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is any one else weary of people who laim they want to meet you but apparently only want to talk by email or im
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sorry it should say claim they want to meet you
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what???
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yes...im actually going thru that now!!!!
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have we been talkin to the same guy.....LMAO
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You need to give a little more info...
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huh?
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How long have you been talking? How far away does he live?
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thank you for letting me know I am not alone in this dang I can talk to people on other sites but the idea is to actually eventually meet someone not just talk it to death
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<---weary of everyone
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yes i have...it sucks
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is any one else weary of people who laim they want to meet you but apparently only want to talk by email or im |
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well three men are talking to me that live within an hour and a half one for three weeks almost daily but never seems to be able to meet something always comes up another lives in the same area technically but across town but withing 45 minutes at most so I am not talking across the country that would be understandable.
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weif we were talking I would u am in Alabama and you in Rhode Island I am referring to people within a reasonable distance
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like you, they are probably talking with a bunch of strangers!
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well that is a given that we do not really know each other which is why most meet in public places the first time but darn is not the idea to really meet one day face to face or is this just a virtual game
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well three men are talking to me that live within an hour and a half one for three weeks almost daily but never seems to be able to meet something always comes up another lives in the same area technically but across town but withing 45 minutes at most so I am not talking across the country that would be understandable. Well figure on at least a little while to talk and get to know each other. Let's call it two weeks. So now that means it has been a week since he has been too busy to meet with you. I'm thinking you need to relax just a little here. You might be unintentionally coming off as desperate. If you get the sense within the next week or two that he is still avoiding meeting then move on. |
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ok just frustrating when you put off other plans because you think you have a meeting then they call and change it at least they call and change it
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