if a person who you would like to date online or meet, before he sees or
meets you asks you to marry him. do you think hes lieing? (long time
online friend) (not 1 day friend) he calls you honey, babe, sweets
ect........ says hell take care of you sounds too good to be true?
i dont know?

Too soon Brighteyes...take your time...Words are just words, see what
his actions are like in person..

actions speak louder than words

I don't think he's lying, necessarily, I just think he's not thinking
very clearly. Marriage is not something that should ever be entered
into without knowing a lot about each other, and there are some things
that really only become evident in face-to-face interaction.

You know this is kinda a on goin gtopic either someone is talking about
falling in love someone asking to marry them etc etc Well all know that
untill you actually meet them it can't be real you might care for
someone but when you meet them that all could change and some of us if
you were to say have been alone for a while so it is easy to get cought
up in all the emotions of wanting someone so we tend to let ourselevs go
a little more then usual It's just knowing if that person is who you
want to be with you have to meet them before you take any action

Ya got that right Shadow, Besides they move that fast and that is a big
red flag to me I was born but not yesterday!!!!!!

I agree with Lex and Shadow. I think people do get too carried away with
the things just because we long to no longer be lonely. But some things
just can not be real with out meeting somebody. Because yes actions do
speak louder then words. It is one thing to say that he cares for you
online but it is another to show them in reality.

i believe too soon. but it was nice to hear i guess

I hear ya girl it is so easy to get wrapped up in ones words I talked to
one for 3 days and he wanted me to commit to him and him only hummmmmm
hellllloooo who are you first

its very lonely out there. even here on JSH i try but i am not working
good!

bright, you are a sweet woman, and I can see a man wanting to have you
as his wife without meeting you, sometimes a man is not looking for
looks or doesn't care how you look in person, if he knows that that is
you in the pic, if he can see your heart, is perfectly normal for a
man to fall in love with your soul, and therefore thinking and feeling
you are the woman he is looking for
and on the other hand is really to soon to know if (you) feel the same
way, he may be like that, but that does not mean you are
and is really about you and your feelings, happiness is what we are all
looking for, and we have to make sure that is what we going to be with
our loved one, happy!!!

oh dearest morena you are so smart nice your answers seem to always make
sense. keep it up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i am just saying
thanks!!!!!!!!!!

He has obviously connected very deeply with your soul and that is
awesome. However marriage is a pretty big deal and in my opinion, you
should meet in person. Your relationship is already at a very deep level
and looking into each other's eyes should only be icing on the cake!
Good luck with him........maybe someday that will happen to me

thanks mistyblue

I hate to sound negative, BUT, You have no idea who someone is until you
experience them. Online you can be anything your fantasies dream up.
Don't grasp. Meet him and take your time.

brighteys the heart and soul may fall in love but the eyes hold the keys
to the heart so if the eyes dont dont meet i dont belive theres true
love, only my opinion but best luck

It doesn't sound too good to be true; it sounds too psychotic.