do you like when women call you in the process of getting to know each other? I really like this guy and I have not heard from him for few days. 2 weeks ago, he told me that he like me very much. What do you think? Should I call him or just move on?

Move on, they call me Kerbear

get ready to move on....

leave him a nasty message..then move on!

ehhh if he cant make up his mind forget him

why sit around

when you can be out enjoying yourself


been there

Call me

I like getting calls. It tells me you're interested. I mean, after we make plans, I shouldn't have to call you but once to confirm those plans are still on...in plenty of time to ensure that you recall the plans that were made.

So...to put it another way, guys tend to call for "business" purposes, to confirm plans made, and not so much for "getting to know" someone.

thanks guys

Any man that makes a woman wait, esp after saying he likes her, is playing you...Move on darlin...

I saw her first

so that explains it and just to think i was thinking about calling you

Move on.

In turn, one of my first matches, responded to an email I sent by saying, "I'm not ignoring you, I'm just busy at the moment." or something along those lines. How many times should I "bug" her? She SAYS there's an interest, but hasn't been real forthcoming with the emails. If she HAD been, I would have already given her my number to call.

Now, once I give out my number, isn't it reasonable to expect the person to CALL me? That is, after all, why I gave it out!

I've talked to THREE people here so far. One hasn't really responded since the initial "favorable" response. The second cancelled plans we had made...and rescheduled. The third...well, I expected to meet "just as friends"...and is supposed to get back with me about somewhere to go.

It's all "wait and see". Nothing, so far, is solid. More response would...how should I put it...make the relationship more serious? Until I have a serious relationship, why shouldn't I continue looking?

Call him see what happens.

If we call to much, we are needy and all clingy.
And if we don't call......Awfully quick to kick to the curb.
I am asking here, have you gone out with this guy yet or no?

move on and pick up a head while you're moving ..

Bingo! You women want equal rights, use them. PICK UP the phone and call yourself, if you want to talk! Why should guys have to do all the work?

If it's a case where neither one of you have called, then sure, give him a buzz... but if you've called him a few times and yet he's gone 2 weeks without calling you, then move on... as the book says... he's just not into you.... if that's the case... lol