Topic: Hey Ladies
Heather_Arnold12374's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:06 PM
I haven't had any luck lately either.The last guy I met,made a date with me the folowing day and never got a hold of me,and I haven't heard from him since ohwell .I'm not giving up though,I know there's good guys out there,in the meantime I'm just enjoying talking to all you peeps here,laughing and having a good time.It will happen,when you least expect it.In the meantime just enjoy life and love yourself.

thumper95's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:08 PM
so when a man takes you out, and kisses you at the end if hes feeling it, does that mean he wants to rail you or does it mean, maybe just perhaps that he likes you and might want to see you again, and might want to take it farther? is that so much to think? im a physical being and i like touching and pda, but i dont try to jump in the bed with just anyone, i dont have a score card or anything to prove to anyone.

izzie's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:08 PM

so when a man takes you out, and kisses you at the end if hes feeling it, does that mean he wants to rail you or does it mean, maybe just perhaps that he likes you and might want to see you again, and might want to take it farther? is that so much to think? im a physical being and i like touching and pda, but i dont try to jump in the bed with just anyone, i dont have a score card or anything to prove to anyone.
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coquibella's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:12 PM
I think you are right unique. If you feel you deserve better you won't settle and run into the "just want sex situation." You can probably see those coming a mile away after talking to them for an hour. Personally, I keep positive, be outgoing enough to get out and be social and don't let my wall close me in. The right person will come along. Or you can keep closing that door of opportunity whenever it opens.

Lily0923's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:12 PM
It's so relative, some guys wait for the buying signals, and some are just rather blunt.

Play the player, that was the best advise I've ever gotten, but don't assume every guy is a player. Sit back and listen and WATCH. They show their true colors.

In the mean time, if all you meet are players, take a good hard look in the mirror and figure out what YOU are doing to attract them.

thumper95's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:14 PM
thank you lily, sounds like someone has sense

Lily0923's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:17 PM

thank you lily, sounds like someone has sense


I have my moments of clarity....:tongue:

thumper95's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:19 PM
rather refreshing in a redundent topic

coquibella's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:20 PM

It's so relative, some guys wait for the buying signals, and some are just rather blunt.

Play the player, that was the best advise I've ever gotten, but don't assume every guy is a player. Sit back and listen and WATCH. They show their true colors.

In the mean time, if all you meet are players, take a good hard look in the mirror and figure out what YOU are doing to attract them.


Well said, lily. You receive what you give forth.

Lily0923's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:24 PM

rather refreshing in a redundent topic


I look at it this way, if a guy is a player and just wants to have sex, he's gonna take me out alot, then who is really getting played? NOT ME.

Honestly it's called self respect, why would I pine over a guy that won't pine over me??? I've never understood that. Same with fighting over a guy. If he's giving some other girl attention in the same manner as me, he isn't worth my time, let her have him. He's her headache now.

thumper95's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:27 PM
for someone such as me, if i want a piece of ass, its not hard for me to go somewhere and find one. im not looking another headache though. im looking for a decent woman who dont judge and or try to change who i am.

Lily0923's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:31 PM

for someone such as me, if i want a piece of ass, its not hard for me to go somewhere and find one. im not looking another headache though. im looking for a decent woman who dont judge and or try to change who i am.


I've met plenty that want to change me...It starts with "I love strong independant women" but what they don't say is "if they always agree with me" Ya, I'm not that girl. In the same token, I don't want a push over in a man either. If I scare you, you'll never be "MY" man.

thumper95's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:35 PM
a relationship has to be built on honesty, trust, values, morals and most important, willingness to work together. but what do i know,, im just a man

Lily0923's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:36 PM

a relationship has to be built on honesty, trust, values, morals and most important, willingness to work together. but what do i know,, im just a man


What do I know, I'm a woman and blonde...bigsmile

thumper95's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:38 PM
must suck to be us,, a man and a blonde, wow,, damn we are screwed

Lily0923's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:40 PM

must suck to be us,, a man and a blonde, wow,, damn we are screwed


I just assume I'm paying all of my back Karma from my previous lives, next lifetime I'll be a rock star with the body of a Venus.laugh laugh laugh

thumper95's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:40 PM
i guess i get to be a frog. hey,, might make me better lookingohwell

Lily0923's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:43 PM

i guess i get to be a frog. hey,, might make me better lookingohwell


Then all the damsels in distress will kiss you in hopes of a prince....

thumper95's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:43 PM
shyte,, what will they do when i decide to use my smart ass degree and give em warts instead???lol

Lily0923's photo
Tue 05/27/08 09:46 PM

shyte,, what will they do when i decide to use my smart ass degree and give em warts instead???lol


You have a degree in smart ass? Damn I wasted mine in underwater basket weaving....