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Is marriage a good or a bad thing ? |
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Edited by
msmyka
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Wed 06/11/08 03:20 PM
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Don't necessarily need the piece of paper since it didn't work out the first time but hey a big shiny rock is always nice I buy my own shiny rocks .... lots and lots of them No, seriously, I kind of have a problem |
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its a great thing.......its the divorce that sucks
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I just want the shiny rock.
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Depends on who it os getting married
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Marriage, I'm not making that mistake ever again
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The # 1 cause of divorce is marriage!!
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I would like to get married. But when you get married the next thing you know ... you've got a wife. - Emo Phillips
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Marriage can be a good thing for insurance purposes, survival benefits, interest in property, protecting your investments, etc... Unfortunatly, it can also be a bad thing. I've been married twice already, 1st time I was too young to know any better, second time was a disaster. I think people give up too easy now days. There is too many choices out there, men and woman alike get into a routine that gets stale. Me, myself, I still believe in marriage. I've know couples that have been together for over 60 years through the good and the bad. It gives me hope.
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I'd like to think it is a good thing...but my experience has not proven that . A marriage of the heart & an honest, heart-felt commitment without the hoopla & papers can be just as real & lasting as any that is legally sanctioned. It is just a matter of 2 people realizing they are a 'family' and will be forever. jmho
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If he's the right one, I think it'd be best thing to ever happen but if not, oh well, good thing there's divorce lol
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Edited by
BlueskyJ
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Thu 06/12/08 06:02 AM
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I think being able to walk away and choosing not to is what its all about! I like this MSMYKA
...It's not really about marriage, its about how two people feel about each other and what they are willing to put into the relationship to make it work.... Dont settle for the one you can live with, wait for the one you can't live without...*i may just use this all day* |
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never been married..but heard it has good and bad points
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Nowadays, people have the wrong perception of what "Marriage" is supposed to be all about. Today, if two people think the sex is great between them, and then decide that they "THINK" they love one another, they get married. Or, if the woman gets pregnant, the "RIGHT" thing to do (at least in there mind) is to get married....for the babies sake. Basically, people get married for the wrong reasons.....and not for the one fundamental reason.....which is that you know, 100%, that you love someone and you will work your ass off with them to build that relationship. Marriage takes work. Hell, relationships take work. But being married is all about saying that you love that person for forever, and that you are happy with them, want only to be with them, and so your marriage vows are (supposed) to be held sacred in that respect.
Is marriage good? Yeah, it can be awesome. But at the same time, getting married for the wrong reasons will end in divorce, which sucks big time to go through. So kiddies, before you decide to "get hitched" make sure you get a pre-nup. |
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