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Topic: Do you men like it when
shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Thu 07/03/08 09:10 AM
a woman you're seeing want's to clean your messy apt. for you?

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Thu 07/03/08 09:11 AM
I need a man to come clean mine!

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Thu 07/03/08 09:11 AM
I have a house and it is spotless.

1vtguy Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 17	Thu 07/03/08 09:14 AM
Would not want a woman to see my place messy

BobbyJ Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 1368	Thu 07/03/08 09:15 AM
No need to. I live in a house and I keep it fairly clean. Now if my placed were all messed up after having friends over, sure, I'd appreciate any help in cleaning up!

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Thu 07/03/08 09:16 AM
Just answer the question, yes, or no. Would you like it if she WANTED TO? do it for you?

bobdesigns4262 Joined Sat 08/04/07 Posts: 2127	Thu 07/03/08 09:17 AM
as long as she wears a french maid outfit...we are good

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Thu 07/03/08 09:17 AM
no but i would let her...she obviously has some sort of compulsion...

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Thu 07/03/08 09:18 AM
no but i would let her...she obviously has some sort of compulsion... No compulsion. Just want to do something nice or him that he need's.

elifn52 Joined Fri 12/29/06 Posts: 166	Thu 07/03/08 09:19 AM
YES, OF COURSE

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Thu 07/03/08 09:19 AM
What he needs? or What you want to give??? no but i would let her...she obviously has some sort of compulsion... No compulsion. Just want to do something nice or him that he need's.

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Thu 07/03/08 09:20 AM
As long as she keeps her hands out of my bathroom.

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Thu 07/03/08 09:20 AM
As long as she keeps her hands out of my bathroom.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Thu 07/03/08 09:20 AM
What he needs? or What you want to give??? no but i would let her...she obviously has some sort of compulsion... No compulsion. Just want to do something nice or him that he need's. Both.

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Thu 07/03/08 09:23 AM
if he "needed" a clean pad...he would keep it clean..... you want to feel comfortable at his place...so go ahead and start changing his things ...now....so he will be used to it when you move in...

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Thu 07/03/08 09:24 AM
if he "needed" a clean pad...he would keep it clean..... you want to feel comfortable at his place...so go ahead and start changing his things ...now....so he will be used to it when you move in... You're being sarcastic.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Thu 07/03/08 09:25 AM
if he "needed" a clean pad...he would keep it clean..... you want to feel comfortable at his place...so go ahead and start changing his things ...now....so he will be used to it when you move in... You're being sarcastic. My place is bigger.

BobbyJ Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 1368	Thu 07/03/08 09:27 AM
Just answer the question, yes, or no. Would you like it if she WANTED TO? do it for you? NO!

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Thu 07/03/08 09:28 AM
just think you "really" examine your motivation.....if you want to date someone that has a clean place......find one....don't change the dude...don't disguise it, as wanting to help...him.....it comes off as "Manipulating"..im my book???

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 07/03/08 09:28 AM Edited by Winx on Thu 07/03/08 09:31 AM
a woman you're seeing want's to clean your messy apt. for you? Ummm.....they are grown and we are not their mothers. It would change the dynamics of the relationship and the woman would eventually feel used, IMO. I think that it makes the woman a kiss-a$$ and it would embarrass the man. If dirty bothered him, he would clean it. Maybe it might work if the man did home repairs for the woman and in turn the woman helped with his house.