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Topic: The very first thing......
Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 06/27/08 07:04 AM
Okay. When you begin to talk to someone from this site (or any other internet dating site) what is the very first thing about him/her that gives off a "DANGER" sign that this person is just not for you. I'm talking that you pick up on it before you ever meet the person. so whats your 'danger' sign Within the first few minutes of talking, she types the following......"So, how much money do you make?"

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 06/27/08 07:06 AM
Okay. When you begin to talk to someone from this site (or any other internet dating site) what is the very first thing about him/her that gives off a "DANGER" sign that this person is just not for you. I'm talking that you pick up on it before you ever meet the person. so whats your 'danger' sign Within the first few minutes of talking, she types the following......"So, how much money do you make?" good one - or they can "type" I was a male/female before the surgery

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 06/27/08 07:09 AM
I also love the "I've been hurt....alot...by guys before, but no way am I saying that you will be just like them." Yeah.....that makes me so confident to want to meet them.

lifestooshort6 Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 6667	Fri 06/27/08 07:13 AM
I also love the "I've been hurt....alot...by guys before, but no way am I saying that you will be just like them." Yeah.....that makes me so confident to want to meet them. that sounds like a lot of BAGGAGE, everyone has some but I'd prefer carry-on not cargo freight

bluesunflower Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 1163	Fri 06/27/08 07:17 AM
ive also gotten the oh you and your daughter are way to beautiful to have been left by her father...who said he left me???? men shouldnt assume these things and goof yes i am begining to think they dont read kidding i really do like men

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Fri 06/27/08 07:25 AM
When they ask to meet within the first couple minutes. Oh. So that's why you never wrote me back.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 06/27/08 07:25 AM
My girlfriend got one of the all time classics. Now, she is tall, so she gets an email from a guy that says......."Nice height. What else you good at?" Man.....and to think she choose me later on.

lifestooshort6 Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 6667	Fri 06/27/08 07:37 AM
I've had men tell me they'd move to Canada for me?? What in the world?? Who said ANYTHING about visiting much less moving??? BLOCK AND DELETE, NEXT!

BlueskyJ Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 2927	Fri 06/27/08 07:43 AM
If they talk about their ex.... NOT a good sign. yes! good chance they are not over it yet....this happens to me the most....or they get nervous, run & hide....

lifestooshort6 Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 6667	Fri 06/27/08 08:09 AM
If they talk about their ex.... NOT a good sign. yes! good chance they are not over it yet....this happens to me the most....or they get nervous, run & hide.... yeah, Ex talk is not a good sign

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Fri 06/27/08 08:22 AM
If they talk about their ex.... NOT a good sign. yes! good chance they are not over it yet....this happens to me the most....or they get nervous, run & hide.... yeah, Ex talk is not a good sign and when it goes from ex talk to sex talk. Oh yea, I want her screaming someone else's name.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Fri 06/27/08 08:24 AM
when all they do is talk about your looks

elsathebloody Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 2107	Fri 06/27/08 08:33 AM
When they tell me they love me after one conversation.

KeepingTheFaith Joined Thu 06/21/07 Posts: 879	Fri 06/27/08 10:32 AM
When they tell me I think to much after reading one of my posts - but they sure think I'm cute!

sam53 Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 2073	Fri 06/27/08 01:41 PM
Okay. When you begin to talk to someone from this site (or any other internet dating site) what is the very first thing about him/her that gives off a "DANGER" sign that this person is just not for you. I'm talking that you pick up on it before you ever meet the person. When they start talking to you like as if it is a job interview or an interrogation room : run and run as fast as you can . That is why I have my Instant Messenger off . I chat in IM only with those I know fairly well .

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 06/27/08 01:54 PM
first thing I notice is whether person has a sense of humor

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Fri 06/27/08 01:56 PM
The ones that say..I promise I am not stalker material or I am not pyscho...trust me!! Thats when I start feeling a little scared, why would they even mention it?? PYSCHO!!!!

lov2fish Joined Wed 06/11/08 Posts: 549	Fri 06/27/08 02:27 PM
when they tell ya their electric is fixin to be turned off and their welfare check hasnt arrived yet!

txmomof2 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 73300	Fri 06/27/08 04:22 PM
wanna see my package

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Fri 06/27/08 05:43 PM
Okay. When you begin to talk to someone from this site (or any other internet dating site) what is the very first thing about him/her that gives off a "DANGER" sign that this person is just not for you. I'm talking that you pick up on it before you ever meet the person. clingy, suffocating, needy .. NO THANKS