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Topic: Afraid of having kids?
poohbearface19 Joined Wed 04/23/08 Posts: 1847	Sun 05/25/08 07:39 PM
i know scary sight.rela scar sight.........but i do want a baby one day i really love children........... but i dont want too do the pushing at alll can someone volunteer an push for me........... please i dont want too

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 05/25/08 07:41 PM
i know scary sight.rela scar sight.........but i do want a baby one day i really love children........... but i dont want too do the pushing at alll can someone volunteer an push for me........... please i dont want too i couldnt do all that pushing i dont think, id rather have a c-section

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Sun 05/25/08 07:44 PM
No need to worry about being a parent .... your natural instincts will kick in ....

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 05/25/08 07:45 PM
No need to worry about being a parent .... your natural instincts will kick in .... how did you cope with the pain??

poohbearface19 Joined Wed 04/23/08 Posts: 1847	Sun 05/25/08 07:45 PM
i know how did u

Bexter Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 527	Sun 05/25/08 07:47 PM
Being a parent is not very different than dealing with any major change in your life - you adjust - every day, every hour, sometimes, every minute. The only thing sets it apart is the fact that it's an automatic lifetime commitment - no loopholes, no exit strategy, no excuses. Those of us who have been blessed with children can tell you though, it's all worth it. Allow them to be who they are and your investment of blood, sweat and tears will be paid back immeasurably. NOTE: Girls, your body will handle it - trust me. It doesnt ruin you when done right. I have been pregnant seven times and have had seven beautiful children. I am healthy as a horse even yet - have no pregnancy-related problems - even <ahemhem> 'down there'.

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Sun 05/25/08 07:49 PM
just keep active and exercise and eat healthy Ladies... childbirth isn't all that scary ... and i had three babies in two years including delivering healthy Twins naturally totaling 12 plus pounds together

poohbearface19 Joined Wed 04/23/08 Posts: 1847	Sun 05/25/08 07:49 PM
seven kids.wow..........i want too have atelast 4 or 5 .yet i have not found someone that wnats that many kids dont know why

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Sun 05/25/08 07:55 PM Edited by Rapunzel on Sun 05/25/08 08:36 PM
No need to worry about being a parent .... your natural instincts will kick in .... how did you cope with the pain?? well, Dear You just pray alot and you realize that even though it is so special... you are just one of many many women who have given birth since the dawn of time and it helps you to be stronger plus, knowing what a beautiful bundle of love and joy you are going to have, after you are all done with travail makes it all so very worthwhile.... You absolutely forget all the pain once you see your little baby

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 05/25/08 07:59 PM
No need to worry about being a parent .... your natural instincts will kick in .... how did you cope with the pain?? well, Dear You just pray alot and you realize that even though it is so special... you are just one of many many women who have given birth since the dawn of time and it helps you to be stronger plus, knowing what a beautiful bundle of love and joy you are going to have, after you are all done with travail makes it all so very worthwhile.... You absolutely forget all the pain once you see your little baby awwwwwwwww, thats beautiful, i pray i can have a child.

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Sun 05/25/08 08:27 PM Edited by Rapunzel on Sun 05/25/08 08:35 PM
No need to worry about being a parent .... your natural instincts will kick in .... how did you cope with the pain?? well, Dear You just pray alot and you realize that even though it is so special... you are just one of many many women who have given birth since the dawn of time & it helps you to be stronger plus, knowing what a beautiful bundle of love and joy you are going to have, after you are all done with your travail makes it all so very worthwhile.... You absolutely forget all the pain once you see your little baby awwwwwwwww, thats beautiful, i pray i can have a child. oooh...keep on thinking positive Debs... I've always hoped & prayed that you get to have a beautiful healthy baby Debbie and still will keep that in my prayers... and I will pray for you too pooh bear face !!!

