Topic: hi
just_mary's photo
Wed 05/28/08 04:54 PM
is any one else weary of people who laim they want to meet you but apparently only want to talk by email or im

just_mary's photo
Wed 05/28/08 04:54 PM
sorry it should say claim they want to meet you

Etrain's photo
Wed 05/28/08 04:54 PM
drinker drinker what???drinker drinker

crazysillygirl's photo
Wed 05/28/08 04:54 PM
yes...im actually going thru that now!!!!

crazysillygirl's photo
Wed 05/28/08 04:55 PM
have we been talkin to the same guy.....LMAO

no photo
Wed 05/28/08 04:55 PM
You need to give a little more info...

ljcc1964's photo
Wed 05/28/08 04:56 PM
huh?

no photo
Wed 05/28/08 04:56 PM
How long have you been talking? How far away does he live?

just_mary's photo
Wed 05/28/08 04:56 PM
thank you for letting me know I am not alone in this dang I can talk to people on other sites but the idea is to actually eventually meet someone not just talk it to death

No1sLove's photo
Wed 05/28/08 04:56 PM
<---weary of everyone :tongue:

brat88's photo
Wed 05/28/08 04:56 PM
yes i have...it sucks

no photo
Wed 05/28/08 04:57 PM

is any one else weary of people who laim they want to meet you but apparently only want to talk by email or im
your right......talk is cheap....lets get together right now!!:wink:

just_mary's photo
Wed 05/28/08 04:59 PM
well three men are talking to me that live within an hour and a half one for three weeks almost daily but never seems to be able to meet something always comes up another lives in the same area technically but across town but withing 45 minutes at most so I am not talking across the country that would be understandable.

just_mary's photo
Wed 05/28/08 05:00 PM
weif we were talking I would u am in Alabama and you in Rhode Island I am referring to people within a reasonable distance

no photo
Wed 05/28/08 05:01 PM
like you, they are probably talking with a bunch of strangers!:wink:

just_mary's photo
Wed 05/28/08 05:04 PM
well that is a given that we do not really know each other which is why most meet in public places the first time but darn is not the idea to really meet one day face to face or is this just a virtual game

no photo
Wed 05/28/08 05:04 PM

well three men are talking to me that live within an hour and a half one for three weeks almost daily but never seems to be able to meet something always comes up another lives in the same area technically but across town but withing 45 minutes at most so I am not talking across the country that would be understandable.


Well figure on at least a little while to talk and get to know each other. Let's call it two weeks.

So now that means it has been a week since he has been too busy to meet with you. I'm thinking you need to relax just a little here. You might be unintentionally coming off as desperate.

If you get the sense within the next week or two that he is still avoiding meeting then move on.

just_mary's photo
Wed 05/28/08 05:10 PM
ok just frustrating when you put off other plans because you think you have a meeting then they call and change it at least they call and change it