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going to give up looking for a man on this site for a few reasons.
number one is all the nice guys live to far away. and number 2, i dont think its fair to meet someone, just incase i cant have a child, that wouldnt be fair on him and to much stress on him, plus why would a guy wanna hang around with someone in pain all the time. so i think im just going to stay for my friends, and new friends. i think this is a sensible idea. 
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If its meant to be, it will be!!
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If its meant to be, it will be!!
i just dont think it is at this time, it may never be. i dont want to be single, but for the reasons i stated,i think its sensible.
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Can understand number 1, but you're being a little hard on yourself for number 2. First off again, there always is adoption if you can't have a kid naturally, and two, if the guy truly loves you he will care for you and whatever your needs are. Don't sell yourself short like that, you'll find a good guy sooner or later.
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well, stay on the site just for the friendship of the friends that you have made
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Not every man wants children, or at least the 'guarantee' of having children ... why are you counting yourself out of the game so soon? I know this process can be gruelling, and frustrating, and daunting ... but you have soooo much more to offer a man than just your fertility or possible lack of it, hon!
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well, stay on the site just for the friendship of the friends that you have made
thats what i intend to do.
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Can understand number 1, but you're being a little hard on yourself for number 2. First off again, there always is adoption if you can't have a kid naturally, and two, if the guy truly loves you he will care for you and whatever your needs are. Don't sell yourself short like that, you'll find a good guy sooner or later.
i dont think its fair to put that on someone i meet though, he would be better off with someone who can have a baby and life will be easier. |
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Not every man wants children, or at least the 'guarantee' of having children ... why are you counting yourself out of the game so soon? I know this process can be gruelling, and frustrating, and daunting ... but you have soooo much more to offer a man than just your fertility or possible lack of it, hon!
thanks, but on most of the mens profiles, they want children, and i cant guarantee i can give them that. |
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Can understand number 1, but you're being a little hard on yourself for number 2. First off again, there always is adoption if you can't have a kid naturally, and two, if the guy truly loves you he will care for you and whatever your needs are. Don't sell yourself short like that, you'll find a good guy sooner or later.
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Can understand number 1, but you're being a little hard on yourself for number 2. First off again, there always is adoption if you can't have a kid naturally, and two, if the guy truly loves you he will care for you and whatever your needs are. Don't sell yourself short like that, you'll find a good guy sooner or later.
i dont think its fair to put that on someone i meet though, he would be better off with someone who can have a baby and life will be easier. Can understand that, but again as with the other part if he truly loves you he will understand. |
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Can understand number 1, but you're being a little hard on yourself for number 2. First off again, there always is adoption if you can't have a kid naturally, and two, if the guy truly loves you he will care for you and whatever your needs are. Don't sell yourself short like that, you'll find a good guy sooner or later.
i dont think its fair to put that on someone i meet though, he would be better off with someone who can have a baby and life will be easier.  
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Can understand number 1, but you're being a little hard on yourself for number 2. First off again, there always is adoption if you can't have a kid naturally, and two, if the guy truly loves you he will care for you and whatever your needs are. Don't sell yourself short like that, you'll find a good guy sooner or later.
Thanks, I do what I can.
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debbie i think he just hasnt joined jsh yet! give it time....
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Can understand number 1, but you're being a little hard on yourself for number 2. First off again, there always is adoption if you can't have a kid naturally, and two, if the guy truly loves you he will care for you and whatever your needs are. Don't sell yourself short like that, you'll find a good guy sooner or later.
i dont think its fair to put that on someone i meet though, he would be better off with someone who can have a baby and life will be easier.
lol
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this is a dating site??? who knew?
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Can understand number 1, but you're being a little hard on yourself for number 2. First off again, there always is adoption if you can't have a kid naturally, and two, if the guy truly loves you he will care for you and whatever your needs are. Don't sell yourself short like that, you'll find a good guy sooner or later.
i dont think its fair to put that on someone i meet though, he would be better off with someone who can have a baby and life will be easier. Can understand that, but again as with the other part if he truly loves you he will understand. bit i dont want to put the stress on someone, i know what it feels like, and i wouldnt wish it on my worst enemy. |
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debbie i think he just hasnt joined jsh yet! give it time....
maybe i shouldnt give up so soon, i dont know. ive got 2 hospital appts in 2 weeks, which i know are going to be bad news, maybe im just down, and feel like gving up on certain things. i dunno 
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this is a dating site??? who knew?
which dating site?? jsh, oneplusyou, mingle, arrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggg
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debbie i think he just hasnt joined jsh yet! give it time....
maybe i shouldnt give up so soon, i dont know. ive got 2 hospital appts in 2 weeks, which i know are going to be bad news, maybe im just down, and feel like gving up on certain things. i dunno
Sounds to me you're letting everything around you get to you. Don't let it. You are a good person and deserve only the best, always remember that. I might suggest doing something for YOU today, something you enjoy, that will cheer you up. Sort of like therapy. |
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