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OMG I SOUND LIKE MY MOTHER!!!
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you should both be 'giving and receiving' .. when you are the ONLY one giving and he is the ONLY one receiving .. well ............ there's your answer ![]() ![]() relationships are not 50/50.....sometimes they're 90/10 others others 70/30...... thats part of life and learning to make compramises together.........communication is the key. |
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It's just that I feel like idk I care about him, but it's only been a month tomorrow
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you should both be 'giving and receiving' .. when you are the ONLY one giving and he is the ONLY one receiving .. well ............ there's your answer ![]() ![]() relationships are not 50/50.....sometimes they're 90/10 others others 70/30...... thats part of life and learning to make compramises together.........communication is the key. So I should tell him how I am feeling |
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He did go to my sister's open house. He has bought me flowers. And he has taken me to dinner a few times
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Talk to him......like you would a friend......Ive heard that they CANT READ OUR MINDS!!!!
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you should both be 'giving and receiving' .. when you are the ONLY one giving and he is the ONLY one receiving .. well ............ there's your answer ![]() ![]() relationships are not 50/50.....sometimes they're 90/10 others others 70/30...... thats part of life and learning to make compramises together.........communication is the key. So I should tell him how I am feeling hinting it wont work...us guys are dolts that way and hiding it makes it worse.... |
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until it feels like an infringement on who you are. That line is different for all of us. ![]() i agree! ![]() Your T-shirt just came in... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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you should both be 'giving and receiving' .. when you are the ONLY one giving and he is the ONLY one receiving .. well ............ there's your answer ![]() ![]() relationships are not 50/50.....sometimes they're 90/10 others others 70/30...... thats part of life and learning to make compramises together.........communication is the key. So I should tell him how I am feeling hinting it wont work...us guys are dolts that way and hiding it makes it worse.... Oh, great I hate talking about my feelings face to face |
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Okay so I texted him that we need to talk tonight and he freaked.
"Are you breaking up with me?" "No, do you not want to be with me" "Of course I want to be with you" Maybe I shouldn't let Ray (good guy friend) mess with my head, idk, but now he is worried I am breaking up with him. |
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Oh.......the dreaded..........we need to talk talk!!! Of course you freaked him out!!!
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until it feels like an infringement on who you are. That line is different for all of us. ![]() i agree! ![]() Your T-shirt just came in... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Okay so I texted him that we need to talk tonight and he freaked. "Are you breaking up with me?" "No, do you not want to be with me" "Of course I want to be with you" Maybe I shouldn't let Ray (good guy friend) mess with my head, idk, but now he is worried I am breaking up with him. just b/c you texted him that you needed to talk, that wasn't a very good response by him. I don't know the whole situation, but you might want to consider taking a few steps back. |
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Never had the we need to talk talk via text b4 it was weird.
Question: A guy friend of mine "Ray" says that I am making "Rob's" guy I am seeing, life too easy. I watch hockey with him, but rarely watch races anymore (i like nascar races) I drive to see him, stuff like that right. So Ray says I am spoiling Rob and he does nothing for me. I was fine before Ray said anything, now I am think about it |
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the only thing I will say is....everyone thinks they are doing more than their partner at some point in a relationship.
and at that point , they very well may be. just make the talk positive......dont use "you" statements...this makes everyone defensive.. good luck!!! that will be $ 29.95 ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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the only thing I will say is....everyone thinks they are doing more than their partner at some point in a relationship. and at that point , they very well may be. just make the talk positive......dont use "you" statements...this makes everyone defensive.. good luck!!! that will be $ 29.95 ![]() ![]() ![]() Do you take visa |
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the only thing I will say is....everyone thinks they are doing more than their partner at some point in a relationship. and at that point , they very well may be. just make the talk positive......dont use "you" statements...this makes everyone defensive.. good luck!!! that will be $ 29.95 ![]() ![]() ![]() Do you take visa ![]() |
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thanks
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