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Topic: Completely Honest
PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 06/29/08 06:48 PM
Oh yea!!

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Sun 06/29/08 06:49 PM
yup...twice but not sure I entirely screwed it up. the second time anyhow

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Sun 06/29/08 06:49 PM
YES, People get mad when you are honest, and get mad if you lie people or women

flame1cutie Joined Thu 04/24/08 Posts: 7307	Sun 06/29/08 06:50 PM
yes

JazzieJoHanna Joined Wed 11/28/07 Posts: 416	Sun 06/29/08 06:53 PM
I'm honest, but people seem to want there ego's stroked instead. I don't always like what people say, but I do respect it!

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Sun 06/29/08 06:54 PM
you can't handle the truth

kerbear73 Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 3884	Sun 06/29/08 07:17 PM
YES, People get mad when you are honest, and get mad if you lie people or women Mostly Women

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Sun 06/29/08 07:27 PM
it is not a virtue to honestly tell someone that their cooking sucks, or that you think they're ugly, or unhealthily skinny or overweight or mentally slow or too cerebral. these are all traits which change sometimes quickly and sometimes slowly but they change over time. if your honesty amounts to pointing out flaws - or even if something you say honestly harms others then it is not at all a good thing. what to say when and how to say it is actually a very complex issue. i always recommend the book: Words That Hurt, Words That Heal: How to Choose Words Wisely and Well by Joseph Telushkin reading this book will likely change the way you think and speak...

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Mon 06/30/08 03:00 AM Edited by s1owhand on Mon 06/30/08 03:01 AM
Everyone has flaws. Therefore anyone can always say something negative in perfect truth about anyone else. Is this honestly the right thing to do even if what you say is absolutely true? -=-=-=-=-=- "To speak ill of others is a dishonest way of praising ourselves. Nothing is often a good thing to say, and always a clever thing to say." -Will Durant

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Mon 06/30/08 04:06 AM
YES, People get mad when you are honest, and get mad if you lie people or women Mostly Women so... hypotheticly.... if you had a small penis.. and i told you that you had a small penis.. just to be completely honest with you... you wouldnt get mad??

lov2fish Joined Wed 06/11/08 Posts: 549	Mon 06/30/08 07:10 AM
YES, People get mad when you are honest, and get mad if you lie people or women Mostly Women so... hypotheticly.... if you had a small penis.. and i told you that you had a small penis.. just to be completely honest with you... you wouldnt get mad?? it might not necssarily mean one has a small penis.. it could mean she has a large ummm

Puffins1958 Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 13637	Mon 06/30/08 07:12 AM
What's the sense of lying, you will get caught in the end, anyway!!!

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24709	Mon 06/30/08 07:16 AM
would avoid the "your mother looks like Groucho Marx" line.

KeepingTheFaith Joined Thu 06/21/07 Posts: 879	Mon 06/30/08 07:16 AM
Everyone has flaws. Therefore anyone can always say something negative in perfect truth about anyone else. Is this honestly the right thing to do even if what you say is absolutely true? -=-=-=-=-=- "To speak ill of others is a dishonest way of praising ourselves. Nothing is often a good thing to say, and always a clever thing to say." -Will Durant Well said, S1owhand.

Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Mon 06/30/08 07:16 AM
I was completly honest with my Doll when i told her she had WAY too many patches, and she left me!!!

shutterbug Joined Sat 06/16/07 Posts: 34376	Mon 06/30/08 07:21 AM
Yes...honesty is the best policy. Sometimes the truth hurts.

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Mon 06/30/08 07:29 AM
Yes~

idwacb Joined Wed 06/25/08 Posts: 52	Mon 06/30/08 07:36 AM
or if you cant say anything nice....just be quiet???

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Mon 06/30/08 07:41 AM
I have to HONESTLY say I think most of thoes who claim to be so HONEST are not.

BlueskyJ Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 2927	Mon 06/30/08 07:51 AM
I have to HONESTLY say I think most of those who claim to be so HONEST are not. agree....though i've learned to monitor my Honesty with discretion(hope that's the word)....sometimes its better not to tell all that is in our minds or we might hurt someone's feelings....