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well..personally for me... looks dont matter... and i have been single a long time... i go for personality... and i wont settle for less than i deserve... so if a man chooses to treat me poorly... am i suppose to be thankfully i have someone,...and stay with it?? Well look no further. because there are a hell of alot of good men on this forum 
yes there are some damn good men on this forum.. i have many friends... yet... the distance is a big kicker. I have given everything up twice for a man, and twice i have lost everything.... so im kinda weary about giving it all up again |
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personally for me i want to find someone i can connect with in a deeper level then just friends...
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cmon shadow you know better theres outer beauty and inner beauty and if you don't have both it just does'nt matter and I'm not talking about physical beauty here either i SPENT 30 HYRS WITH A WOMAN WHO WAS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL UGLY COMBINATION YOU COULD IMAGINE SHE WAS A GREAT ACTRESS. Its a LONG STRUGGLE TO FIND SOMEONE SPECIAL . [SORRY FOR THE CAPS ] Actually it's not that hard. Some time we make it hard and don't see things right infront of us. What stops most, is the physicay attraction and ill admit it does for me too. Yeah you can be beautiful inside and out, but if there is no physiacl attraction, it wont work for me. Just from what i've seen in my life. i have yet met a couple that got together and there was no physical attraction. I hear it alot on this site but in my life time all my friends or family it's been the same. |
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On here , for most people distance is the problem & maybe some people are too picky!! <------that would be me :) |
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i truly am here for friends, but i do know in a relationship it has been all about chemistry for me,a combination of physical and emotional attraction. to take anything to the next level, that's a must have for me.
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 personality only goes so far.....BE HOT!
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Edited by
No1sLove
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Tue 07/08/08 07:22 PM
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I have a lot of friends that will ask me...don't I think there b/f is handsome..cute...built...whatever. These girls are on a dating cycle from hell. They are attractive women but blow through men always finding fault with each of them.
I have a little theory from watching this. I believe that a lot of people don't really consider what is attractive to them...but try to find someone that others will find attractive. Why? A man that I find appealing to look at may not be your idea of GQ or maybe he is...why do I care who thinks my b/f is attractive? I am the one that it should matter to not you. 
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I have a lot of friends that will ask me...don't I think there b/f is handsome..cute...built...whatever. These girls are on a dating cycle from hell. They are attractive women but blow through men always finding fault with each of them. I have a little theory from watching this. I believe that a lot of people don't really consider what is attractive to them...but try to find someone that others will find attractive. Why? A man that I find appealing to look at may not be your idea of GQ or maybe he is...why do I care who thinks my b/f is attractive? I am the one that it should matter to not you.
You made a good point, i used to kinda think that way. are my famy and friends going to like her and it's not about that. The thing is, are you happy... |
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On here , for most people distance is the problem & maybe some people are too picky!! |
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I have a lot of friends that will ask me...don't I think there b/f is handsome..cute...built...whatever. These girls are on a dating cycle from hell. They are attractive women but blow through men always finding fault with each of them. I have a little theory from watching this. I believe that a lot of people don't really consider what is attractive to them...but try to find someone that others will find attractive. Why? A man that I find appealing to look at may not be your idea of GQ or maybe he is...why do I care who thinks my b/f is attractive? I am the one that it should matter to not you.
You made a good point, i used to kinda think that way. are my famy and friends going to like her and it's not about that. The thing is, are you happy...  to tell us what happiness is. We just don't trust ourselves. Why is that I wonder?
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I have a lot of friends that will ask me...don't I think there b/f is handsome..cute...built...whatever. These girls are on a dating cycle from hell. They are attractive women but blow through men always finding fault with each of them. I have a little theory from watching this. I believe that a lot of people don't really consider what is attractive to them...but try to find someone that others will find attractive. Why? A man that I find appealing to look at may not be your idea of GQ or maybe he is...why do I care who thinks my b/f is attractive? I am the one that it should matter to not you.
You made a good point, i used to kinda think that way. are my famy and friends going to like her and it's not about that. The thing is, are you happy... to tell us what happiness is. We just don't trust ourselves. Why is that I wonder?
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Hummm could it be cause I work and go home and don't get out in the real world. In order to meet other people kind of hard to meet anyone when all you do it work and go home.
I spent the last 16 years worrying about raising my kids more then I did about a social life of my own.  
Now my kids are grown and my social life is in the ruts. 
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looks do matter and that is part of why I am still single
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Edited by
No1sLove
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Tue 07/08/08 08:07 PM
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Personally I'm single now cause I spent way too much time in relationships I should not have been in. I have been in one my whole life and have to admit...these last months of being single were prolly really good for me.
 But I'm not exactly single now. I believe I am quite taken actually. 
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I personally have alo going on right now trying to get this house finished and on the market and then Im moving to Myrtle Beach.. so Im really not ready or focused on finding my soul mate.. with that said.. if she happens to come along before then... then fine .. if not. I will concentrate more once Im settled.
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being single is a choice..I assume other people have made the choice to be single and dont really wonder why...
everybody has their own reasons |
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Come check out my new profile, with added truth!
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I have a lot of friends that will ask me...don't I think there b/f is handsome..cute...built...whatever. These girls are on a dating cycle from hell. They are attractive women but blow through men always finding fault with each of them. I have a little theory from watching this. I believe that a lot of people don't really consider what is attractive to them...but try to find someone that others will find attractive. Why? A man that I find appealing to look at may not be your idea of GQ or maybe he is...why do I care who thinks my b/f is attractive? I am the one that it should matter to not you.
You made a good point, i used to kinda think that way. are my famy and friends going to like her and it's not about that. The thing is, are you happy... to tell us what happiness is. We just don't trust ourselves. Why is that I wonder?
Trust ourselves? |
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Hummm could it be cause I work and go home and don't get out in the real world. In order to meet other people kind of hard to meet anyone when all you do it work and go home. I spent the last 16 years worrying about raising my kids more then I did about a social life of my own.
Now my kids are grown and my social life is in the ruts.
I can see where your at and now that i have a little to take care of, yeah things might slow down but for me i will not stop doing things wether i meet somone or not. I never really been the type that can stand just going to work and home. I need to get out just to adjust to things that go on in life. Take a vocation 
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I have a lot of friends that will ask me...don't I think there b/f is handsome..cute...built...whatever. These girls are on a dating cycle from hell. They are attractive women but blow through men always finding fault with each of them. I have a little theory from watching this. I believe that a lot of people don't really consider what is attractive to them...but try to find someone that others will find attractive. Why? A man that I find appealing to look at may not be your idea of GQ or maybe he is...why do I care who thinks my b/f is attractive? I am the one that it should matter to not you.
You made a good point, i used to kinda think that way. are my famy and friends going to like her and it's not about that. The thing is, are you happy... to tell us what happiness is. We just don't trust ourselves. Why is that I wonder?
Trust ourselves?
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