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I`m sorry Debbie,. why do little ones have to suffer so much pain,..what did they do to deserve it ?? I can really feel for you feelin for her,..and how much she is being effected by her parents ( lack of love,..) you can almost see the writing on the wall,.. it comes down to her dad is a selfish bastard and her mom is becoming just as bad. seriously, if i could have her, i would, in a flash. You seem to be doing exactly what she needs, having a good adult role model. She may not show her appreciation now, but in 15 years you'll have the best reward ever-a healthy,loving niece. Keep up the good work. 
thankyou, that means a lot. 
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My 16 year old niece calls my ex her mom at times, and she lives almost 200 miles away. I am the only member of my family who treats her like a real person and shows her any love at all. Her parents have their problems, some of which could land them in jail unfortunately (and will for 100 days for DUI for her). They treat her like a posession rather than a daughter. His ego will not allow him to admit he is abusive. I can't help either of them because they won't let me even hint that they have problems. If I upset them in the slightest they won't let my niece see me at all. This has been going on for years.... I guess what I'm saying is that all you can do is be there for the children in whatever way you can, wait for the right time to be able to help their parents, and above all make sure they know you love them no matter what.
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my mom and dad keep saying im doing more than enough, to the point im exhausted due to my illness,and to say no, when im ill but i keep going and i always will and ill NEVER say no, no matter how much pain im in.
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My 16 year old niece calls my ex her mom at times, and she lives almost 200 miles away. I am the only member of my family who treats her like a real person and shows her any love at all. Her parents have their problems, some of which could land them in jail unfortunately (and will for 100 days for DUI for her). They treat her like a posession rather than a daughter. His ego will not allow him to admit he is abusive. I can't help either of them because they won't let me even hint that they have problems. If I upset them in the slightest they won't let my niece see me at all. This has been going on for years.... I guess what I'm saying is that all you can do is be there for the children in whatever way you can, wait for the right time to be able to help their parents, and above all make sure they know you love them no matter what.
she knows i love her, i make sure of that.
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why? what do you think is going to happen if you don`t do more ? she will get depressed and ill. the feeling of not being wanted is horrible. she will NEVER feel not wanted by me, but i think she does off her mom and dad. 
are you reliving something from your own past ? maybe i can email you on this one??
sure -- through this site ? yes, if thats ok??
absolutely,.i may be headin out for a walk here shortly but I will read it when I get back,..k ok, ill send you a message in a bit.
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those who know me will now how much i love my neice to bits. to those of you who dont, my neice is 7 tommorow, her dad has just recently left the uk to live in the america witb his new girlfriend. The last few months, her mom (my sister) has been going out every weekend, one night and one day, plus she works full time,i babysit it her whenever my sister goes out, and me and my mom look after her at school holidays. My sister was meant to pick my neice up today at 6pm, a 6.40pm she hadnt arrived, so i rang her to see if everything was ok, my neice said to me'DONT YOU WANT ME ANYMORE' I responded of course i do, im just checking your mommy is ok. Her dad as gone and left her, i feel her mom is neglecting her, and i feel this is why she said this today, im so upset. I wish there was more i could do. I get very depressed when she goes home as i miss her so much, but today with her saying that i feel distruaght. Shes only 7! 
YOU deserve a medal. Your sister? deserves an ass kicking. Sorry. |
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those who know me will now how much i love my neice to bits. to those of you who dont, my neice is 7 tommorow, her dad has just recently left the uk to live in the america witb his new girlfriend. The last few months, her mom (my sister) has been going out every weekend, one night and one day, plus she works full time,i babysit it her whenever my sister goes out, and me and my mom look after her at school holidays. My sister was meant to pick my neice up today at 6pm, a 6.40pm she hadnt arrived, so i rang her to see if everything was ok, my neice said to me'DONT YOU WANT ME ANYMORE' I responded of course i do, im just checking your mommy is ok. Her dad as gone and left her, i feel her mom is neglecting her, and i feel this is why she said this today, im so upset. I wish there was more i could do. I get very depressed when she goes home as i miss her so much, but today with her saying that i feel distruaght. Shes only 7!
