I just redid my profile and I want to know if it comes off too strong or just right. I'm fully open to suggestions.

A BIT TOO PICKY

Gone fishin.......................................

are you sure you want to say that??

at least you know what you want!

Say what?
As far as the picky thing goes..
I'm only askin for not a HUGE age gap, healthy, and taller than me...lmao, I think that sounds pretty reasonable. Oh, and that they have some type of employment...

Yes, yes. That I do.

No thanks. No comment.

I do have to wonder why it is when a woman knows what she wants and says it she's a b!tch, or picky, or somethin negative. When a guy knows what he wants he's "ambitious".

Jayme, I've known you 8 months on here. You don't know what you want. You change your mind like I change socks- twice a day. You contradict yourself constantly god bless you. I wish ya the best.

I actually DO know what I want, thank you very much. I've always known. Sometimes you get tired of NOT getting what you want so you take a break from looking for it long enough to gather your thoughts. I've known since I was a little girl that I wanted to be a wife and mother. That is the one desire in my life that has NEVER wavered. I am offended that the first thing you do is insult me after I've not really been on here much for the fact I was tired of people insulting me. I'm a strong woman, I voice what I want, how I feel, and my opinions on just about anything. I'm NOT the run of the mill person, I do what I want when I want and make no apologies. I'm controversial and sometimes even p!ss people off. I never stop caring about others, I never stop trying to do things to help others. I never stop loving myself. I do sometimes, like I said, take a break for looking for 'serious' for the simple fact I get tired of runnin in circles. ALSO, for the last 5 months until recently I HAD a boyfriend. He traded me in for someone who is still into games cus he wasn't ready for what I am.

give me a break with all that. guys on dating sites all considered sex offenders until proven otherwise so dont tell me anything about double standards.


your profile comes on way too strong. youre mapping out too much of a niche and emphasizing commitments like marriage too much. the same way you feel repulsed when a guy you barely know says he wants sex is the same way guys feel when you start talking about marriage too soon. its just icky and kind of scary.

this isnt a fear of commitment thing on a guys part. its a fear of some potentially psycho chick being too needy around him when they meet.

less is definitely more in this case.

ok i pinpointed it.

while youre not coming right out and saying it in your profile, youre desperation and frustration are definitely shining through in the text.

Not desperate, just straight to the point. Frustrated, yes. I do NOT assume all men are sex offenders until proven otherwise. I treat each person with full trust unless or until they prove me wrong. I'm confident in the fact that I deserve to be happy, therefore bullsh!tting saying other things that I really don't want to say is pointless.

........if this is the case, why don't you just put I am the queen of drama and that you like to argue a lot in your profile. It would save a lot of time and aggrivation.

you obviously dont think you look desperate because you had no problem making it a part of your profile.

but it looks desperate, lady.

If I said that I'd be lying. Thats why I didn't put that. I don't argue in relationships, and I dont' cause drama.

Well I just figured if I say exactly what I want it'll weed out the people who don't want the same thing.

If you care so much about others would you like me to bring back all your wonderful thread comments like "I don't care what any of you think". Or "You people mean nothing to me and I could give a sh!t less about your opinions". Or how about "You people are just here to amuse me and I don't care what you think". Yeah, you're so sweet and caring. Candy coat your profile. That will help.