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Edited by
LouLou2
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what do you think?
We were talking about women's sex drive and whether it waxes and wanes over time. I said that once I reached an age that pregnancy was no longer a concern for me, I felt my sex drive actually increased, but, unfortunately, I have no one with whom to share this new-found/invigorated interest. He says that if a person is not sexually active, then they have no sex drive! Question - is he right? Are desire and deed somehow inseparable? I think he is mistaken...very mistaken . |
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he is mistaken in my opinion
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He's mistaken...very very very very very mistaken.
Did I mention he was mistaken??? |
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He's mistaken...very very very very very mistaken. Did I mention he was mistaken??? |
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i may not have any passengers, but i'm still drivin the bus
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I haven't been sexually active that much in my life,in fact it's been almost a year.But I tell ya what I feel like I'm in overdrive right now,maybe I'm in my prime or something,but I don't think I'll ever lose my sex drive.
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i may not have any passengers, but i'm still drivin the bus |
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i may not have any passengers, but i'm still drivin the bus Has an SUV and still drives |
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I haven't been sexually active that much in my life,in fact it's been almost a year.But I tell ya what I feel like I'm in overdrive right now,maybe I'm in my prime or something,but I don't think I'll ever lose my sex drive. |
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VERY mistaken. I'm partial to doggy style
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VERY mistaken. I'm partial to doggy style |
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I don't think about it much now,,, but I have no one to think about so their you go,,, Why make thinking's worst??
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he is very mistaken ....
actully, I don't think he could not be more wrong! LOL |
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VERY mistaken. I'm partial to doggy style |
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Could not be more mistaken...
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very, very wrong
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So very very wrong!!!! Matter of fact I have more of a sexdrive since I'm single. Maybe I was married to the wrong guy??? And no, don't have anyone to share the joy with either.
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Edited by
Drivinmenutz
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Sat 05/24/08 09:23 PM
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what do you think? We were talking about women's sex drive and whether it waxes and wanes over time. I said that once I reached an age that pregnancy was no longer a concern for me, I felt my sex drive actually increased, but, unfortunately, I have no one with whom to share this new-found/invigorated interest. He says that if a person is not sexually active, then they have no sex drive! Question - is he right? Are desire and deed somehow inseparable? I think he is mistaken...very mistaken . You're friend made an incorrect assumption However, the less you have sex, the less you want it. This is proven to be true, at least while you are in a relationship and there aren't any outside factors (like distance). This is why when couples say they dont have sex often enough councelors sometimes suggest they have sex, regularly (like every night before bed). The partners will crave the sex more and more as it becomes a habit. Anyway, with age it is true, we do lose much of our sex drive. This happens earlier in men than it does women. Age does inhibit, but it won't necesarily destroy. Another factor is length of the relationship. Relationships go through stages. Unfortunately when you reach the comfort stage you lose some of the desire to rip your partner's clothes off. (Comfort concides with loss of infactuation, but strengthening love) There are some who keep this "honeymoon stage" of the relationship going, sometimes through it's entirety. To couples that can do that. |
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what do you think? We were talking about women's sex drive and whether it waxes and wanes over time. I said that once I reached an age that pregnancy was no longer a concern for me, I felt my sex drive actually increased, but, unfortunately, I have no one with whom to share this new-found/invigorated interest. He says that if a person is not sexually active, then they have no sex drive! Question - is he right? Are desire and deed somehow inseparable? I think he is mistaken...very mistaken . You're friend made an incorrect assumption However, the less you have sex, the less you want it. This is proven to be true, at least while you are in a relationship and there aren't any outside factors (like distance). This is why when couples say they dont have sex often enough councelors sometimes suggest they have sex, regularly (like every night before bed). The partners will crave the sex more and more as it becomes a habit. Anyway, with age it is true, we do lose much of our sex drive. This happens earlier in men than it does women. Age does inhibit, but it won't necesarily destroy. Another factor is length of the relationship. Relationships go through stages. Unfortunately when you reach the comfort stage you lose some of the desire to rip your partner's clothes off. (Comfort concides with loss of infactuation, but strengthening love) There are some who keep this "honeymoon stage" of the relationship going, sometimes through it's entirety. To couples that can do that. WOW!! |
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what do you think? We were talking about women's sex drive and whether it waxes and wanes over time. I said that once I reached an age that pregnancy was no longer a concern for me, I felt my sex drive actually increased, but, unfortunately, I have no one with whom to share this new-found/invigorated interest. He says that if a person is not sexually active, then they have no sex drive! Question - is he right? Are desire and deed somehow inseparable? I think he is mistaken...very mistaken . They are wrong! My own experience says so! |
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