Topic: Is it worth it???????
guyguy1225's photo
Tue 06/24/08 08:12 PM





but is it worth all the trouble to find that 1 apple?
I think so!!! I wouldn't want to starve



you r very insightful :wink:
thank you !!! I have learned !!!flowerforyou


but what about all the rotten apples, i am so tired of finding them
thats the way it goes ....gota sort through the bad to get the good...:wink: flowerforyou flowerforyou

guyguy1225's photo
Tue 06/24/08 08:15 PM



I say love yourself and don't worry the right one will come along flowerforyou
your right !!! don't push it !!! let drop to you !!if you have to pick it ..it might not be ripe ,but if wait ...eh! it might fall right next to youbigsmile



But I should not hide from it, i guess that is what I have been doing, just not putting myself in any situation to meet ne1
well ya!! be choosy...tell yourself you have time to find the right one .....and you do ...can't rush loveflowerforyou flowerforyou that I have learned

ktrnmaun's photo
Tue 06/24/08 08:17 PM
I know u cant rush it, i guess i just dont want 2 find out it really doesnt exist

guyguy1225's photo
Tue 06/24/08 08:19 PM
It does !!!:heart:

No1sLove's photo
Tue 06/24/08 08:22 PM
I just skip the hurtful relationships and pace myself between the good ones. flowerforyou

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Tue 06/24/08 08:25 PM
i will never get back with my ex hell i dont even remember where i burried her lol.hahahahahahahalaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

ktrnmaun's photo
Tue 06/24/08 08:28 PM
lol, guess i feel myself loosing faith and giving up. There is nothin worse that for someone to treat you poorly. I guess my pride gets the best of me:)

guyguy1225's photo
Tue 06/24/08 08:28 PM

i will never get back with my ex hell i dont even remember where i burried her lol.hahahahahahahalaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
you have the right to remain silent....oh! I guess you were joking me too I'm not a cop ..laugh laugh laugh

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Tue 06/24/08 08:29 PM


i will never get back with my ex hell i dont even remember where i burried her lol.hahahahahahahalaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
you have the right to remain silent....oh! I guess you were joking me too I'm not a cop ..laugh laugh laugh
yeah joking lets go w/that lol

guyguy1225's photo
Tue 06/24/08 08:30 PM

lol, guess i feel myself loosing faith and giving up. There is nothin worse that for someone to treat you poorly. I guess my pride gets the best of me:)
distance yourself from the ones who treat you poorly and embrace the one's who support you sweetyflowerforyou flowerforyou

ktrnmaun's photo
Tue 06/24/08 08:31 PM



i will never get back with my ex hell i dont even remember where i burried her lol.hahahahahahahalaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
you have the right to remain silent....oh! I guess you were joking me too I'm not a cop ..laugh laugh laugh
yeah joking lets go w/that lol


yall r 2 funny

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Tue 06/24/08 08:36 PM
did we roll over when the germans bombed pearl harbor....no,nothing is over until we say its over...just sayin dont give up...and yes thats from animal house.

guyguy1225's photo
Tue 06/24/08 08:36 PM




i will never get back with my ex hell i dont even remember where i burried her lol.hahahahahahahalaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
you have the right to remain silent....oh! I guess you were joking me too I'm not a cop ..laugh laugh laugh
yeah joking lets go w/that lol


yall r 2 funny
flowerforyou TY flowerforyou

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Tue 06/24/08 08:37 PM
:smile:

ktrnmaun's photo
Tue 06/24/08 08:39 PM

did we roll over when the germans bombed pearl harbor....no,nothing is over until we say its over...just sayin dont give up...and yes thats from animal house.



I loved that movie, definite words to live by, lol

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Tue 06/24/08 08:43 PM
It does exist...just stop looking for it, (love)...allow it to find you. That's what I kept hearing. I had been burned a couple times by loosers/players on JSH...so I had given up in the search after the last one, but continued on the site because of all the decent and good friends I had made here. 'IT' found me back in March, but at the time I didn't realize it...or didn't want to accept it after all the hurt from the past. He/Tony proved himself to me in more ways than one over the last few months that he is my one and only. And if you missed it, a couple weeks ago he asked me to marry him and I said yes! :heart: bigsmile

After realizing Tony was THE one...I had contact from guys I had dated in the past...some as long as a year ago, (I had thought they had fallen off the face of the earth). Now all the sudden they wanted to start off where we had left off...WRONG!!! They had their chance, they blew it...there was a time I did think a second chance was in order...but after the hurt they caused me, a second chance wasn't coming their way. The man who I plan on spending forever and always with has found his way into my heart...and there he shall stay...MY SEARCH IS OVER! flowerforyou drinker bigsmile :heart:

Have patience ktrnmaun and don't settle for 2nd best. You are a beautiful woman and the man worthy of you will find his way to you in time. flowerforyou :heart:

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Tue 06/24/08 08:46 PM
i love 1 nite girlfriends.....50 bucks and then they leave...just kiddin...i dont belive they made a gal for me but i dont quit..

ktrnmaun's photo
Tue 06/24/08 08:46 PM

It does exist...just stop looking for it, (love)...allow it to find you. That's what I kept hearing. I had been burned a couple times by loosers/players on JSH...so I had given up in the search after the last one, but continued on the site because of all the decent and good friends I had made here. 'IT' found me back in March, but at the time I didn't realize it...or didn't want to accept it after all the hurt from the past. He/Tony proved himself to me in more ways than one over the last few months that he is my one and only. And if you missed it, a couple weeks ago he asked me to marry him and I said yes! :heart: bigsmile

After realizing Tony was THE one...I had contact from guys I had dated in the past...some as long as a year ago, (I had thought they had fallen off the face of the earth). Now all the sudden they wanted to start off where we had left off...WRONG!!! They had their chance, they blew it...there was a time I did think a second chance was in order...but after the hurt they caused me, a second chance wasn't coming their way. The man who I plan on spending forever and always with has found his way into my heart...and there he shall stay...MY SEARCH IS OVER! flowerforyou drinker bigsmile :heart:

Have patience ktrnmaun and don't settle for 2nd best. You are a beautiful woman and the man worthy of you will find his way to you in time. flowerforyou :heart:


Thank you for sharing with me, I did need the inspiration!

ktrnmaun's photo
Tue 06/24/08 08:48 PM
you have made me laugh, i needed it,

"Dont give up" I guess, I may need to come out of hiding then:)

lov2fish's photo
Tue 06/24/08 09:11 PM

You give of your self, time and time again, people to your goodness as weekeness, in the end they hurt you, and treat you like you are nothin. You know you are worth and deserve more than that. It always happenes the same, weeks or months later they come back with some lame excuses and how they realized how great you are, by that time all you can feel is "soory you didnt see it b4" Is it worth it to continue putting your self out there, getting hurt, just cause you have faith that you are a good person and u will meet that 1 whos sees it in you? Or do you just say the hell with it?

NO it is not worth it! no way no way!!!.. dont let it continue.. thats the battle im in right nownoway noway noway