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Edited by
Kleisto
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I have a real close girl friend of mine, who I at one time was near having a serious relationship with. Unfortunately largely of my own accord, things fell apart before it got to that point. As we've been talking more regularly again lately, I sort of wish we could be more then just friends. But I know it's not possible now, because she's Catholic and I'm not anymore, and that's sort of an absolute for her when it comes to relationships.
We really get along good though, share laughs together and such. I try to be there for her when she needs me (which has been often lately) and her me. I've made no secret of what I've thought before, though I've kinda put it on the backburner for a while, realizing it will never be. But still in the back of mind, I'd like to be able to explore this somehow. Suppose I'm just dreaming though aren't I? Thanks for listening....... 
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I have a real close girl friend of mine, who I at one time was near having a serious relationship with. Unfortunately largely of my own accord, things fell apart before it got to that point. As we've been talking more regularly again lately, I sort of wish we could be more then just friends. But I know it's not possible now, because she's Catholic and I'm not anymore, and that's sort of an absolute for her when it comes to relationships. We really get along good though, share laughs together and such. I try to be there for her when she needs me (which has been often lately) and her me. I've made no secret of what I've thought before, though I've kinda put it on the backburner for a while, realizing it will never be. But still in the back of mind, I'd like to be able to explore this somehow. Suppose I'm just dreaming though aren't I? Thanks for listening.......
 Thats sweet
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Um....go read your other post....Never say never!
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If you two are so close and what not why not talk to her about his and see what she says. You can't just ignore it, then you will forever ask yourself the what ifs, talk to her...
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If you feel that way, I don't think it would hurt to talk to her about how you feel!
 Good luck!!
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I have a real close girl friend of mine, who I at one time was near having a serious relationship with. Unfortunately largely of my own accord, things fell apart before it got to that point. As we've been talking more regularly again lately, I sort of wish we could be more then just friends. But I know it's not possible now, because she's Catholic and I'm not anymore, and that's sort of an absolute for her when it comes to relationships. remind her that catholic preists like boys now.  they dont seem to be so particular,neither should your girl. tell her to wake up!
We really get along good though, share laughs together and such. I try to be there for her when she needs me (which has been often lately) and her me. I've made no secret of what I've thought before, though I've kinda put it on the backburner for a while, realizing it will never be. But still in the back of mind, I'd like to be able to explore this somehow. Suppose I'm just dreaming though aren't I? Thanks for listening.......
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Um....go read your other post....Never say never!
lol I know I know, maybe some day... |
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If you two are so close and what not why not talk to her about his and see what she says. You can't just ignore it, then you will forever ask yourself the what ifs, talk to her...
We have though, shortly after we first started talking more again recently, I had let her know that those feelings I had for her before were sort of coming back again. But she was pretty clear that me not being Catholic would be a big issue for her, mentioned being unequally yoked and things like that. Unless that would ever change, I can't really see her changing her mind. It sucks, but what can I do?
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Edited by
Kleisto
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Fri 05/30/08 05:34 PM
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I hate this feeling, I honestly feel like I love her, but yet I know she doesn't feel the same back for reasons I've already stated. I feel powerless, like I'm crazy about her, but can't do a thing about it.
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I hate this feeling, I honestly feel like I love her, but yet I know she doesn't feel the same back for reasons I've already stated. I feel powerless, like I'm crazy about her, and yet can't do a thing about it.
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I hate this feeling, I honestly feel like I love her, but yet I know she doesn't feel the same back for reasons I've already stated. I feel powerless, like I'm crazy about her, and yet can't do a thing about it.
What good is it gonna do? We discussed this before not too long ago already, she seemed clear on how she stood. I kind of wonder if the Catholic thing is the only thing keeping things this way though. I asked her once if I had stayed in the Church if things could ever have been different, and she said she didn't know, that it was what it was now. |
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I hate this feeling, I honestly feel like I love her, but yet I know she doesn't feel the same back for reasons I've already stated. I feel powerless, like I'm crazy about her, and yet can't do a thing about it.
What good is it gonna do? We discussed this before not too long ago already, she seemed clear on how she stood. I kind of wonder if the Catholic thing is the only thing keeping things this way though. I asked her once if I had stayed in the Church if things could ever have been different, and she said she didn't know, that it was what it was now. I hope at least you can stay friends!
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I would run screaming from anyone who picks their dates on the basis of their religion.
But that's just me. |
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I hate this feeling, I honestly feel like I love her, but yet I know she doesn't feel the same back for reasons I've already stated. I feel powerless, like I'm crazy about her, and yet can't do a thing about it.
What good is it gonna do? We discussed this before not too long ago already, she seemed clear on how she stood. I kind of wonder if the Catholic thing is the only thing keeping things this way though. I asked her once if I had stayed in the Church if things could ever have been different, and she said she didn't know, that it was what it was now. That could be part of it. OR she could be using that as an excuse, you never know. I'm sorry for what it's worth. The same religious beliefs are very important in a relationship, or the lack thereof (beliefs). |
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I hate this feeling, I honestly feel like I love her, but yet I know she doesn't feel the same back for reasons I've already stated. I feel powerless, like I'm crazy about her, and yet can't do a thing about it.
What good is it gonna do? We discussed this before not too long ago already, she seemed clear on how she stood. I kind of wonder if the Catholic thing is the only thing keeping things this way though. I asked her once if I had stayed in the Church if things could ever have been different, and she said she didn't know, that it was what it was now. I hope at least you can stay friends!
Yeah I think we can be friends still, it's just hard coming to terms with it somewhat, as I would like something more. I thought I was fine with it for a while, until just the last day or so. |
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I hate this feeling, I honestly feel like I love her, but yet I know she doesn't feel the same back for reasons I've already stated. I feel powerless, like I'm crazy about her, and yet can't do a thing about it.
What good is it gonna do? We discussed this before not too long ago already, she seemed clear on how she stood. I kind of wonder if the Catholic thing is the only thing keeping things this way though. I asked her once if I had stayed in the Church if things could ever have been different, and she said she didn't know, that it was what it was now. That could be part of it. OR she could be using that as an excuse, you never know. I'm sorry for what it's worth. The same religious beliefs are very important in a relationship, or the lack thereof (beliefs). Yeah, her faith is very important to her, it's a big part of her life. As for the excuse thing, I'm not so sure. She's generally pretty straightforward, so I'd like to think she was telling the truth when she said this. |
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I think I'm just gonna let it be. I got a great friendship with her, why ruin that you know? Sometimes certain people make better friends then lovers, and perhaps this is one of those.
Besides that, kind of interested in a few people here anyway. |
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