My ex had her first radiation treatment three days ago and her hair has already started to fall out in large clumps. Because of this she decided to shave her head and wear scarves and wigs. After shaving her head her boyfried told her she looked exactly like her father. Then he asked her if she was safe to touch because she might be radioactive and get him sick. I know she has chosen to stay with this person who makes "Shallow Hal" look like a saint, but come on. Could any of you ever do that to another person? I certainly hope not. I don't wish cancer on anyone, but if he could be in her shoes for even a day he would probably have a nervous breakdown. I feel sorry for her when I am totally out of the picture in a few weeks... The only way I could get him to stop making bad jokes about her was to put on her wig and stick out my tongue at him . I may be attracted to redheads, but it is definitely not MY color

What's the matter with shaved heads?

No I can't belive some one would do that. I think they need a reality check.

u got a good point there,,,,,,but whats rong with a woman favoring her father,,,,,,,at least she knowss it's her real father

Nothin on my end. I had to help her shave it though cause he would have made fun of her...

Excuse me for a minute, I'm Irish and had a bit to drink...but as far as I'm concerned words like that deserve a broken jaw, no reason to ever tell someone that with any condition...few things get me heated but that would definatly be one of them...

my mom died of cancer a couple years ago I'd bash him what a jerk !

I just went into remission last August from colon cancer. Trust me, the last thing she needs is chaos in her life. This person needs to be around "uplifting" people.
I hope you are there for your ex in this very difficult time. You my friend are a good person! Please tell her to keep her chin up and always be positive. My prayers are with you and your ex

I lost my dad to cancer about 4 years ago. I understand what you are all saying, but it's her choice to be with him... I would never degrade myself or another like that though...

I think it's lovely that you are there for her. I know that helps so much!

people react in different ways when they're scared. perhaps a support group for both of them.
I know if my sweetie had gone through this, I would want to know everything about it.
~~JMO~~