Topic: question?????
BetterDazes's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:49 PM
I got an email in my regular email box, not the one here, from someone who said they saw my ad on here. How is that possible? I mean isn't the only way someone can communicate with you on this site is through your site email and not your personal one? I don't have mine listed on my page AND I don't know this person. Anyone else had this happen?

Etrain's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:49 PM
blushing blushing I gave it to themblushing blushing

MsCarmen's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:50 PM

I got an email in my regular email box, not the one here, from someone who said they saw my ad on here. How is that possible? I mean isn't the only way someone can communicate with you on this site is through your site email and not your personal one? I don't have mine listed on my page AND I don't know this person. Anyone else had this happen?


If you google your screen name it can sometimes show up

no photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:51 PM
doesnt sound right to me but maybe they recognized your picture on here and knew your pers. e-mail?smokin

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Thu 06/26/08 05:52 PM

I got an email in my regular email box, not the one here, from someone who said they saw my ad on here. How is that possible? I mean isn't the only way someone can communicate with you on this site is through your site email and not your personal one? I don't have mine listed on my page AND I don't know this person. Anyone else had this happen?


It is very well possible that if your listed on any other singles site, with different features than this one...he could have recognized your picture...and may have obtained address from another site. Just an idea...good luck in finding out.

no photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:53 PM
I've never heard of this happening before.huh

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:53 PM
Probbley a scammer. Delete them.
I can't figure out how they could get your regular e-mail though. That doesnt make sense.
Anyone can see the posts here though. Perhaps it is someone who knew you at one time or another???

Unique2468's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:57 PM
It's either

Someone you know, who doesn't want you to know its them.

The guy is a stalker and looked up your name and personal information on other sites

You are on multiple dating sites where one had your email address visable at some point

They hacked the site to get your email (this is pretty much not going to happen)

I'm betting it's someone you know, or that you had your email addy on your profile here and then later removed it.

BetterDazes's photo
Thu 06/26/08 05:59 PM
None of the above. It is very concerning. I only use that address for this kind of stuff.

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 06/26/08 06:02 PM
scared They are on to youscared

livelife68's photo
Thu 06/26/08 06:04 PM
You don't have to have an account here to read the forums.

willy_cents's photo
Thu 06/26/08 06:05 PM
I have had the same scam happen to me...lol...and the woman did not even have an account on here. I think that they just give it a shot in the dark and hope to luck out once in a while....I might could get it out of my trash bin and give you her email addy'srofl

Marley's photo
Thu 06/26/08 06:07 PM

None of the above. It is very concerning. I only use that address for this kind of stuff.

Your name is on a list. Just like the rest of us. The lists can be bought or traded like commodities. The DMV in your state does it all th time.