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Let's say you meet someone online and they are almost exactly what you have been looking for in a mate. Whatever it is you want/need from a mate, it's pretty much all there, but...
Now suppose they have one trait or situation in their life that makes you take pause or even call the whole deal off. What would that one thing be (no money, crazy ex, compulsive liar, or whatever)? Could you ever be with that person later on if the situation resolved itself and why? |
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Let's say you meet someone online and they are almost exactly what you have been looking for in a mate. Whatever it is you want/need from a mate, it's pretty much all there, but... Now suppose they have one trait or situation in their life that makes you take pause or even call the whole deal off. What would that one thing be (no money, crazy ex, compulsive liar, or whatever)? Could you ever be with that person later on if the situation resolved itself and why? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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yes whatever their issue was and they were willing to change then so would I can thus we both could resolve things together as a team so to speak
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Let's say you meet someone online and they are almost exactly what you have been looking for in a mate. Whatever it is you want/need from a mate, it's pretty much all there, but... Now suppose they have one trait or situation in their life that makes you take pause or even call the whole deal off. What would that one thing be (no money, crazy ex, compulsive liar, or whatever)? Could you ever be with that person later on if the situation resolved itself and why? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I perv everone on this site on a regular basis... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Lying. Because if they are were found out to be a liar, or omitter, then you don't know the person at all so you don't really know who you fell in love with.
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yes, if it was fixed, never to return again
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alcohol/drug dependence or abuse
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Let's say you meet someone online and they are almost exactly what you have been looking for in a mate. Whatever it is you want/need from a mate, it's pretty much all there, but... Now suppose they have one trait or situation in their life that makes you take pause or even call the whole deal off. What would that one thing be (no money, crazy ex, compulsive liar, or whatever)? Could you ever be with that person later on if the situation resolved itself and why? If it was something immoral and or illegal in a major way, probably, but I would have to know the whole story, and if it affected any of their future-especially if it involved me (potentially). |
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Lying is a deal breaker.
Crazy ex to the point of daily interference in my life is a deal breaker, Laziness is a deal breaker, Lack of compassion to mankind is a deal breaker, No sense of humor, respect, humility, tenderness, sense of responsibility is a deal breaker. Immaturity is a deal breaker. A victim attitude and neediness-deal breakers. |
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Lying. Because if they are were found out to be a liar, or omitter, then you don't know the person at all so you don't really know who you fell in love with. ![]() yeah! that too! |
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Let's say you meet someone online and they are almost exactly what you have been looking for in a mate. Whatever it is you want/need from a mate, it's pretty much all there, but... Now suppose they have one trait or situation in their life that makes you take pause or even call the whole deal off. What would that one thing be (no money, crazy ex, compulsive liar, or whatever)? Could you ever be with that person later on if the situation resolved itself and why? If they can't deal with me having children (5 at that ![]() |
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Little awareness on what a relationship 'deal breaker' really is..
Lack of common sense ![]() |
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Alcohol, drug abuse, lying...other than over Christmas gifts
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Little awareness on what a relationship 'deal breaker' really is.. Lack of common sense ![]() ![]() |
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Let's say you meet someone online and they are almost exactly what you have been looking for in a mate. Whatever it is you want/need from a mate, it's pretty much all there, but... Now suppose they have one trait or situation in their life that makes you take pause or even call the whole deal off. What would that one thing be (no money, crazy ex, compulsive liar, or whatever)? Could you ever be with that person later on if the situation resolved itself and why? If they can't deal with me having children (5 at that ![]() That's one I personally don't understand. I think kids are great. If I found a woman to love who happened to have 5 children like you do, I would consider myself very lucky indeed assuming they were all able to accept the fact I was with their mom. If not then that would be something to try to work through. Maybe that might help make us closer in the end.... ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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