Topic: if you??
shoesmonkey's photo
Sun 05/25/08 05:16 PM
Ya know what? It's a deserve to know basis. That's my opinion.

itsmetina's photo
Sun 05/25/08 05:17 PM


I don't think you say hi my name is Debbie its hard for me to get pregnant[which might be a plus to some men]whenever the subject comes up or you think he's seriousflowerforyou


i dont mean straight away like that, i mean do i tell him in a few weeks time, or just wait and see what happens with the relationship first?
i'd wait and see but you do what yer heart tells you:heart:

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Sun 05/25/08 05:17 PM

Ya know what? It's a deserve to know basis. That's my opinion.


i know that, i would NEVER not tell him, im just asking when is the right time.

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Sun 05/25/08 05:18 PM



I don't think you say hi my name is Debbie its hard for me to get pregnant[which might be a plus to some men]whenever the subject comes up or you think he's seriousflowerforyou


i dont mean straight away like that, i mean do i tell him in a few weeks time, or just wait and see what happens with the relationship first?
i'd wait and see but you do what yer heart tells you:heart:


thanks sweetie flowerforyou flowerforyou

Tankk's photo
Sun 05/25/08 05:19 PM


I don't think you say hi my name is Debbie its hard for me to get pregnant[which might be a plus to some men]whenever the subject comes up or you think he's seriousflowerforyou


i dont mean straight away like that, i mean do i tell him in a few weeks time, or just wait and see what happens with the relationship first?

I actually had a great childhood at home but I don't think I have the patience to put up with the noise and hyperactivity that any normal child would exhibit. I just don't want to be a meanie to a child.

lady_karan's photo
Sun 05/25/08 05:19 PM
your know when its the right time :smile:

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Sun 05/25/08 05:19 PM

don't be upset Deb, if you really want kids adopt them you can love them the same believe me I use to cry alot and I wanted a big family, but was lucky to have two and they told me no more or the two I have would not have a Mom at all.. or you can have my kids..:smile: I'll pack them up :wink:


i do get really upset, and i feel suicidal about it sometimes. i want to experince being pregnant, thats why i dont want to adopt.

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Sun 05/25/08 05:19 PM





had a illness like me called endometriosis, and it can reduce your chances of getting pregnant, how soon would you tell a man that if he was interested in you??


I'd first make sure if said man was interested in having kids, first. Some people out there just aren't interested in having kids for whatever reason there is.

Like me....flowerforyou


you dont want children, why??


My reason is as follows-

I've gone through a rather turbulent childhood, and the absolute LAST thing I would want to do is perpetuate history by putting any offspring of mine through the same kind of crap I've had to endure. I would rather not have kids than go through the ignominy of having to explain to them why mommy and daddy are getting divorced, etc.




im sorry to hear that, :heart:

lady_karan's photo
Sun 05/25/08 05:22 PM
I been in your shoes Deb don't give up and as far as the feeling part IT HURTS but you can love any baby think do you have a sister?

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Sun 05/25/08 05:24 PM

I been in your shoes Deb don't give up and as far as the feeling part IT HURTS but you can love any baby think do you have a sister?


yes i have a sister, i love my neice to bits, and the thought of not having my own kills me. my neice could be the closest thing ill ever get, but its not the same.

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Sun 05/25/08 05:24 PM





My ex-wife had this, we tryed for years before we could have a child. If you are serious with the other person and he is interested in having children you need to be up front with him from the beginning.


how many years did it take for your ex wife to get pregnant??

We both had to be tested to find out if it was me or her with the problem, they found it was her and did a operation, then put her on steriods or something like this. I guess we tried 3 or 4 years before we had our daughter.


congrats on getting your baby, its my dream to have a baby, if i cant, then i dont know what i would do. :cry:


With today advances in the medical field there are things that can be done to solve the problem. Talk to doctors, and if you don't agree with what they say get second and third opinion. It can be done, you can have a child.


tanks for those comforting words. it gives me hope, thankyou :heart: :heart:

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Sun 05/25/08 05:25 PM



I don't think you say hi my name is Debbie its hard for me to get pregnant[which might be a plus to some men]whenever the subject comes up or you think he's seriousflowerforyou


i dont mean straight away like that, i mean do i tell him in a few weeks time, or just wait and see what happens with the relationship first?

I actually had a great childhood at home but I don't think I have the patience to put up with the noise and hyperactivity that any normal child would exhibit. I just don't want to be a meanie to a child.


i understand what your saying, but i dont think you would be a meanie. flowerforyou :heart:

Tankk's photo
Sun 05/25/08 05:28 PM

i understand what your saying, but i dont think you would be a meanie. flowerforyou :heart:


Thanks for being so sweet!flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou :heart:

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Sun 05/25/08 05:30 PM


i understand what your saying, but i dont think you would be a meanie. flowerforyou :heart:


Thanks for being so sweet!flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou :heart:


thankyou, im just saying the truth. :heart: :heart:

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Sun 05/25/08 06:05 PM



I don't think you say hi my name is Debbie its hard for me to get pregnant[which might be a plus to some men]whenever the subject comes up or you think he's seriousflowerforyou


i dont mean straight away like that, i mean do i tell him in a few weeks time, or just wait and see what happens with the relationship first?

I actually had a great childhood at home but I don't think I have the patience to put up with the noise and hyperactivity that any normal child would exhibit. I just don't want to be a meanie to a child.


Not all children are noisy and hyperactive. flowerforyou

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Sun 05/25/08 06:10 PM

had a illness like me called endometriosis, and it can reduce your chances of getting pregnant, how soon would you tell a man that if he was interested in you??
i have that... but got it after i had all 3 children... pregnancy isnt the only problem with it so id tell him right away.... print him out a paper on it.... still they have a hard time understanding that u go in labor once a month and have break through bleeding at the oddest times.... he needs to know and understand it...flowerforyou flowerforyou try a dnc scrape works for some.... did for me for three months but some it lasts a long timeflowerforyou

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Sun 05/25/08 06:12 PM


had a illness like me called endometriosis, and it can reduce your chances of getting pregnant, how soon would you tell a man that if he was interested in you??
i have that... but got it after i had all 3 children... pregnancy isnt the only problem with it so id tell him right away.... print him out a paper on it.... still they have a hard time understanding that u go in labor once a month and have break through bleeding at the oddest times.... he needs to know and understand it...flowerforyou flowerforyou try a dnc scrape works for some.... did for me for three months but some it lasts a long timeflowerforyou


they have done a lot of surgery on me, but its all failed.

buttons's photo
Sun 05/25/08 06:13 PM
id wait to tell him after u meet himlaugh laugh laugh but not right away see if you want to go further with him first.... and my ex sister inlaw had it really bad.... took her 2 yrs to get pregnant... come to find out her hubby was low on sperm countlaugh laugh so it wouldnt even of taken her 2 yrslaugh flowerforyou

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Sun 05/25/08 06:14 PM

had a illness like me called endometriosis, and it can reduce your chances of getting pregnant, how soon would you tell a man that if he was interested in you??
:heart: right away, like others have said.
My daughter-in-law had that and was worried alot about it.
But now they have a daughter who just turned 4 and very beautiful...so you never know til that time,wink..
I wish you alot of luck and love your way....:heart: :smile:

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Sun 05/25/08 06:14 PM
did they try pegestrone? i was allergic to thatgrumble