Topic: Deal Breakers....
Alterego1961's photo
Sun 06/08/08 04:30 PM
Let's say you meet someone online and they are almost exactly what you have been looking for in a mate. Whatever it is you want/need from a mate, it's pretty much all there, but...

Now suppose they have one trait or situation in their life that makes you take pause or even call the whole deal off. What would that one thing be (no money, crazy ex, compulsive liar, or whatever)? Could you ever be with that person later on if the situation resolved itself and why?

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 06/08/08 04:31 PM

Let's say you meet someone online and they are almost exactly what you have been looking for in a mate. Whatever it is you want/need from a mate, it's pretty much all there, but...

Now suppose they have one trait or situation in their life that makes you take pause or even call the whole deal off. What would that one thing be (no money, crazy ex, compulsive liar, or whatever)? Could you ever be with that person later on if the situation resolved itself and why?
laugh laugh Have you been spying on me?laugh laugh

kirk443's photo
Sun 06/08/08 04:32 PM
yes whatever their issue was and they were willing to change then so would I can thus we both could resolve things together as a team so to speak:wink: drinker i love bugs bunny nice pic by the way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!drinker drinker

Alterego1961's photo
Sun 06/08/08 04:33 PM


Let's say you meet someone online and they are almost exactly what you have been looking for in a mate. Whatever it is you want/need from a mate, it's pretty much all there, but...

Now suppose they have one trait or situation in their life that makes you take pause or even call the whole deal off. What would that one thing be (no money, crazy ex, compulsive liar, or whatever)? Could you ever be with that person later on if the situation resolved itself and why?
laugh laugh Have you been spying on me?laugh laugh


I perv everone on this site on a regular basis... laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 06/08/08 04:34 PM
Lying. Because if they are were found out to be a liar, or omitter, then you don't know the person at all so you don't really know who you fell in love with. :cry:

ladyliz1417's photo
Sun 06/08/08 04:34 PM
yes, if it was fixed, never to return againbigsmile

tanyaann's photo
Sun 06/08/08 04:34 PM
alcohol/drug dependence or abuse

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Sun 06/08/08 04:34 PM

Let's say you meet someone online and they are almost exactly what you have been looking for in a mate. Whatever it is you want/need from a mate, it's pretty much all there, but...

Now suppose they have one trait or situation in their life that makes you take pause or even call the whole deal off. What would that one thing be (no money, crazy ex, compulsive liar, or whatever)? Could you ever be with that person later on if the situation resolved itself and why?


If it was something immoral and or illegal in a major way, probably, but I would have to know the whole story, and if it affected any of their future-especially if it involved me (potentially).

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Sun 06/08/08 04:36 PM
Lying is a deal breaker.
Crazy ex to the point of daily interference in my life is a deal breaker,
Laziness is a deal breaker,
Lack of compassion to mankind is a deal breaker,
No sense of humor, respect, humility, tenderness, sense of responsibility is a deal breaker.
Immaturity is a deal breaker.
A victim attitude and neediness-deal breakers.

tanyaann's photo
Sun 06/08/08 04:39 PM

Lying. Because if they are were found out to be a liar, or omitter, then you don't know the person at all so you don't really know who you fell in love with. :cry:


yeah! that too!

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 06/08/08 04:41 PM

Let's say you meet someone online and they are almost exactly what you have been looking for in a mate. Whatever it is you want/need from a mate, it's pretty much all there, but...

Now suppose they have one trait or situation in their life that makes you take pause or even call the whole deal off. What would that one thing be (no money, crazy ex, compulsive liar, or whatever)? Could you ever be with that person later on if the situation resolved itself and why?



If they can't deal with me having children (5 at that :wink: )

Cali66's photo
Sun 06/08/08 04:43 PM
Little awareness on what a relationship 'deal breaker' really is..

Lack of common sense

yawn

No1sLove's photo
Sun 06/08/08 04:44 PM
Alcohol, drug abuse, lying...other than over Christmas gifts :tongue: and physically abusive behavior. Anything else can be worked out...someone with those issues should seek help before starting a new relationship...if they love someone they would. JMO

No1sLove's photo
Sun 06/08/08 04:45 PM

Little awareness on what a relationship 'deal breaker' really is..

Lack of common sense

yawn
That about covers all of mine...IF they are aware that it's common sense...but too many don't. ohwell

Alterego1961's photo
Sun 06/08/08 04:46 PM


Let's say you meet someone online and they are almost exactly what you have been looking for in a mate. Whatever it is you want/need from a mate, it's pretty much all there, but...

Now suppose they have one trait or situation in their life that makes you take pause or even call the whole deal off. What would that one thing be (no money, crazy ex, compulsive liar, or whatever)? Could you ever be with that person later on if the situation resolved itself and why?



If they can't deal with me having children (5 at that :wink: )


That's one I personally don't understand. I think kids are great. If I found a woman to love who happened to have 5 children like you do, I would consider myself very lucky indeed assuming they were all able to accept the fact I was with their mom. If not then that would be something to try to work through. Maybe that might help make us closer in the end.... flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou