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Topic: Has common sense been replaced
Peccy's photo
Sun 06/22/08 03:15 AM
by the paranoia in online dating?

Everything is so different when it comes to online dating. In the real world, you meet someone, talk for a bit and exchange numbers, then the guy calls or texts and they usually make a date at the end of the conversation.

Online things are totally different. We are worried about rapist, stalkers, players, gold diggers, liars, and just about everything else we can think of and we're constantly on the look out for red flags.

We have no choice but to use common sense in the real world, why do we find it so easy to lose it in cyberspace?

I like to think that most people on jsh/mingle2 have good intentions. But of course they all do not. Hey I'm just asking that people use a little more common sense on here.

When you see a pic of a person that is flawless 9 times out of 10 it's a fake. When they only will talk to you during certain times of the day, they're usually married. And I'm sure I could think of 100 other things.

My point is, stop and think about it! If it looks or reads like it's too good to be true, then yes, it probably is.

auburngirl's photo
Sun 06/22/08 03:18 AM
Good post!

I ran across a guy in my widowed chat room that was funny, nice guy...turned out to be a registered sex offender. People can be anything behind a keyboard and that is worrisome. I do think talking and talking and talking to someone you plan to meet helps rid some if not all of that fear.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 06/22/08 03:20 AM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Sun 06/22/08 03:20 AM
ohwell noway I had a relationship with a woman that I now realize I knew nothing about noway ohwell

auburngirl's photo
Sun 06/22/08 03:20 AM
Mirror flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 06/22/08 03:22 AM

Mirror flowerforyou
flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou Girl flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

mandyatl81's photo
Sun 06/22/08 03:22 AM

ohwell noway I had a relationship with a woman that I now realize I knew nothing about noway ohwell


but but...i only lied about my age...laugh laugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 06/22/08 03:23 AM


ohwell noway I had a relationship with a woman that I now realize I knew nothing about noway ohwell


but but...i only lied about my age...laugh laugh
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

auburngirl's photo
Sun 06/22/08 03:26 AM
laugh laugh

Sir_Galahad's photo
Sun 06/22/08 03:28 AM

by the paranoia in online dating?

Everything is so different when it comes to online dating. In the real world, you meet someone, talk for a bit and exchange numbers, then the guy calls or texts and they usually make a date at the end of the conversation.

Online things are totally different. We are worried about rapist, stalkers, players, gold diggers, liars, and just about everything else we can think of and we're constantly on the look out for red flags.

We have no choice but to use common sense in the real world, why do we find it so easy to lose it in cyberspace?

I like to think that most people on jsh/mingle2 have good intentions. But of course they all do not. Hey I'm just asking that people use a little more common sense on here.

When you see a pic of a person that is flawless 9 times out of 10 it's a fake. When they only will talk to you during certain times of the day, they're usually married. And I'm sure I could think of 100 other things.

My point is, stop and think about it! If it looks or reads like it's too good to be true, then yes, it probably is.


Um, the first few meetings should ALWAYS be in public.

Peccy's photo
Sun 06/22/08 03:40 AM


by the paranoia in online dating?

Everything is so different when it comes to online dating. In the real world, you meet someone, talk for a bit and exchange numbers, then the guy calls or texts and they usually make a date at the end of the conversation.

Online things are totally different. We are worried about rapist, stalkers, players, gold diggers, liars, and just about everything else we can think of and we're constantly on the look out for red flags.

We have no choice but to use common sense in the real world, why do we find it so easy to lose it in cyberspace?

I like to think that most people on jsh/mingle2 have good intentions. But of course they all do not. Hey I'm just asking that people use a little more common sense on here.

When you see a pic of a person that is flawless 9 times out of 10 it's a fake. When they only will talk to you during certain times of the day, they're usually married. And I'm sure I could think of 100 other things.

My point is, stop and think about it! If it looks or reads like it's too good to be true, then yes, it probably is.


Um, the first few meetings should ALWAYS be in public.
Yes, once again, that's common sense.

Sluggo's photo
Sun 06/22/08 03:44 AM

Um, the first few meetings should ALWAYS be in public.


Quit it!!! The 1st date always starts in my Bed!!!
What are you trying to do to me here laugh laugh laugh

bastet126's photo
Sun 06/22/08 03:52 AM
thanks dad! laugh :tongue: flowerforyou

Sluggo's photo
Sun 06/22/08 04:00 AM
There you go, Who's your Daddy!!!

bastet126's photo
Sun 06/22/08 04:01 AM

There you go, Who's your Daddy!!!


:wink: bigsmile

Peccy's photo
Sun 06/22/08 04:02 AM

thanks dad! laugh :tongue: flowerforyou
you need a daddy missy!

bastet126's photo
Sun 06/22/08 04:04 AM


thanks dad! laugh :tongue: flowerforyou
you need a daddy missy!


devil laugh

BonnyMiss's photo
Sun 06/22/08 04:12 AM
I just knew I'd be laughing like a drain the moment I saw Mirror and Sluggo respond to this thread.......... Thank you for the Sunday morning entertainment lads flowerforyou

Sluggo's photo
Sun 06/22/08 04:19 AM

I just knew I'd be laughing like a drain the moment I saw Mirror and Sluggo respond to this thread.......... Thank you for the Sunday morning entertainment lads flowerforyou


flowerforyou Any time for you flowerforyou flowerforyou

sweetandstrong's photo
Sun 06/22/08 04:21 AM
Peccy, you are assuming that the general population has common sense. I know I lost mine. lOL!

Sluggo's photo
Sun 06/22/08 04:29 AM
MissBonnie, if you want some more entertainment read the "WHY" thread under relationships.

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