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Edited by
MYheartACHES4u
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Fri 06/20/08 10:35 AM
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anyone that doesnt take advantage of a situation (which often involve deceitful, dishonest and other unscrupulous acts) will finish last. Not saying you have to become a piece of shlt to finish better in life but it sure does help. then reply!!! 
i did and point taken but this just isnt the way most think. It was more poetry than realistic. hence why this guy will always finish last, and not in the way you described Iz.... 
With all the "nice" guys who complain about being "nice" it is pure irony to me.... They go in the trash dumpster with the jerks, the assholes, the users, the pompus ones, the I'm only in this for me ones.... I'm glad you found a "nice" guy that I can take the quotes off the nice part....
I think I'm on that road myself...time will tell...
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redhead... 4u.... comprimise!!!! i hear that colorado is nice this time of year... 
there no ocean in colorado 
hehe.. thats why its called comprimise!!!!!! how about montana......have always wanted to live there beautiful place.... email the redhead and ask her.. lol
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anyone that doesnt take advantage of a situation (which often involve deceitful, dishonest and other unscrupulous acts) will finish last. Not saying you have to become a piece of shlt to finish better in life but it sure does help. then reply!!!
i did and point taken but this just isnt the way most think. It was more poetry than realistic. hence why this guy will always finish last, and not in the way you described Iz....
With all the "nice" guys who complain about being "nice" it is pure irony to me.... They go in the trash dumpster with the jerks, the assholes, the users, the pompus ones, the I'm only in this for me ones.... I'm glad you found a "nice" guy that I can take the quotes off the nice part....
I think I'm on that road myself...time will tell...
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and lily...
take it easy on the guy.. he has just lost hope.. he will get it back.... poety or not. lol... im off to work... 
play nice kids... |
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Tire fixen' boy....
Date on Sunday, I'll keep you posted... 
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Tire fixen' boy....
Date on Sunday, I'll keep you posted...
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(((Izzie))) very well put and beautifully written...
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That was beautifully written.
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thank you princess....
half inspired by the sweeties that we talk to daily at your place....
we all know where the other half came from..
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thank you princess.... half inspired by the sweeties that we talk to daily at your place....
we all know where the other half came from..
They are sweeties..
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Awwwww that was AWESOME!
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Well, I'm a nice guy, but I have that geeky/dorky/goofy/preppy image.
You wrote something that should make all nice guys feel good about who they are. But, you did miss something. See, nice guys are who they are. Sometimes we may date a girl that would hurt us emotionally, but for the most part, we tend to believe that treating a woman with the respect that they deserve. Funny thing is, when we are right there in front of them, and we show and tell them that we want to be with them and they know how "nice" we are, they go for the bad boy. So, by the time a girl wants one of us, we get tired of looking, and some of us lose hope. I won't lie, it always sucks to hear from a girl you really like how nice you are, but then they choose a guy that will treat them like sh*t. I'm fortunate now because I am with a woman who treats me with respect, and she is so happy that she found me. Like you Izzie, she dated bad boys. They were attracted to her and she felt that she could not find a nice guy to love and appreciate her for who she is. But, she found me...well, we found each other. |
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Well, I'm a nice guy, but I have that geeky/dorky/goofy/preppy image.
You wrote something that should make all nice guys feel good about who they are. But, you did miss something. See, nice guys are who they are. Sometimes we may date a girl that would hurt us emotionally, but for the most part, we tend to believe that treating a woman with the respect that they deserve. Funny thing is, when we are right there in front of them, and we show and tell them that we want to be with them and they know how "nice" we are, they go for the bad boy. So, by the time a girl wants one of us, we get tired of looking, and some of us lose hope. I won't lie, it always sucks to hear from a girl you really like how nice you are, but then they choose a guy that will treat them like sh*t. I'm fortunate now because I am with a woman who treats me with respect, and she is so happy that she found me. Like you Izzie, she dated bad boys. They were attracted to her and she felt that she could not find a nice guy to love and appreciate her for who she is. But, she found me...well, we found each other. I think she did cover everything the "needed" to be said.. IF people get it then they have matured and understand.. IF they don't then they will repeat the same losing attempts over and over... |
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Well, I'm a nice guy, but I have that geeky/dorky/goofy/preppy image.
You wrote something that should make all nice guys feel good about who they are. But, you did miss something. See, nice guys are who they are. Sometimes we may date a girl that would hurt us emotionally, but for the most part, we tend to believe that treating a woman with the respect that they deserve. Funny thing is, when we are right there in front of them, and we show and tell them that we want to be with them and they know how "nice" we are, they go for the bad boy. So, by the time a girl wants one of us, we get tired of looking, and some of us lose hope. I won't lie, it always sucks to hear from a girl you really like how nice you are, but then they choose a guy that will treat them like sh*t. I'm fortunate now because I am with a woman who treats me with respect, and she is so happy that she found me. Like you Izzie, she dated bad boys. They were attracted to her and she felt that she could not find a nice guy to love and appreciate her for who she is. But, she found me...well, we found each other. I think she did cover everything the "needed" to be said.. IF people get it then they have matured and understand.. IF they don't then they will repeat the same losing attempts over and over... Oh. And I agree with you on this. I was just throwing out that other point. Actually, have to agree that what Izzie wrote is beautifully written and makes a whole hell of alot of sense. |
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Well, I'm a nice guy, but I have that geeky/dorky/goofy/preppy image.
You wrote something that should make all nice guys feel good about who they are. But, you did miss something. See, nice guys are who they are. Sometimes we may date a girl that would hurt us emotionally, but for the most part, we tend to believe that treating a woman with the respect that they deserve. Funny thing is, when we are right there in front of them, and we show and tell them that we want to be with them and they know how "nice" we are, they go for the bad boy. So, by the time a girl wants one of us, we get tired of looking, and some of us lose hope. I won't lie, it always sucks to hear from a girl you really like how nice you are, but then they choose a guy that will treat them like sh*t. I'm fortunate now because I am with a woman who treats me with respect, and she is so happy that she found me. Like you Izzie, she dated bad boys. They were attracted to her and she felt that she could not find a nice guy to love and appreciate her for who she is. But, she found me...well, we found each other. I don't lose hope. I do find my self questioning peoples motives as I have been hurt so many times before. That's not a good thing as frequently I can be wrong instead of wronged again. Still frequently it has saved me too. I'm becoming a jaded good guy. Lose hope? Nope. |
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Edited by
Ptownguy
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Fri 06/20/08 02:03 PM
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hence why this guy will always finish last, and not in the way you described Iz.... how would you conclude "ill finish last" when you dont even know me and apparently didnt understand what i said? |
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Meant to read this earlier Izzie, very well said, and I'm glad to you're learning the "compromise" so well you're passing it along
For all the good guys at 
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the nice guys will finish last with me.. and last is the best place to be....
Not for us nice guys, who wait forever for you women to come around to the conclusion that we are worth five seconds of your time...
Still, congratulations.
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