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Topic: Insecurity...
No1sLove's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:29 PM

Trav and I are a long story... he only passed in January... i know it seems soon to be on the market again but again... loooong story
I don't believe in time frames, it's when you feel ready to move on. Took me a couple years to start trying again, but I'd wished I'd started a lot sooner. You just get more and more out of touch the longer you wait if you ask me. ohwell

AmyGurl84's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:32 PM
i think i expect too much too fast because things came so easily with me and Travis.

No1sLove's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:34 PM

i think i expect too much too fast because things came so easily with me and Travis.
flowerforyou flowerforyou It'll come around for ya hon...just hang in there. flowerforyou flowerforyou

I'm heading off to lala land...night ((AmyGurl))) See ya soon. flowerforyou

AmyGurl84's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:37 PM
(((No1sLove))) thank you! you're awesome

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:43 PM

i think i expect too much too fast because things came so easily with me and Travis.

When you are with someoone who just clicks with you it is hard to settle in with anyone else for a while. Give yourself time to get over your loss and move on at your own pace. You are so young you will find someone great before you know it.

Kleisto's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:44 PM

lol, and if ur not sure urself is good enough? things always start great, but maybe I'm boring?????


Don't try to change who you are for the sake of another. In a true relationship, it's important that both parties love the other for who they really are at the core. If you don't show the real you, how will you know if he loves you for who you are, or if he loves you for you are trying to be?

yantraimages's photo
Sun 06/01/08 10:55 AM

How do I overcome it? There's a guy I rather like... how do I fake confidence? LOL
You can't fake confidence. Go do things that you are good at, to build your confidence. Self assured confidence is very sexy, and attractive.

AmyGurl84's photo
Sun 06/01/08 11:06 AM
flowerforyou you guys have been awesome! truly, thank you for everything, ya'll are MY confidence boosters!

feistybaby's photo
Sun 06/01/08 11:54 AM
I feel for you. I am the queen of insecurity. But if you are faking something you don't have then whom ever you like is going to fall for someone you are not. Then what happens when they find out? Be yourself and find the right person that loves you flaws and all....

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