Your self, where your life is at this point?

The reason i asked this, is i been on here for almost two years and not one time have i ever posted that i know of, am i attractive, am i ugly, does anyone want me etc etc other then playing around on here to have some fun. Now mind you, i'm not upset or anything like that, but whats up with people not caring about themselves and learning how to be happy with out thinking that another humon being is going to change that yes we all get lonely onec in a while, but isn't there more to life then to try and find that one to fill that void as some look at it. I kinow this is an on going topic, but what do you really get out of it? it don't make you feel good, it's not putting a smile on your face, people are less to talk to you and you end up going over and over the same stiuation and never geting anyware. So if your going throught this right now. What are you going to do about it, if anything at all?

Sometimes my underwear goes up in my crack and makes me unhappy.

Mingle.

I see you have a baby in your hands and you are happy . I do not see what the fuss is about.... .

Yes I am happy with myself, I just want to get through this next year, my daughter is a senior in high school and that is a very trying time for the both of us. I am looking forward to a great future with me, myself and I.

Amen brother.

I can pretty faithfully say that I'm not too satisfied as to where things are going for me. I won't go into the particulars as they're simply too numerous (and too boring) to list here, but things haven't been all that good. That goes especially for the last couple of years.

I've just been perved!!

This is what i'm looking for, people that are looking forward to something. That have a purpos, a willing to go some ware or at least have a plan other then thinking that the one will do all this for me.

i couldn't agree more!! one of my favorite words is positivity, i may even have invented it...i'm not sure. but it's amazing how good life can be, even without a significant other, when you're positive and upbeat and enjoy your own life first.

If we aren't happy with ourself....whats the point we could never be happy with anyone else. Can't base our happiness on another person...that just will never work. I know people like this and they are some of the most unhappy people I have ever dealt with.

I'd like to drop some weight, and I thought at 42 I'd be happily married and just living life... I didnt think i'd be divorced, just graduating collge, looking into another degree living on my own...

but ya... I like me... I like my life.... it's all good

Some people need that constant validation, Mike by the way. Insecurity comes in lots of juicy flavors - this one, one of the hardest to recognize, and easiest to trip over (introspectively).

It seems you have been witness to a miracle.
Congratulations!!

"All the bills are paid, i got it made in the shade, all that i may need is that woman, understand"

I understand we all go through things in life. And when we do, thats when we hang on tight somtimes to our closes friends. We all have them, just somtims we have to reach out. Hope things change for the better for you.

I'll second that, dear.
How 'bout you scootch over and make room for me in that boat? We'll ride the storm out together (and I'll have someone to eat when the food runs out!)

Wear a thong--it's MEANT to go there

I see that alot and been around it myself. Today i chose not to, why bring myself down for somone that don't want to change for the better.

I don't post in the rate me threads....I'm not going to change how I look for others. I fit ME...and that's all that matters.

if you like you, you like your life. Then thats where it all starts