U KNOW THAT WE R ALL HERE FOR YOU, KEEP YOUR CHIN UP AND GOOD
LUCK.

don't ever invite someone to your house the first time you meet them.
even if there are people there, now he knows where you live, so if he
turns out to be a less than savory character, you have put yourself in a
potentially dangerous situation. always meet someplace neutral and
public, preferably not even in the town you live in. it is immature of
him, but what can you do now? what happens happens; time to find out
what happens next.

MoreBass, your picture makes it seem like you're scolding me. But
anyway, i'm new to the game. Now I know never to invite an unknown
person to my house...thanks for all the love shown

i agree with Morebass, nobodys scolding you its the truth. be careful
girl. theyre guys that come on here to prey on girls. always meet at a
public place and maybe bring a friend so your not alone. you might be
thinking it wouldnt happen to you but it happens everyday.

Lots of good advise better to know early than having them string you
along till they find someone else and then leave you hanging.

hehe it's just a picture from earlier during my winter break.

Hello Kaks,

Don't worry about him....It's his loss. Life will go ON without
HIM!

However, I must add to the issue of you inviting him to your
home.... Please, Please, Please don't ever do
that again....If he flipped the script on you like this, imagine his
elevator might not go all the way to the top. So please
be careful meet him in a
Public Place (preferably in the day time)

It happens to guys too.

I was on match.com and a 100% match came up for me and I was very
attracted to her. I have never scene a 100% before (ratings on prior
information you provide about yourself and wants in a relationship) and
e-mailed and then called her. She lives about 150 miles away but her
sister lives about 15 from me and she visits allot.

She came out to her sisters for a long weekend and we went out saturday
night. We were together for about 7 hours and it went by very very fast,
we agreed on everything, even religon.

I really liked this woman and thought it was a perfect date. She said
she wanted to go out agian. I have e-mailed her and called her half a
dozen times and she never returned any of them.

I really dont know what to think, I havent been in the dating game that
long, but to me, it was a perfect 100% date.

so.....we live and learn

Yes, we do live and learn. I have been on many meaningless dates. I
have ALWAYS met the "internet date" in public and not one of them
objected. There were some that we knew we were just being kind to one
another to get through the planned date; there were others that were
much too kind. You have to really protect yourself with this internet
meetings; both male and female. Just be careful all, ok?

You're right, it was juvenile ... He could've at least let you know
there wasn't a romantic or intimate spark ... but there's nothing wrong
w/ being friends ... unless he was just looking for another notch on his
belt ... It is HIS loss ... no biggie ... I do hope you find that
special someone ... Don't ever give up or lose faith, Hon ... All my
best to ya!

It's his loss.