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If you could go back into a former relationship and all the issues that caused the breakup, in my case someone who (lied, stole, then topped it off by cheating on me with another man).
For your relationship fill in the blanks. If these issues could somehow be magically fixed never to be an issue again would you consider going back with that person? Could you ever overlook the past forgive and forget, and act like nothing ever happened? |
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no
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i believe where i went wrong was the way i made pancakes
maybe if i used the spatula for the pancakes instead of my husband we would still be together |
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nope...enjoying the trip forward to much
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nope... I value the lessons I learn from the past experiences... Thusly helping me better refine what exactly what I want.
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for sure!!! but only god can change a person like that! and like the bible says, you shall know him by his actions or fruits.
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i also threw bananas at my husband
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no, I would keep life like it is.
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i told him thats what God wanted
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never again...2nd chance meant I got burnt twice by same woman
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Nope...It took nearly a year to realize how unhappy I was even before all the lies, betrayal & coldness ...he didn't offer much even before all of that ! I am happier & healthier alone than I've been in 26 years! Learned a lot of valuable lessons, though...the man I fall in love with in the future will be the one to reap the benefits of those lessons ...
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Never... Just because those issues would have been solved doen't mean there wont ever be issues that would arise causing even more problems. There is no point in thinking about the past, its a waste of the present and makes no room for the future.
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No for me too.
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oh yeah....she did look pretty good naked
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I'm not even sure what happened with my last one, but if theings could have went smoothly I probably wouldn't have done it over again. I have enjoyed dating, and I think I may have met someone I am compatible with.
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chances are no. I could forgive but to take a chance on having the same problems arise agains just doesn't make sense to me. No sense living in the past. I would rather live in the present and look forward to the future.
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Edited by
brooke007
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Sat 06/21/08 02:38 AM
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i just intend to move forward and not backwards..
i walk much easier when im moving forward |
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hell no
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Yes, but the relationship would never be the same again. It would take work but it could be better and stronger, though. Depends on the level of commitment of both and how much they are willing to invest in the relationship.
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No, the guy i was with was just psycho, though he talked down from me, borrowed money (and never returned it), and never hung out with me, i dont think even if he changed those ways I could go back. I think he just would have found some more things to do to upset me.
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