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not good ... back away from the phone babe 
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i am so glad this thread was brought up..i am going to tell u what my friends tell me. u think to much and the advice given me for my relationship is that i need to stop reading into thing and think less. then go there..it is ok to have a shield around ur heart. but, ur heart will let u know when to open it.U are the only one who is going to know. Just chill in the mean time.. best advice i have gotten..
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ur just like me and read too much into peoples actions.
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Don't jump to conclusions, bad days happen. 
I agree and pressing any situation can bother somone. Sometimes it's better to back off and let things flow |
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Don't get to upset, chances are he'll call you when he gets off work.
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If you were at work and busy, this guy does the same thing to you, do you drop work and talk or finish your job and ask to talk later?
In my opinion, you are asking too much of him. And.... you are overthinking everything. Sometimes things are just what they are. Give him a chance to finish his shift. Chill out and call one of your friends. But let dude work in peace. It's not all about you. |
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If you were at work and busy, this guy does the same thing to you, do you drop work and talk or finish your job and ask to talk later? In my opinion, you are asking too much of him. And.... you are overthinking everything. Sometimes things are just what they are. Give him a chance to finish his shift. Chill out and call one of your friends. But let dude work in peace. It's not all about you. that's right darlin .. Actually it's alllllll about ME 
(((((((((( LILITH )))))))))))) |
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Edited by
redhead44613
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Sat 06/07/08 05:25 PM
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I hope u all are right... I cant stand to lose him. I love him way to much an is the 1st guy I have let my walls down to. Im just scared
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If you were at work and busy, this guy does the same thing to you, do you drop work and talk or finish your job and ask to talk later? In my opinion, you are asking too much of him. And.... you are overthinking everything. Sometimes things are just what they are. Give him a chance to finish his shift. Chill out and call one of your friends. But let dude work in peace. It's not all about you. |
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((((FADE)))))
OP~ I hope you are getting the point, it is not about if we are right or wrong. You push and that pushes people away. Makes sense? |
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((((FADE))))) OP~ I hope you are getting the point, it is not about if we are right or wrong. You push and that pushes people away. Makes sense? |
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I hope u all are right... I cant stand to lose him. I love him way to much an is the 1st guy I have let my walls down to. Im just scared |
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 well lets see.. he is having a bad day and he is bein really really mean to me. I was texting him an I told him that I was not feeling like myself today, having lot of emotions coming out at once an all he said to me was I need to figure it out cuz its gonna start affecting our relationship sooner then not, I then asked him if there was anything Im going that bugs him. then he said "Listen I dont have time to discuss this right now considering Im at work,if you wanna talk we can talk tonight when I get home" I understand he is at work an all but its just not like him to be soo mean to me. an then he said his phone was dieing an I told him to just text me when he gets power to his phone, then he said k... he always says ok I love you.. he didnt this time. am I over reacting or what? 
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well lets see.. he is having a bad day and he is bein really really mean to me. I was texting him an I told him that I was not feeling like myself today, having lot of emotions coming out at once an all he said to me was I need to figure it out cuz its gonna start affecting our relationship sooner then not, I then asked him if there was anything Im going that bugs him. then he said "Listen I dont have time to discuss this right now considering Im at work,if you wanna talk we can talk tonight when I get home" I understand he is at work an all but its just not like him to be soo mean to me. an then he said his phone was dieing an I told him to just text me when he gets power to his phone, then he said k... he always says ok I love you.. he didnt this time. am I over reacting or what?
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well lets see.. he is having a bad day and he is bein really really mean to me. I was texting him an I told him that I was not feeling like myself today, having lot of emotions coming out at once an all he said to me was I need to figure it out cuz its gonna start affecting our relationship sooner then not, I then asked him if there was anything Im going that bugs him. then he said "Listen I dont have time to discuss this right now considering Im at work,if you wanna talk we can talk tonight when I get home" I understand he is at work an all but its just not like him to be soo mean to me. an then he said his phone was dieing an I told him to just text me when he gets power to his phone, then he said k... he always says ok I love you.. he didnt this time. am I over reacting or what?
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He does vent to me all the time lol. an I always listen an clam him down. I dont bug him when hes at work. I wait for him to text me. but I think I did make it worse, I texted him an asked if he was gonna break up with me... really wish I didnt do that From your profile: "My likes in a guy: long hair or no hair at all lol, like goth an cowboys, a guy who likes to go to concerts or stay in at home, a guy who can talk to my face an not my chest, a guy who understands my world cant revole around them, who is honest with themselfs an to me, wont lie or cheat! " It's a 2 way street. It's starting to sound like your world is starting to revolve around his. You're also still a pup. You have plenty of time to make lots of mistakes.
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well lets see.. he is having a bad day and he is bein really really mean to me. I was texting him an I told him that I was not feeling like myself today, having lot of emotions coming out at once an all he said to me was I need to figure it out cuz its gonna start affecting our relationship sooner then not, I then asked him if there was anything Im going that bugs him. then he said "Listen I dont have time to discuss this right now considering Im at work,if you wanna talk we can talk tonight when I get home" I understand he is at work an all but its just not like him to be soo mean to me. an then he said his phone was dieing an I told him to just text me when he gets power to his phone, then he said k... he always says ok I love you.. he didnt this time. am I over reacting or what?
Dump his ass and go onto someone else. It's not worth the drama, and you're young enough to find someone else. |
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well lets see.. he is having a bad day and he is bein really really mean to me. I was texting him an I told him that I was not feeling like myself today, having lot of emotions coming out at once an all he said to me was I need to figure it out cuz its gonna start affecting our relationship It took a while to recognize you from other threads, and since I'm still technically married, well, it's not possible to email you without lying so here it is, somewhat limited. Rule number 1. No pole vaulting over mouse turds. You can beat yourself to death with anxiety, and he probably wont fully understand you like this. Don't expect him to. Try to stay away from the "What if" senarios, as they lead to anxiety, and often become a self-fulfilling prophesy. Stick with what is, and accept that it is possible that your feelings aren't right sized for the situation, especially if they are extreme. The rest I'll reserve for such a time as you'd like to chat about it, speaking as someone who's been where you are. |
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If y'all keep jumpin to conclusions like that, you'll never have to worry about dieting or going to the gym lol.
Ok seriously, he said he was having a bad day, and you have mood swings (I'm guessing yer bi-polar but I been wrong before..ONCE lol) Fer god sake, don't go all haywire just cuz the 2 of you was having a bad day at the same time..it happens..welcome to life in a relationship. The only time you should worry is if that behaviour is becoming a pattern. If he otherwise treats you with respect and dignity, then quit worrying. |
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Pass him a note during study hall...
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