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Topic: I'm confused!
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Wed 06/04/08 06:00 PM
Ok so tell me what you think... I'm talking to this guy from the site for about a month(give or take a week) before he sees my pic. He likes my personality first. Then he sees my pic and he REALLY likes me even more, wants to talk on the phone, even drives 2 hrs to meet me before work one morning and hangs around until I go to lunch. We have a great time, he talks, texts me the rest of the day, he wants to see me on Saturday...... but................ I havent heard a PEEP all day today... Not a text response...not a return call.....nothing....huh huh huh


Just seems weird.noway grumble grumble

GiGi72's photo
Wed 06/04/08 06:02 PM
Happened to me once....he was married. laugh But probably not your case.

kayliz88's photo
Wed 06/04/08 06:02 PM
Maybe he's away from his phone right now.

chloelain's photo
Wed 06/04/08 06:03 PM
Something probably came up... (work, family)

therooster's photo
Wed 06/04/08 06:03 PM


<<<<<<<Happens to me all the time!!!!!!! I'm cute!!!!!,,,What the HELL

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Wed 06/04/08 06:03 PM

Maybe he's away from his phone right now.


All day, from 12noon until 7pm? I dunno.....huh

Marley's photo
Wed 06/04/08 06:04 PM

Ok so tell me what you think... I'm talking to this guy from the site for about a month(give or take a week) before he sees my pic. He likes my personality first. Then he sees my pic and he REALLY likes me even more, wants to talk on the phone, even drives 2 hrs to meet me before work one morning and hangs around until I go to lunch. We have a great time, he talks, texts me the rest of the day, he wants to see me on Saturday...... but................ I havent heard a PEEP all day today... Not a text response...not a return call.....nothing....huh huh huh


Just seems weird.noway grumble grumble


Perhaps his wife intervened. Consider yourself lucky.

bastet126's photo
Wed 06/04/08 06:04 PM
give it a little time, maybe text him?

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Wed 06/04/08 06:05 PM

Something probably came up... (work, family)


I hope so... I'm hoping it's not the married thing. He's supposedly divorced, and I highly doubt he would have been able to drive 2hrs to meet me and hang around if he was married.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/04/08 06:05 PM

Ok so tell me what you think... I'm talking to this guy from the site for about a month(give or take a week) before he sees my pic. He likes my personality first. Then he sees my pic and he REALLY likes me even more, wants to talk on the phone, even drives 2 hrs to meet me before work one morning and hangs around until I go to lunch. We have a great time, he talks, texts me the rest of the day, he wants to see me on Saturday...... but................ I havent heard a PEEP all day today... Not a text response...not a return call.....nothing....huh huh huh


Just seems weird.noway grumble grumble
devil stab himdevil

onegoodwoman62's photo
Wed 06/04/08 06:08 PM
I have been through the same thing. Maybe he got caught up in something work or other responsibilities. What did you talk about? I am not an expert by any stretch of the means. I met this guy online once and we hit it off. We met went to a movie and had a really nice time. After that I didn't hear from him either. Then a few months went by and he IMs me. I asked what happened and he said that I scared him. He thought I could be the one for him. Long story short we dated a couple more times and then nothing so go figure. Some guys just don't know what they want or know what they want and don't know what to do after they have it.

funlovinbbw's photo
Wed 06/04/08 06:08 PM
He sounds like my ex...VERY inconsistant! I'd be careful if he's already ignoring you!

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Wed 06/04/08 06:09 PM


Ok so tell me what you think... I'm talking to this guy from the site for about a month(give or take a week) before he sees my pic. He likes my personality first. Then he sees my pic and he REALLY likes me even more, wants to talk on the phone, even drives 2 hrs to meet me before work one morning and hangs around until I go to lunch. We have a great time, he talks, texts me the rest of the day, he wants to see me on Saturday...... but................ I havent heard a PEEP all day today... Not a text response...not a return call.....nothing....huh huh huh


Just seems weird.noway grumble grumble
devil stab himdevil


LOL....now mirror...no need for violence...this is GCG here... I'm not a violent person...:wink:

MsCarmen's photo
Wed 06/04/08 06:11 PM

I highly doubt he would have been able to drive 2hrs to meet me and hang around if he was married.


Why not? If they want to cheat, they will find a way!

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Wed 06/04/08 06:12 PM

I have been through the same thing. Maybe he got caught up in something work or other responsibilities. What did you talk about? I am not an expert by any stretch of the means. I met this guy online once and we hit it off. We met went to a movie and had a really nice time. After that I didn't hear from him either. Then a few months went by and he IMs me. I asked what happened and he said that I scared him. He thought I could be the one for him. Long story short we dated a couple more times and then nothing so go figure. Some guys just don't know what they want or know what they want and don't know what to do after they have it.


interesting. We talked about alot of different topics. He just kept saying how he couldn't believe how genuinely nice I was and that I actually had an exterior to match it. He was glad we met and that he thought things would work out well.....hmmmmm...huh :wink: laugh :tongue:

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Wed 06/04/08 06:13 PM


I highly doubt he would have been able to drive 2hrs to meet me and hang around if he was married.


Why not? If they want to cheat, they will find a way!


true. Not that he got anywhere. LOL. so it was a waste of gas when it comes to that.....laugh laugh :tongue:

buttons's photo
Wed 06/04/08 06:14 PM
id be more worried than confused... maybe he got in a car accident? maybe his phone is just dead and no where to charge it

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Wed 06/04/08 06:16 PM

id be more worried than confused... maybe he got in a car accident? maybe his phone is just dead and no where to charge it


I am worried also, but I don't know how to get a hold of anyone who knows him to make sure he is ok.frown

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 06/04/08 06:22 PM

Ok so tell me what you think... I'm talking to this guy from the site for about a month(give or take a week) before he sees my pic. He likes my personality first. Then he sees my pic and he REALLY likes me even more, wants to talk on the phone, even drives 2 hrs to meet me before work one morning and hangs around until I go to lunch. We have a great time, he talks, texts me the rest of the day, he wants to see me on Saturday...... but................ I havent heard a PEEP all day today... Not a text response...not a return call.....nothing....huh huh huh


Just seems weird.noway grumble grumble



doesn't seem hard to me .. guys aren't good on the "exit" ... you met, he may not have 'felt anything' and he's on his way .. the Saturday? a guys' way of leaving before he leaves .. make sense?

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Wed 06/04/08 06:26 PM


Ok so tell me what you think... I'm talking to this guy from the site for about a month(give or take a week) before he sees my pic. He likes my personality first. Then he sees my pic and he REALLY likes me even more, wants to talk on the phone, even drives 2 hrs to meet me before work one morning and hangs around until I go to lunch. We have a great time, he talks, texts me the rest of the day, he wants to see me on Saturday...... but................ I havent heard a PEEP all day today... Not a text response...not a return call.....nothing....huh huh huh


Just seems weird.noway grumble grumble



doesn't seem hard to me .. guys aren't good on the "exit" ... you met, he may not have 'felt anything' and he's on his way .. the Saturday? a guys' way of leaving before he leaves .. make sense?

you may be right Fade, but its only been one day....this is what happens when there is no communication....then the speculation begins.....
Did you try to contact him?....i'd still give it more time...

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