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so your into girls? thats so hot |
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I think it's more of a terminological convention than anything. I have seen dozens of women in their 40s and 50s who use "girl" or "gurl" or some permutation thereof in their screen names. It's just shorthand for "Oh, by the way, I'm female" to me. Call me "boy" if you want, I'm good with that. I wouldn't see that as degrading or reflective of some sort of lingering juvenility. Then again, I'm egregiously immature, so it might be more appropriate in this instance, anyway! 
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of a 55 year old guy who says he is looking for the right "girl". GIRL? That alone would make me not talk to him. If I wrote in my profile that I was looking for the right "boy", what would you think? I'm with you, but on occassion I try to overlook it. Old school stuff that just hasn't disappeared. I've been known to correct men AND WOMEN on that stuff!! 
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of a 55 year old guy who says he is looking for the right "girl". GIRL? That alone would make me not talk to him. If I wrote in my profile that I was looking for the right "boy", what would you think? well if you wrote you were looking for a boy, i would be like  sounds pervie and like child molesting.
i hope that he doesnt mean that??? because that could potentially be very bad. 
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of a 55 year old guy who says he is looking for the right "girl". GIRL? That alone would make me not talk to him. If I wrote in my profile that I was looking for the right "boy", what would you think? well if you wrote you were looking for a boy, i would be like sounds pervie and like child molesting.
i hope that he doesnt mean that??? because that could potentially be very bad.
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(Words heard in TN) .... "Over here, boy", "I'm a'goin' ta my mama's", "my daddy chews tobacco" and last but not least.... "lookin' mighty fine, girl!" thats the same here. a man is a man a women is a woman and boys and girls are children. doesnt that mean the same everywhere?? |
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(Words heard in TN) .... "Over here, boy", "I'm a'goin' ta my mama's", "my daddy chews tobacco" and last but not least.... "lookin' mighty fine, girl!" thats the same here. a man is a man a women is a woman and boys and girls are children. doesnt that mean the same everywhere?? |
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Are you maybe over analyzing? Just a thought....ducks and covers his butt on the way out of the thread. I like to write but if I use the same word again and again then its fairly bad. Interchanging woman and girl is ok for that reason but I would have to look at the profile to see if that was what he's doing. "I would like to find a woman who is nice and knows how to plant corn. She should be a woman who is not afraid of pigs or chickens. The woman I am thinking of will be someone like that woman in "Annie Get Your Gun"." |
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I would not judge your words until I knew you better....writing a profile about one self is not easy for some people...... Perhaps you might help him instead of talking about him....We guys could always use the wisdom and insight of you ladies... My .08 Peace Yeah thats me kinder,gentler kinda guy.......<---Ask me how that has worked out for me. |
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Edited by
ElaineSeekingJerry
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Sat 06/21/08 01:37 PM
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I would not judge your words until I knew you better....writing a profile about one self is not easy for some people...... Perhaps you might help him instead of talking about him....We guys could always use the wisdom and insight of you ladies... My .08 Peace Yeah thats me kinder,gentler kinda guy.......<---Ask me how that has worked out for me. Never underestimate your value as the 'kinder, gentler kinda guy' ... there are a few of us left who still hold that persona in really high esteem ... promise! 
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of a 55 year old guy who says he is looking for the right "girl". GIRL? That alone would make me not talk to him. If I wrote in my profile that I was looking for the right "boy", what would you think? well if you wrote you were looking for a boy, i would be like sounds pervie and like child molesting.
i hope that he doesnt mean that??? because that could potentially be very bad.
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(Words heard in TN) .... "Over here, boy", "I'm a'goin' ta my mama's", "my daddy chews tobacco" and last but not least.... "lookin' mighty fine, girl!" thats the same here. a man is a man a women is a woman and boys and girls are children. doesnt that mean the same everywhere?? i agree, i did to, i stated that above. sounds worrying to me. |
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Edited by
sam53
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of a 55 year old guy who says he is looking for the right "girl". GIRL? That alone would make me not talk to him. If I wrote in my profile that I was looking for the right "boy", what would you think? 55 with a 20 , 21 , 22 ....will be a good match if that is what he wants . We are free in seeking our happiness . The rest can only watch and can criticise ..... !. Consenting adults choose for themselves .  .
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of a 55 year old guy who says he is looking for the right "girl". GIRL? That alone would make me not talk to him. If I wrote in my profile that I was looking for the right "boy", what would you think? 55 with a 20 , 21 , 22 ....will be a good match if that is what he wants . We are free in seeking our happiness . The rest can only watch and can criticise ..... !. Consenting adults choose for themselves . .
but he said a girl, i would class a girl up to the age of about 16, then i would class her as being a women. what makes you think hes talking about a 20, 21, 22 year old and not a 16 year old girl?? did i miss something?? |
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I choose to think "guys" use "girl" as a term of endearment. I think "they" think they have to walk a thin line regarding the age factor. Then again, maybe he just really wants a "young thing". I just pass on by those that I find offensive. Here's me...passing on by!
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For us older guys let me say Thank God for the younger women with daddy issues>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
I am joking, just joking... I date a 25 yr old after my divorce and while the sex was ok (women my age are far better) The DRAMA.. ON MY GOD .....never again ......Lets just say I got what I deserved.......I under what she is doing tonight.....Joking |
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I choose to think "guys" use "girl" as a term of endearment. I think "they" think they have to walk a thin line regarding the age factor. Then again, maybe he just really wants a "young thing". I just pass on by those that I find offensive. Here's me...passing on by!
i see what your saying, but i would be a bit offended if someone called me a girl, because im not a girl, i left school many years ago. i think a lady or women is much more appropriate in my opinion
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I choose to think "guys" use "girl" as a term of endearment. I think "they" think they have to walk a thin line regarding the age factor. Then again, maybe he just really wants a "young thing". I just pass on by those that I find offensive. Here's me...passing on by!
i see what your saying, but i would be a bit offended if someone called me a girl, because im not a girl, i left school many years ago. i think a lady or women is much more appropriate in my opinion
IMO It's just a cultural thing. I just really don't think anyone is trying to be offensive about it, that's all. If someone said something to me that I didn't like, I would just ask them not to do it again. I wouldn't think they were a pervert or something...unless they did it again. Again, IMO! Hey, I tried you chocolate! Let's just say I'll stick with Hershey's! Do you have Hershey in England?
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I think it's more of a terminological convention than anything. I have seen dozens of women in their 40s and 50s who use "girl" or "gurl" or some permutation thereof in their screen names. It's just shorthand for "Oh, by the way, I'm female" to me. Call me "boy" if you want, I'm good with that. I wouldn't see that as degrading or reflective of some sort of lingering juvenility. Then again, I'm egregiously immature, so it might be more appropriate in this instance, anyway!
Yep...well except the 'egregiously immature' part 
I think it's kind of endearing to still be referred to as girl...'You go girl', 'Babygirl', 'That's My Girl', 'Lookin good girl' |
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of a 55 year old guy who says he is looking for the right "girl". GIRL? That alone would make me not talk to him. If I wrote in my profile that I was looking for the right "boy", what would you think? 55 with a 20 , 21 , 22 ....will be a good match if that is what he wants . We are free in seeking our happiness . The rest can only watch and can criticise ..... !. Consenting adults choose for themselves . .
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