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Sun 06/15/08 10:48 AM
I know I don't want children

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Sun 06/15/08 10:48 AM

I know I don't want children


may i ask why??

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Sun 06/15/08 10:48 AM



debbie i think he just hasnt joined jsh yet! give it time....flowerforyou flowerforyou


maybe i shouldnt give up so soon, i dont know. ive got 2 hospital appts in 2 weeks, which i know are going to be bad news, maybe im just down, and feel like gving up on certain things. i dunno ohwell


Sounds to me you're letting everything around you get to you. Don't let it. You are a good person and deserve only the best, always remember that.

I might suggest doing something for YOU today, something you enjoy, that will cheer you up. Sort of like therapy.


im ok. flowerforyou

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Sun 06/15/08 10:54 AM


I know I don't want children


may i ask why??






Just don't, I was never a kid type of person

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Sun 06/15/08 10:55 AM




Can understand number 1, but you're being a little hard on yourself for number 2. First off again, there always is adoption if you can't have a kid naturally, and two, if the guy truly loves you he will care for you and whatever your needs are. Don't sell yourself short like that, you'll find a good guy sooner or later. flowerforyou


i dont think its fair to put that on someone i meet though, he would be better off with someone who can have a baby and life will be easier.


Can understand that, but again as with the other part if he truly loves you he will understand.


bit i dont want to put the stress on someone, i know what it feels like, and i wouldnt wish it on my worst enemy.



See,Right there.Your not looking for your worst enemy.Your looking for your best friend.There is a big differance hun.Just think how nice it will be when you find that one.bigsmile bigsmile

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Sun 06/15/08 10:55 AM



I know I don't want children


may i ask why??






Just don't, I was never a kid type of person


ok, fair enough flowerforyou

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