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SURE .....WHY NOT............
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i did that once...wasnt a serious relationship it just let us have a reason to go to eachothers state have a place to stay and a car to use and lots and lots and Lots of of care free sex (make shure she's a good cook first...i had to eat this crap she made and pretend to like it so i wouldnt hurt her feelings)
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starting a relationship through that, but as for a committment I would have to meet the person face to face. Also agreed. |
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that's a big negitive,
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YES .. im kinda doing that right now! We are meeting in a couple months but as of right now its really serious! I love this man!
Good luck! |
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would you get into a long distance relationship with someone you met online but never seen in person...just phone, email, text, and profile pics |
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YES .. im kinda doing that right now! We are meeting in a couple months but as of right now its really serious! I love this man! Good luck! that's what i want to hear...that it works |
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starting a relationship through that, but as for a committment I would have to meet the person face to face. I second that..... |
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if you think you're that interested in someone, meet them.
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i did that once...wasnt a serious relationship it just let us have a reason to go to eachothers state have a place to stay and a car to use and lots and lots and Lots of of care free sex (make shure she's a good cook first...i had to eat this crap she made and pretend to like it so i wouldnt hurt her feelings) This post was wildly informative. Thank you. Mental note...check. |
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I haven't but then if I serious got into someone and I knew that it is what I wanted. I would consider it with the idea of actually meeting them. Eventually, I will need to have that close and personal experience. I cannot see just an online fling.
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i did that once...wasnt a serious relationship it just let us have a reason to go to eachothers state have a place to stay and a car to use and lots and lots and Lots of of care free sex (make shure she's a good cook first...i had to eat this crap she made and pretend to like it so i wouldnt hurt her feelings) This post was wildly informative. Thank you. Mental note...check. |
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YES .. im kinda doing that right now! We are meeting in a couple months but as of right now its really serious! I love this man! Good luck! that's what i want to hear...that it works We all want to hear that it works or else we wouldn't be here. Just be very careful sweetie. |
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hard to feel love and compassion thru a computer!!
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YES .. im kinda doing that right now! We are meeting in a couple months but as of right now its really serious! I love this man! Good luck! that's what i want to hear...that it works We all want to hear that it works or else we wouldn't be here. Just be very careful sweetie. i will...you have good advise.... |
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would you get into a long distance relationship with someone you met online but never seen in person...just phone, email, text, and profile pics wouldn't put my life on hold until I met in person .. period |
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Edited by
Fade2Black
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Tue 05/27/08 12:39 PM
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YES .. im kinda doing that right now! We are meeting in a couple months but as of right now its really serious! I love this man! Good luck! that's what i want to hear...that it works But you didn't hear it works. What you heard was she's gonna meet him in a couple months. Here's the deal with 'relationships' where you haven't met in person. You "fall" for an image. There is no way ie..impossible to know the real person til you meet. Why you ask? Cuz you haven't seen their mannerisms, daily habits, behavorial patterns yada yada .... and until you do they are an 'image' you've concocted in your head. How do I know? I've done it more than once. 'Fell' for someone on line, did all the communication except the inperson meet. Then we meet in person. Guess what? They are a bit different because I didn't know the 'whole person' .. so I end up having wasted 3-6 mos of my life being 'inlove' with some person I didn't completely know. I'll never waste time doing that again. I can be really into them but won't put my life on hold until we meet in person. Plus that way you aren't lazy or procrastinate about meeting. IMHO ps ..it's natural human nature to take that which agrees with us and accept it, and to ignore the other voices |
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Fade.... you go girl.
I cannot personally comment in this thread at this time. |
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YES .. im kinda doing that right now! We are meeting in a couple months but as of right now its really serious! I love this man! Good luck! that's what i want to hear...that it works But you didn't hear it works. What you heard was she's gonna meet him in a couple months. Here's the deal with 'relationships' where you haven't met in person. You "fall" for an image. There is no way ie..impossible to know the real person til you meet. Why you ask? Cuz you haven't seen their mannerisms, daily habits, behavorial patterns yada yada .... and until you do they are an 'image' you've concocted in your head. How do I know? I've done it more than once. 'Fell' for someone on line, did all the communication except the inperson meet. Then we meet in person. Guess what? They are a bit different because I didn't know the 'whole person' .. so I end up having wasted 3-6 mos of my life being 'inlove' with some person I didn't completely know. I'll never waste time doing that again. I can be really into them but won't put my life on hold until we meet in person. Plus that way you aren't lazy or procrastinate about meeting. IMHO ps ..it's natural human nature to take that which agrees with us and accept it, and to ignore the other voices Fade that is why i love you so much and always ask your advise...you rock... |
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Fade.... you go girl. I cannot personally comment in this thread at this time. DITTO DITTO (((Judy))) (((Lilith))) |
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