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Have you ever ended a relationship because of a decrease in attention and time together?
Or, has someone broken it off with you because you stopped being attentive and gave them less time? *not seeking advice, just your experiences* |
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Have you ever ended a relationship because of a decrease in attention and time together? Or, has someone broken it off with you because you stopped being attentive and gave them less time? *not seeking advice, just your experiences* i got married under the first condition you mention divorced under the second! |
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Even Wilson left Tom Hanks It can happen to anyone
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yep,she quit putting out
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Edited by
angelindarkness
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Tue 06/24/08 07:05 AM
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Have you ever ended a relationship because of a decrease in attention and time together? Or, has someone broken it off with you because you stopped being attentive and gave them less time? *not seeking advice, just your experiences* i got married under the first condition you mention divorced under the second! Am I understanding correctly? You felt pushed to marry because you were giving her less time and attention (or she was giving you less)? And then, she left you because you didn't give her enough time/attention? Or you left her? I'm confused. |
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yep,she quit putting out Can a woman leave a man because he stops putting out? j/k |
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Have you ever ended a relationship because of a decrease in attention and time together? Or, has someone broken it off with you because you stopped being attentive and gave them less time? *not seeking advice, just your experiences* i got married under the first condition you mention divorced under the second! Am I understanding correctly? You felt pushed to marry because you were giving her less time and attention (or she was giving you less)? And then, she left you because you didn't give you enough time/attention? Or you left her? I'm confused. |
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I think im gonna have to let you go,
Where not spending enough time together |
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i seem to loose attentiveness rather fast so it usually is a big problem...
i dont do it on purpose but i get bored easy i guess... that or i just pick em wrong ? |
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Edited by
angelindarkness
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Tue 06/24/08 07:06 AM
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Riding,
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i seem to loose attentiveness rather fast so it usually is a big problem... i dont do it on purpose but i get bored easy i guess... that or i just pick em wrong ? Assuming it is not a poor choice or boredom on your part. Then what? |
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yup.....we do stupid things when we are young.....i was only 19 and felt it was the right thing to do......insecurity at the time
Which part was stupid, the marrying or the leaving? |
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yup,,I'm "high maintenance" in the attention department
I give what I get You don't pay attention to me, I don't pay attention to you, and before ya know it,,,, ~~~~POOF~~~~ The relationship disapears |
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i seem to loose attentiveness rather fast so it usually is a big problem... i dont do it on purpose but i get bored easy i guess... that or i just pick em wrong ? Assuming it is not a poor choice or boredom on your part. Then what? i dont kno it just seems to happen a lot here lately it seems to happen if we have sex to early in the relationship im old i guess and i dont really throw my **** around so i want to work for it not have it thrown around cause then i just feel like... uh i guess its a curse i cant make sense of it |
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Thanks for your reply.
And, um....21? That's not old at all. |
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Sad, sad boonedog. Whatsa' matta'? |
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sorry i meant old fashioned
AND IT SUCKS |
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Your experience is quite normal. Nothing to feel down about.
You don't have to accept the "golden vagina" when its offered, ya' know. There is hope yet. |
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Your experience is quite normal. Nothing to feel down about. You don't have to accept the "golden vagina" when its offered, ya' know. There is hope yet. oh i have a i dont put out on the first date rule lol if that counts i have had to inforce it more times then i thought i ever would yea like i think ima just give in and fly solo, it could be worse i figure if i stop looking for this so called "love" itll find me.... or ill just die alone either or i guess |
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