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 well lets see.. he is having a bad day and he is bein really really mean to me. I was texting him an I told him that I was not feeling like myself today, having lot of emotions coming out at once an all he said to me was I need to figure it out cuz its gonna start affecting our relationship sooner then not, I then asked him if there was anything Im going that bugs him. then he said "Listen I dont have time to discuss this right now considering Im at work,if you wanna talk we can talk tonight when I get home" I understand he is at work an all but its just not like him to be soo mean to me. an then he said his phone was dieing an I told him to just text me when he gets power to his phone, then he said k... he always says ok I love you.. he didnt this time. am I over reacting or what? 
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Hes at work and having a bad day?
Yea, I wouldnt have hit him with that...I would have waited |
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hes probably just frustrated and sick of you txting him at work. I would hate to be texted or called all the time while im at work. The guys start to think your p#$%#Y whooped when the girls always calling.
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In general people get accustomed to a good thing and when they do they start demanding it and when they demand that is the beginning of the end go figure
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hes probably just frustrated and sick of you txting him at work. I would hate to be texted or called all the time while im at work. The guys start to think your p#$%#Y whooped when the girls always calling. |
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hes probably just frustrated and sick of you txting him at work. I would hate to be texted or called all the time while im at work. The guys start to think your p#$%#Y whooped when the girls always calling. |
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get rid of the zero and find someone who will be better suited to understand your mood swings........or someone who will help you when you are feeling down instead of hurt you
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relax hun... he is having a bad day... he mentioned this to you... he said he was busy at work... you need to respect that he is at work and there are top priorities there for him to get done... now that he knows you are feeling all these emotions and wanting to talk he might be stressing to call you and be so eager to do so now... just let things flow naturally let him get into contact with you... leave it alone for now.. let him come to you
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If you are both having a bad day it is probably better to just put it on hold...don't make decisions based on one bad feeling.
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Well...like you said, he's having a bad day. Guys have mood swings the same as girls do, they just don't always show it as much. Don't read too much into it, swallow your worry (even if you gotta choke on it lol) and give him a bit of space. Try texting him sometime tomorrow afternoon or evening with just a simple "hey hon, hope today is going better for you! Hit me up when you get the chance." (or equivilent there-of) that let's him contact you back when he's ready, let's him know you're not gunna jump all over him and then when does contact you back...don't immediately start in with all your hopes and fears. ask him how he's doing, let him vent a bit and get some of the stuff on his chest off. If you're a contributing factor to his stress, he'll tell you...and if not, he'll have felt better knowing that he was able to vent and rant a bit. If he doesn't say you're doing anything...then just don't worry. The more you constantly ask a guy "what's wrong...what's wrong...what's wrong..." the more he's going to start thinking something is wrong, and get aggrivated at being asked repeatedly. Guys are funny like that :P
Hope that helps! |
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no i dont think your over reacting.....the guy ive been talkin to is doing some of the same sh*t.....i give up!!!
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Don't jump to conclusions, bad days happen.
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Edited by
robert1652
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Sat 06/07/08 04:23 PM
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no i dont think your over reacting.....the guy ive been talkin to is doing some of the same sh*t.....i give up!!! Just as I thought |
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Well...like you said, he's having a bad day. Guys have mood swings the same as girls do, they just don't always show it as much. Don't read too much into it, swallow your worry (even if you gotta choke on it lol) and give him a bit of space. Try texting him sometime tomorrow afternoon or evening with just a simple "hey hon, hope today is going better for you! Hit me up when you get the chance." (or equivilent there-of) that let's him contact you back when he's ready, let's him know you're not gunna jump all over him and then when does contact you back...don't immediately start in with all your hopes and fears. ask him how he's doing, let him vent a bit and get some of the stuff on his chest off. If you're a contributing factor to his stress, he'll tell you...and if not, he'll have felt better knowing that he was able to vent and rant a bit. If he doesn't say you're doing anything...then just don't worry. The more you constantly ask a guy "what's wrong...what's wrong...what's wrong..." the more he's going to start thinking something is wrong, and get aggrivated at being asked repeatedly. Guys are funny like that :P Hope that helps! What they said^^^^^^^^ |
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I cant stand it when I am at work, and I get a text.."Why arent you talking to me?" "Are you mad at me?" "Did I do something wrong?" "I had a bad day and need to talk"
It can wait! Let me finihs my day without any other added frustrations... Now, if you were my wife, or significant of a few years, that would be different..... |
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well lets see.. he is having a bad day and he is bein really really mean to me. I was texting him an I told him that I was not feeling like myself today, having lot of emotions coming out at once an all he said to me was I need to figure it out cuz its gonna start affecting our relationship sooner then not, I then asked him if there was anything Im going that bugs him. then he said "Listen I dont have time to discuss this right now considering Im at work,if you wanna talk we can talk tonight when I get home" I understand he is at work an all but its just not like him to be soo mean to me. an then he said his phone was dieing an I told him to just text me when he gets power to his phone, then he said k... he always says ok I love you.. he didnt this time. am I over reacting or what?
sounds irritated .. give him space. men need space. they do well a few days or weeks and then need some 'me' time .. breathing room yanno? |
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Well...like you said, he's having a bad day. Guys have mood swings the same as girls do, they just don't always show it as much. Don't read too much into it, swallow your worry (even if you gotta choke on it lol) and give him a bit of space. Try texting him sometime tomorrow afternoon or evening with just a simple "hey hon, hope today is going better for you! Hit me up when you get the chance." (or equivilent there-of) that let's him contact you back when he's ready, let's him know you're not gunna jump all over him and then when does contact you back...don't immediately start in with all your hopes and fears. ask him how he's doing, let him vent a bit and get some of the stuff on his chest off. If you're a contributing factor to his stress, he'll tell you...and if not, he'll have felt better knowing that he was able to vent and rant a bit. If he doesn't say you're doing anything...then just don't worry. The more you constantly ask a guy "what's wrong...what's wrong...what's wrong..." the more he's going to start thinking something is wrong, and get aggrivated at being asked repeatedly. Guys are funny like that :P Hope that helps! He does vent to me all the time lol. an I always listen an clam him down. I dont bug him when hes at work. I wait for him to text me. but I think I did make it worse, I texted him an asked if he was gonna break up with me... really wish I didnt do that |
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not good ... back away from the phone babe
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