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| Topic: How do I stop being a nice guy? | |
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Hey Gypsy41, no disrespect, but I would say people have they're own issues. But if a two people who are in a serious relationship can't open up enough to talk honestly there is a problem. And when one of those people lie to the other and tell them everything is great and then only later after they have they're partner in a false sense of security they tell them that there was just something about them that lying person just couldn't get over and then dumps them what does that say about people, cause I've had my last two girlfriends tell me that I was the best thing that ever happened to them and then the recanted what they said and I am still wondering why?   WELCOME TO REAL LIFE!!!! BUY A HELMET!!! IT SUX!!!
Tooooo Late  
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sounds like your problem is a matter of sample size bias. I don't necessarily endorse exaggerated promiscuity, but at the same time, three women shouldn't be enough to make you doubt them all. Besides, just try to focus on the future and what you learned from the experience. Good or bad, you can learn what you want in future relationships, and what you will not put up with.
/shrug Grab a beer, a book, and just kick back in the mean time |
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iTS never too late to become smarter and wiser........but you cant be hating all your life!!! It will kill you........
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So basically what youre saying is that you will become a jerk to women so they will love you??? Isnt that a bit of a oxymoron or just even a moron???? changing the way i am for an ignorant b***h haah hell no i am stil a nice guy, and to the other guy no im not 100% of th time but my percentage is a ****load more than a lot, but i dont change its not worth it but in my experience the nice guy loses the race to the jerk |
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poke babies in the eyes with a salty finger
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This is like the thread of the CENTURY~~~!!! IM sure they had this one in the 50's in Dear Abby!!!!!
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Cover your nuts!!
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Where is Fonzie when ya need him???????????
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Well I guess my problem is I don't know how to be a jerk, but all I see is women going for the jerks and they don't care if they hurt the women cause they know that the women will come back to them or they will just go out and get another one. My thing is I feel that I got suckered by all the women I have wanted to spend the rest of my life with and I'm sick of it. I just don't know what to do, so twisted logic states: go be a jerk, you feel better about yourself, maybe. Of course I don't really know. cause honestly I don't think I can be come a jerk, I'm afraid if I tried I would end up taking it too far and nobody wants that, least of all me.
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Cover your nuts!!  Arent you supposed to be in bed!!!!
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say "boobs!"alot,like i do
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Im trying to,,,
Muriel always mesmerizes me
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Well I guess my problem is I don't know how to be a jerk, but all I see is women going for the jerks and they don't care if they hurt the women cause they know that the women will come back to them or they will just go out and get another one. My thing is I feel that I got suckered by all the women I have wanted to spend the rest of my life with and I'm sick of it. I just don't know what to do, so twisted logic states: go be a jerk, you feel better about yourself, maybe. Of course I don't really know. cause honestly I don't think I can be come a jerk, I'm afraid if I tried I would end up taking it too far and nobody wants that, least of all me. |
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So basically what youre saying is that you will become a jerk to women so they will love you??? Isnt that a bit of a oxymoron or just even a moron???? changing the way i am for an ignorant b***h haah hell no i am stil a nice guy, and to the other guy no im not 100% of th time but my percentage is a ****load more than a lot, but i dont change its not worth it but in my experience the nice guy loses the race to the jerk If life is a race, then I think it would be better to be the one who takes longer to reach the finish line. |
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I think he just needs to buy some really cool after shave!!!
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They found a better deal!!!! It happen's alot,,, Maybe more money or someone they think they will be more happy with??? Live and learn
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I think he just needs to buy some really cool after shave!!!
hey gypsy, how's my favorite Canuck? |
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I think he just needs to buy some really cool after shave!!!
No, He just needs to e-mail you instead of the other women!!
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So basically what youre saying is that you will become a jerk to women so they will love you??? Isnt that a bit of a oxymoron or just even a moron???? changing the way i am for an ignorant b***h haah hell no i am stil a nice guy, and to the other guy no im not 100% of th time but my percentage is a ****load more than a lot, but i dont change its not worth it but in my experience the nice guy loses the race to the jerk If life is a race, then I think it would be better to be the one who takes longer to reach the finish line. that analogy wasnt exactly intended to be used in a stop and smell the roses kind of way, more of a **** i cant pull off a win n get the trophy at the finish line to save my life kentucky derby(and god if i dont feel like both my ankles are break in a lot sometimes llol) too soon ? not nice drive through the country |
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I think he just needs to buy some really cool after shave!!!
hey gypsy, how's my favorite Canuck?
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