and its REAL DEEP meaning... So I would ask why or how they find THAT possible w/o ever meeting me yet? And then I would say its COOL to feel you LOVE ME as a FRIEND,,thats fine, but as for loving me as your LOVER,,I wish you would researve THAT until a later time as WE should BOTH be certain before making THAT CONVICTION! but this is just MY oppinion!! GOOD LUCK! it's a good opinion..

Lakeman Joined Mon 04/30/07 Posts: 10261	Sun 07/13/08 03:29 PM
I am busy trying to get my porn collection back from PECCY OMG...never hand out the sacred porn scrolls!! You will be lucky to ever see them again!!

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sun 07/13/08 03:32 PM
I believe it is 10,342 emails and 57 phone hours, over about 3 months. Yeah...that's the formula...any sooner and you can't know them well enough.

freddiejams Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 45	Sun 07/13/08 04:18 PM
I believe it is 10,342 emails and 57 phone hours, over about 3 months. Yeah...that's the formula...any sooner and you can't know them well enough. wrote it down.. thanks!!!!

HMontana Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 5037	Sun 07/13/08 04:21 PM
I believe it is 10,342 emails and 57 phone hours, over about 3 months. Yeah...that's the formula...any sooner and you can't know them well enough. Don't listen to her. She knows not of what she speaks. It is exactly 9442 emails, 46 phone hours and 2.6 months. Maybe you could take an average. btw, I LOVE YOU!

alexiateigra Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 1326	Sun 07/13/08 04:21 PM
guys and gals.. when is it the right time to say i love you? has anybody else had a NEAR perfect stranger that lives completely across the country tell you they love you after instant messaging a handful of times and 2 SHORT phone conversations?? what do you do?? am i totally old fashioned, or does it take time to really get to know someone enough to say that you'll be together forever?? Be honest with them. Let them know that you enjoy spending time with them but, it is a little too soon to be tossing the L word. (I would do that but, only nicer).

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Sun 07/13/08 04:24 PM


freddiejams Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 45	Sun 07/13/08 04:39 PM
I believe it is 10,342 emails and 57 phone hours, over about 3 months. Yeah...that's the formula...any sooner and you can't know them well enough. Don't listen to her. She knows not of what she speaks. It is exactly 9442 emails, 46 phone hours and 2.6 months. Maybe you could take an average. btw, I LOVE YOU! a good bunch of people here.. i will take an average! love ya back!!

freddiejams Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 45	Sun 07/13/08 04:45 PM
guys and gals.. when is it the right time to say i love you? has anybody else had a NEAR perfect stranger that lives completely across the country tell you they love you after instant messaging a handful of times and 2 SHORT phone conversations?? what do you do?? am i totally old fashioned, or does it take time to really get to know someone enough to say that you'll be together forever?? Be honest with them. Let them know that you enjoy spending time with them but, it is a little too soon to be tossing the L word. (I would do that but, only nicer). i tried being honest and it didn't pan out.. all it takes for some people to fall in love is for someone to pay them a little attention.. needy people.. clingy people..

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Sun 07/13/08 04:47 PM
I am busy trying to get my porn collection back from PECCY He stole yours too???

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sun 07/13/08 04:47 PM
I did 57 hours of phone calls in the first week! I think I'm up to Roughly 5-6 hours per night for the last 2 months.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sun 07/13/08 04:48 PM
I believe it is 10,342 emails and 57 phone hours, over about 3 months. Yeah...that's the formula...any sooner and you can't know them well enough. Don't listen to her. She knows not of what she speaks. It is exactly 9442 emails, 46 phone hours and 2.6 months. Maybe you could take an average. btw, I LOVE YOU! ((Freddie)) Welcome aboard and enjoy the forums...greatest way to meet people!

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Sun 07/13/08 04:48 PM
I believe it is 10,342 emails and 57 phone hours, over about 3 months. Yeah...that's the formula...any sooner and you can't know them well enough. Don't listen to her. She knows not of what she speaks. It is exactly 9442 emails, 46 phone hours and 2.6 months. Maybe you could take an average. btw, I LOVE YOU! Are you sure?? I thought it was 8765 emails, 39 phone calls and 3.2 months?? Hum maybe it depends on what part of our lovely state your in... Oh and Montana I LOVE YOU

freddiejams Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 45	Sun 07/13/08 04:50 PM
I did 57 hours of phone calls in the first week! I think I'm up to Roughly 5-6 hours per night for the last 2 months. WOW!!!

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sun 07/13/08 04:51 PM
I did 57 hours of phone calls in the first week! I think I'm up to Roughly 5-6 hours per night for the last 2 months. WOW!!! And I'm ALWAYS tired! But do I care?!

HMontana Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 5037	Sun 07/13/08 04:52 PM
((((Missy)))) I LOVE YOU, too! But, don't tell Freddie, I just told HER I love her. I'll keep you my dirty little secret!