YOU deserve a medal. Your sister? deserves an ass kicking. Sorry. Thankyou. and id like to be one giving her the ass kicking, you dont need to apologise, your right. |
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those who know me will now how much i love my neice to bits. to those of you who dont, my neice is 7 tommorow, her dad has just recently left the uk to live in the america witb his new girlfriend. The last few months, her mom (my sister) has been going out every weekend, one night and one day, plus she works full time,i babysit it her whenever my sister goes out, and me and my mom look after her at school holidays. My sister was meant to pick my neice up today at 6pm, a 6.40pm she hadnt arrived, so i rang her to see if everything was ok, my neice said to me'DONT YOU WANT ME ANYMORE' I responded of course i do, im just checking your mommy is ok. Her dad as gone and left her, i feel her mom is neglecting her, and i feel this is why she said this today, im so upset. I wish there was more i could do. I get very depressed when she goes home as i miss her so much, but today with her saying that i feel distruaght. Shes only 7!
YOU deserve a medal. Your sister? deserves an ass kicking. Sorry. my sister isnt a nice person. i was so upset and angry at the same time, shes sending her to america for christmas and she DOESNT want to go, i spoke to her over this, and her responce was 'TOUGH SHES GOING'. What can i do, shes not my child??
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please pray my little neice feels better soon.
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i pray for much happiness to you and your neice
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i pray for much happiness to you and your neice
thankyou.
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those who know me will now how much i love my neice to bits. to those of you who dont, my neice is 7 tommorow, her dad has just recently left the uk to live in the america witb his new girlfriend. The last few months, her mom (my sister) has been going out every weekend, one night and one day, plus she works full time,i babysit it her whenever my sister goes out, and me and my mom look after her at school holidays. My sister was meant to pick my neice up today at 6pm, a 6.40pm she hadnt arrived, so i rang her to see if everything was ok, my neice said to me'DONT YOU WANT ME ANYMORE' I responded of course i do, im just checking your mommy is ok. Her dad as gone and left her, i feel her mom is neglecting her, and i feel this is why she said this today, im so upset. I wish there was more i could do. I get very depressed when she goes home as i miss her so much, but today with her saying that i feel distruaght. Shes only 7!
YOU deserve a medal. Your sister? deserves an ass kicking. Sorry. Thankyou. and id like to be one giving her the ass kicking, you dont need to apologise, your right. I'll help 
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those who know me will now how much i love my neice to bits. to those of you who dont, my neice is 7 tommorow, her dad has just recently left the uk to live in the america witb his new girlfriend. The last few months, her mom (my sister) has been going out every weekend, one night and one day, plus she works full time,i babysit it her whenever my sister goes out, and me and my mom look after her at school holidays. My sister was meant to pick my neice up today at 6pm, a 6.40pm she hadnt arrived, so i rang her to see if everything was ok, my neice said to me'DONT YOU WANT ME ANYMORE' I responded of course i do, im just checking your mommy is ok. Her dad as gone and left her, i feel her mom is neglecting her, and i feel this is why she said this today, im so upset. I wish there was more i could do. I get very depressed when she goes home as i miss her so much, but today with her saying that i feel distruaght. Shes only 7!
YOU deserve a medal. Your sister? deserves an ass kicking. Sorry. Thankyou. and id like to be one giving her the ass kicking, you dont need to apologise, your right. I'll help
it would be worth it, if it knocked some sense into her. she needs to take responsibility for her child, and spend more time with her NOT LESS, now her dads left her. That wont happen, so ill be there. |
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anymore prayers for my little baby, she needs them
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Lord I pray you watch over both Deb and her niece, protect them and comfort them when times are rough. I pray you give Deb the strength to keep going when she feels she cannot go anymore. I pray for her niece, that her spirits may be lifted up in the knowledge that she is loved by somebody, more then maybe even she realizes.
I pray also for her parents, that they might come to their senses, and realize what they have done, and that they may right those wrongs. Amen. |
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Lord I pray you watch over both Deb and her niece, protect them and comfort them when times are rough. I pray you give Deb the strength to keep going when she feels she cannot go anymore. I pray for her niece, that her spirits may be lifted up in the knowledge that she is loved by somebody, more then maybe even she realizes. I pray also for her parents, that they might come to their senses, and realize what they have done, and that they may right those wrongs. Amen. thankyou.
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