Topic: question for all you jshers out there
JUSTSAYINGHELLOO's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:04 PM
SURE .....WHY NOT............:wink:

Steve3815's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:06 PM
i did that once...wasnt a serious relationship it just let us have a reason to go to eachothers state have a place to stay and a car to use and lots and lots and Lots of of care free sex (make shure she's a good cook first...i had to eat this crap she made and pretend to like it so i wouldnt hurt her feelings)bigsmile

ccindyct's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:07 PM


starting a relationship through that, but as for a committment I would have to meet the person face to face.
agreed


Also agreed.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:09 PM
that's a big negitive,

msskarly's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:09 PM
YES .. im kinda doing that right now! We are meeting in a couple months but as of right now its really serious! I love this man!
Good luck!flowerforyou

no photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:10 PM

would you get into a long distance relationship with someone you met online but never seen in person...just phone, email, text, and profile pics
Nope.

mandyatl81's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:12 PM

YES .. im kinda doing that right now! We are meeting in a couple months but as of right now its really serious! I love this man!
Good luck!flowerforyou


that's what i want to hear...that it works

ADiamond's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:12 PM


starting a relationship through that, but as for a committment I would have to meet the person face to face.
agreed

I second that.....

no photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:15 PM
if you think you're that interested in someone, meet them.

lilith401's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:18 PM

i did that once...wasnt a serious relationship it just let us have a reason to go to eachothers state have a place to stay and a car to use and lots and lots and Lots of of care free sex (make shure she's a good cook first...i had to eat this crap she made and pretend to like it so i wouldnt hurt her feelings)bigsmile


This post was wildly informative. Thank you. Mental note...check.

naturalstyle's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:20 PM
I haven't but then if I serious got into someone and I knew that it is what I wanted. I would consider it with the idea of actually meeting them. Eventually, I will need to have that close and personal experience. I cannot see just an online fling.

mandyatl81's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:21 PM


i did that once...wasnt a serious relationship it just let us have a reason to go to eachothers state have a place to stay and a car to use and lots and lots and Lots of of care free sex (make shure she's a good cook first...i had to eat this crap she made and pretend to like it so i wouldnt hurt her feelings)bigsmile


This post was wildly informative. Thank you. Mental note...check.

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no photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:28 PM


YES .. im kinda doing that right now! We are meeting in a couple months but as of right now its really serious! I love this man!
Good luck!flowerforyou


that's what i want to hear...that it works



We all want to hear that it works or else we wouldn't be here. Just be very careful sweetie.flowerforyou

Sweetnshy47's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:29 PM
hard to feel love and compassion thru a computer!!huh

mandyatl81's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:30 PM



YES .. im kinda doing that right now! We are meeting in a couple months but as of right now its really serious! I love this man!
Good luck!flowerforyou


that's what i want to hear...that it works



We all want to hear that it works or else we wouldn't be here. Just be very careful sweetie.flowerforyou


i will...you have good advise....flowerforyou flowerforyou

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:33 PM

would you get into a long distance relationship with someone you met online but never seen in person...just phone, email, text, and profile pics


wouldn't put my life on hold until I met in person .. period


Fade2Black's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:37 PM
Edited by Fade2Black on Tue 05/27/08 12:39 PM


YES .. im kinda doing that right now! We are meeting in a couple months but as of right now its really serious! I love this man!
Good luck!flowerforyou


that's what i want to hear...that it works



But you didn't hear it works.
What you heard was she's gonna meet him in a couple months.

Here's the deal with 'relationships' where you haven't met in person. You "fall" for an image. There is no way ie..impossible to know the real person til you meet.

Why you ask?

Cuz you haven't seen their mannerisms, daily habits, behavorial patterns yada yada .... and until you do they are an 'image' you've concocted in your head.

How do I know?

I've done it more than once. 'Fell' for someone on line, did all the communication except the inperson meet. Then we meet in person. Guess what? They are a bit different because I didn't know the 'whole person' .. so I end up having wasted 3-6 mos of my life being 'inlove' with some person I didn't completely know.

I'll never waste time doing that again. I can be really into them but won't put my life on hold until we meet in person. Plus that way you aren't lazy or procrastinate about meeting.

IMHO :wink:

ps ..it's natural human nature to take that which agrees with us and accept it, and to ignore the other voices :wink:

lilith401's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:41 PM
Fade.... you go girl.

I cannot personally comment in this thread at this time. :tongue:

mandyatl81's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:43 PM



YES .. im kinda doing that right now! We are meeting in a couple months but as of right now its really serious! I love this man!
Good luck!flowerforyou


that's what i want to hear...that it works



But you didn't hear it works.
What you heard was she's gonna meet him in a couple months.

Here's the deal with 'relationships' where you haven't met in person. You "fall" for an image. There is no way ie..impossible to know the real person til you meet.

Why you ask?

Cuz you haven't seen their mannerisms, daily habits, behavorial patterns yada yada .... and until you do they are an 'image' you've concocted in your head.

How do I know?

I've done it more than once. 'Fell' for someone on line, did all the communication except the inperson meet. Then we meet in person. Guess what? They are a bit different because I didn't know the 'whole person' .. so I end up having wasted 3-6 mos of my life being 'inlove' with some person I didn't completely know.

I'll never waste time doing that again. I can be really into them but won't put my life on hold until we meet in person. Plus that way you aren't lazy or procrastinate about meeting.

IMHO :wink:

ps ..it's natural human nature to take that which agrees with us and accept it, and to ignore the other voices :wink:


Fade that is why i love you so much and always ask your advise...you rock...flowerforyou flowerforyou

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 05/27/08 12:44 PM

Fade.... you go girl.

I cannot personally comment in this thread at this time. :tongue:



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