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 05/25/08 08:28 PM
No need to worry about being a parent .... your natural instincts will kick in .... how did you cope with the pain?? well, Dear You just pray alot and you realize that even though it is so special... you are just one of many many women who have given birth since the dawn of time & it helps you to be stronger plus, knowing what a beautiful bundle of love and joy you are going to have, after you are all done with your travail makes it all so very worthwhile.... You absolutely forget all the pain once you see your little baby awwwwwwwww, thats beautiful, i pray i can have a child. oooh...keep on thinking positive Debs... I've always hoped & prayed that you get to have a beautiful healthy baby Debbie and still will keep that in my prayers... and I will pray for you too pooh bear face !!! thankyou so much for your kindness and prayers.

poohbearface19 Joined Wed 04/23/08 Posts: 1847	Mon 05/26/08 06:46 AM
SARN I REALLLLY WANT A KID FOR MEEEEEEEEEEEE

poohbearface19 Joined Wed 04/23/08 Posts: 1847	Mon 05/26/08 06:49 AM
I JUST DONT LIKE HOW WE HAVE TOO DO THME I MEAN SERIOUSLLLY CANT THEY JUST FALL DOWN LIKE IN STORIES A BIRDIES BRINGING TOO DOOOR WE ORDER ONLINE OS THEY LOOK LIKE US............. THAT WOULD BE EASIER

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Mon 05/26/08 07:00 AM
iam scared of baby getting stuck inside..mean how does it come out of such small place i dont think i could give birth naturally, i think it would kill me. I couldnt have natural child birth either.

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Mon 05/26/08 08:11 AM
Ok, I have this fear of having children of my own. Don't get me wrong, it'd be great to be a parent, but I'm afraid that if I did have kids, I wouldn't do a very good job of being a dad. That I wouldn't know what to do or how to handle things. Doesn't help that I'm an only child, and am not used to having to look out for anyone outside of myself really. I'm scared about what it would mean to be a parent, and the responsibilities that would come with it. Well, alot of knowledge is inborn in us. When you look at your child and know he is a living breathing part of you and your mate and you see the helplessness and those big loving , injudging eyes...your heart will melt and daddy mode will kick right in!

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 05/26/08 08:12 AM
iam scared of baby getting stuck inside..mean how does it come out of such small place i dont think i could give birth naturally, i think it would kill me. I couldnt have natural child birth either. ] how come??

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Mon 05/26/08 09:59 AM Edited by Rapunzel on Mon 05/26/08 10:25 AM
iam scared of baby getting stuck inside..mean how does it come out of such small place i dont think i could give birth naturally, i think it would kill me. I couldnt have natural child birth either. ] how come?? now, Girls.... don't be scared about what could happen..... that will make you nervous & uptight and fearful.... Just pray and get yourselves as healthy as you can and as strong and muscular as you can.... first make sure you have a good man , preferably a husband who will be there for you through thick and thin. and then start envisioning that little baby inside of you ... Make him real ... see him or her so close to you ... think ~ feel and speak positive and please exercise... I'm not trying to be rude so don't take it that way... and i am not accusing anyone.... but <if > you stay on line all day and sit and don't ever exercise... That is not going to help you get ready for a baby !!! and don't think that when you finally do have your baby that you are going to have time to be online.... cause you ARE NOT GOING TO HAVE TIME FOR ANYTHING EXCEPT TAKING CARE OF YOUR BABY FOR THE MOST PART ... and IF YOU WANT TO BE A really GOOD PARENT . your baby will need you 24/7 for quite a while... and if you are really dedicated , it will be so deeply engrained in you THAT YOU WILL NOT WANT TO DO ANYTHING ELSE... sooo, if you truly want to be a parent..... and a good one... start preparing yourselves... READ BOOKS... there are so many books out there nowadays... wayyyyy more than when i was a young Mom.... and take care of yourselves... EAT GOOD FOOD... THE CLOSER TO THE GARDEN THE BETTER EXERCISE YOUR BODY YOUR MIND AND YOUR SPIRIT the heavier a person is ... the harder it is sometimes for delivery and the harder it is to keep up with all the demands & needs of a tiny baby, other children, a spouse and a household... I love you all take care and God Bless you

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Mon 05/26/08 10:13 AM
IF I ever find a guy..I'm not having kids..I'm gonna adopt

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Mon 05/26/08 10:16 AM
you dont have to "push" your body just does it.... lmao i remember the doc saying dont push well i wasnt my body did it itself! i dont think anyone ever feels ready really.... especially men... the woman is more ready cause they want to lose that rock hard tummy! ready or not here it comes! after a male sees the child... and holds it he realizes how special it really is... women can kind of get that outta holding someone elses baby lol... but still none like your own...