ok, i was engaged, and the he decided to move back to where we met, and
i wanted to be with him, but i wanted to finish college before i moved
in with him, and he told me that visiting me wasnt worth the money...
what the fuck is wrong with this picture???? so i told him to never call
me again, and im back on my feet...

so tell me what you want to do now?

Yea, what do you want do next?

I married my girlfriend soon to be exwife the week before I left for
college. Then we lived apart for the first semester. I visited her at
our home town on weekends. The reason is she refused to move as she
wanted to finish high school here. Well being married she could do what
she wanted and ended up missing to many days and automatically
failed(stupided rule I ever saw as she had good grades). Money should
never come before love so you did the right thing. Living apart can work
and does work as well. The farther you are apart just means you get to
see each other less often. I was only 60 miles from home, yet I missed a
weekend or 2 because of lack of money for gas.

Money is good cuz you need it to survive, BUT, money doesn't make you
happy..and Samantha?...that guy is a jerk obviously...hell I travel 1000
miles every time to be with the woman I love..if I worried about what it
cost to go see her, I'd be missing out on the best thing that's happened
to me

You go girl! What kind of attitude is that for him to have. HE in my
opinion is not worth your time! It's refreshing to see a woman stand up
for herself like that.

If a Man wants to be with a Woman he would do whatever it takes to get
with her!!! It is just that simple!!!!!If he don't respect or Appreciate
what you do or are doing at the time(College), then he ain't worth it!!
He should of been more Understanding and Supportive towards you!!!
That is MY Opinion!!!

Samantha, The guy ain't no good!! You keep being Strong and Positive. I
hope you told him- " There's the door, don't let it hit you on the way
out"!!!!!!!!!
Money is the Object of Desire for Everyone these days, so it seems!!! If
my Wife-Girlfriend moved away from me, I would go see her no matter
what!!!!!!!!
Having Money isn't the World to me. I could be the RICHEST
Mother"Flower" in the World and still be Unhappy and Lonely.
Money covers Expenses and stuff like that, but if you ain't got no
Friends or that Special Person in your Life, What's it good for!!!!!! It
will eventually Drown you in Sorrow and Loneliness if you ain't got
no-one to share or spend it with!!!

thank you guys forthe support, andwhat i am doing now... is working 2
jobs(trying to pay for college) and im just back to bein me...

HOORAY FOR YOUR SIDE!!!!!!YOU GO GURL...and the pride of all that you
will accomplish is worth it's wait in GOLD kiddo!!