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Topic: what does it take?
nicegrl Joined Wed 11/15/06 Posts: 87	Mon 05/26/08 09:45 PM
okay I have tried being someone else. I have tried being myself. no matter what i always get lets be friends. is it that I dont put out on the first meeting/date? need a little help on this one

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 05/26/08 09:46 PM
your going after the wrong guys...you shouldn't put out on the first date so your doing the right thing cheers

Tankk Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 1450	Mon 05/26/08 09:47 PM
Just continue being yourself. You can't change who you are to please others. Try going out with someone you normally wouldn't go out with....

rush2001 Joined Thu 04/17/08 Posts: 2577	Mon 05/26/08 09:49 PM
I can only trust that it will happen in time,I hope that you will as well.

Alterego1961 Joined Thu 05/22/08 Posts: 828	Mon 05/26/08 09:49 PM
Do you find yourself dating the same type of guy? Maybe you need to broaden your horizons a little. You also need to remember one thing, all men s@%k. That includes moi every now and then as well. It's just the way we are built I s'pose.

lgo Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 1824	Mon 05/26/08 09:49 PM
Yep!! Etrain and Tankk are right. Just be yourself. You can be yourself with the right person and they will appreciate that.

joshyfox Joined Fri 08/18/06 Posts: 4272	Mon 05/26/08 09:50 PM
The problem is you are looking for some kind of magic solution. It's going to be hard work, accept that. That being said, be true to yourself, it's easier on you and you'd be able to keep it up. After all would you really want to attract someone who likes this person you really are not? You'd have to be that person the rest of the time you know them and never slip up once, what a headache...

Lakeman Joined Mon 04/30/07 Posts: 10261	Mon 05/26/08 09:50 PM
My Grandpa always told me ...never date a girl you wouldn't want to marry!!...You might end up there!!

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 05/26/08 09:52 PM
Yep!! Etrain and Tankk are right. Just be yourself. You can be yourself with the right person and they will appreciate that. The E-Train is always right...all knowing...and so dead sexy

harleyfan15 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 682	Mon 05/26/08 09:53 PM
u have to be urself. i was tired of meeting guys that wanted to change me. i basically toll this one what i wanted and how i wasn't gona change. he has accepted for who i am. and he actually likes me. i was without anyone for 2 years cuz i couldn't find someone that would accept me. it took awhile, but it was worth the wait!!!!!

nicegrl Joined Wed 11/15/06 Posts: 87	Mon 05/26/08 09:53 PM
on the type of guy. tried all different types out. not into the bad boy. so I can say havent been there. time I have on my hands. I dont know Im thinking it maybe where I live. the men here I know dont like smart women. they like us dumb and short. Dang cant do either hehe. Thank you for helping

lgo Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 1824	Mon 05/26/08 09:53 PM
Yep!! Etrain and Tankk are right. Just be yourself. You can be yourself with the right person and they will appreciate that. The E-Train is always right...all knowing...and so dead sexy I suspected as much

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Mon 05/26/08 09:54 PM
Its tough. I like to be friends with someone first and let the attraction just happen at its own speed.

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 05/26/08 09:54 PM
Yep!! Etrain and Tankk are right. Just be yourself. You can be yourself with the right person and they will appreciate that. The E-Train is always right...all knowing...and so dead sexy I suspected as much

kk35695 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 1924	Mon 05/26/08 09:56 PM
I'm the one...

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Mon 05/26/08 10:00 PM
I don't know you nicegirl but always be yourself and if they don't like you then they don't deserve you.. Not everyone is right for us no matter how much we'd like them to be... But never ever change who you are to have someone like you...

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Mon 05/26/08 10:02 PM
My Grandpa always told me ...never date a girl you wouldn't want to marry!!...You might end up there!! I LIKE THAT... WHY AM I SHOUTING?? there.. i lke that saying..