anybody in here ever got swindled in to moving some where with the woman you thought was the one but she manipulated you with lies and promies, so you give up everything because she was ready to settle down and you asked her bout 20 times are you sure and she says yes then you get here and 6 mnths latter she tells you i dont feel like living with someone right now so you got to go,after 2yrs of seening each other 3 times a yr,in a long dist relationship , cus i com from hawaii, have no family here she tells you got to go. what do you do from trying not to go off she couldnt give me a why. she is a cold ***** ice runs through her veins, anyone had a smilar happing and what do you do from not going off on her.

Plan on doing the same travelling here on this site.

I had that happen to me with a guy......I moved in with him cause he said i was the one for him and that he loved me then 3 mos later he told me that he wanted to be able to explore his options when he went down to florida and left me high and dry.

wow, feel for you dude, I'm wanting to move a long distance myself and sell my home etc, have lingering thoughts of just such a scenario, bet of luck to ya

OMG! That's horrible! I don't know that 3 times a year is enough one on one in person time to base such big decisions on though. That's not that much personal contact really.

I hear ya!
I sold my home and moved to Tulsa from Kentucky for a relationship. It ended 10 months later.

The difference is I asked myself "Am I going to be happy with this choice if it doesn't work out with him?" I thought I would be and I am. I'm still in Tulsa and love it.

Life is what you make it.

Seems like moving in together is a quick way to put an
end to a perfectly good relationship. Been there. Done that. Not good when the fun ends and reality sets in.